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the confidence of youth

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lemongrove Sun 26-Nov-17 16:04:10

.....and back to Brexit again! Some people just can’t help it.grin

varian Sun 26-Nov-17 16:02:38

Day6 says "we live and learn". We can only hope that we don't stop learning even at our age. It might not take ten years, perhaps in five years or less some hard lessons will be learned.

lemongrove Sun 26-Nov-17 15:59:39

Unpleasant and unnecessary varian I do wonder how you would like a comment directed to you like that?
Not at all I suspect.
This is not a political thread.

merlotgran Sun 26-Nov-17 15:09:32

I have a feeling this is going to turn into another anti Brexit thread hmm

varian Sun 26-Nov-17 14:59:18

I wonder Day6 whether in ten years time you might look back and think that you were pretty foolish at the age you are now and wish that you had known a year or two back what you may understand by then.

Day6 Sun 26-Nov-17 14:42:51

Yes, we live and learn. I wish I knew in my youth what I know now.
I made lots of mistakes when young because I didn't think things through, but they were all good lessons.

lemongrove Sun 26-Nov-17 14:19:23

Were they optimistic or foolhardy though?
If it hadn’t been for you and your trolley, they wouldn’t have got in into their van, and you say ‘they did tie it up,sort of’ ! grin
Moving pianos is better left to those who have experience of it.
In this case, they were treating it like a freezer.
I am of an optimistic nature generally, but older people do see pitfalls which is actually a good thing, it compensates for actually being older.

Day6 Sun 26-Nov-17 14:09:27

But it made me realise how much more young people are capable of than we older people, with all our anxieties and cautiousness. Always thinking of what's going to go wrong.

Do we?
I have to say that is a bit of a sweeping generalisation. I am an optimistic 'can do' sort of person and often have to buoy up the younger generation of the family who see obstacles where there might not be any. They are often much more aware of risks. smile

I don't think optimism depends on age.

Ilovecheese Sun 26-Nov-17 13:38:22

Yes, we should try and emulate their optimism.

Fennel Sun 26-Nov-17 13:21:07

We're trying to sell some of our belongings before we move, including my piano, a nice little Yamaha upright.
Someone from ebay has bought it and came to collect it today. A young man in his early 20s, it will be an Xmas present for his girlfriend; He and 2 mates with him, all full of enthusiasm and positive thinking.
They tried to lift it bodily shock, eventually got it going with a trolley of ours.
Then into their van - what a pantomime! I hope and pray they get home safely. They did tie it up - sort of.
But it made me realise how much more young people are capable of than we older people, with all our anxieties and cautiousness. Always thinking of what's going to go wrong.
Let's hope that such young, confident positive people in the UK can take over to see us through the future years.