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the confidence of youth

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Fennel Sun 26-Nov-17 13:21:07

We're trying to sell some of our belongings before we move, including my piano, a nice little Yamaha upright.
Someone from ebay has bought it and came to collect it today. A young man in his early 20s, it will be an Xmas present for his girlfriend; He and 2 mates with him, all full of enthusiasm and positive thinking.
They tried to lift it bodily shock, eventually got it going with a trolley of ours.
Then into their van - what a pantomime! I hope and pray they get home safely. They did tie it up - sort of.
But it made me realise how much more young people are capable of than we older people, with all our anxieties and cautiousness. Always thinking of what's going to go wrong.
Let's hope that such young, confident positive people in the UK can take over to see us through the future years.

Chewbacca Sun 26-Nov-17 18:59:41

Earlier this summer, some young neighbours of mine were moving from their house near me, to further up the village. They borrowed a flat bed truck to move their furniture and dozens of black bin liners, stuffed to bursting. Between our end of the village, and the bit that they were moving to, is a very steep hill with a blind bend right at the top. They set off, fully loaded. Just as they got to the blind bend, a large van came towards them at high speed. Brakes were slammed on, everything shot to the back of the truck, the back flap shot down and their furniture and black bin liners were scattered far and wide! The road had to be closed for a couple of hours whilst they collected their splintered furniture. And the daft thing was that if they'd turned their truck around before they set off, they could have gone along a perfectly flat road with no bends at all. But "the other way was quicker" apparently grin

Fennel Sun 26-Nov-17 19:00:20

Too true, loopyloo.
A more appropriate requiem for my dear piano:
www.youtube.com/watch?v=XUNOmN3YVL0

chicken Sun 26-Nov-17 20:53:33

We've had many a piano, grand and upright, moved in or out of our house, always by professional movers, and it can be quite a hairy business. Years ago, a couple of small brothers came to move a large grand. They were very quiet and polite and got the piano on end on their trolley when it slipped. In a totally expressionless voice, not raised by one iota, the smallest brother said" Oh Fred, you have dropped that piano on my toe." On another occasion, the movers had to get an upright piano up a narrow flight of stairs and round two sharp bends. They looked at the access ( or lack of it) and said to me " If I were you, madam, I'd take a little walk down the garden right now while we sort this out"-- so I did. How they managed, I shall never know, but I expect the blue air was a lubricant!

Jalima1108 Sun 26-Nov-17 23:09:34

And go for it, Jalima!
Perhaps not tonight as DH has gone to sleep although I feel quite wide awake having slept through Blue Planet shock

New Year's Resolution!

Jalima1108 Sun 26-Nov-17 23:11:41

Yes, the traditional pianos are very heavy and every time they are moved they need tuning.
When we sold ours I was ashamed to see all the cobwebs lurking behind it blush - it was far too heavy to move although we did get it tuned regularly.

Jalima1108 Sun 26-Nov-17 23:15:36

You have told us many times that you voted Remain.
Oh dear, DH says I repeat myself
but that's because he never acknowledges what I say

lemongrove Mon 27-Nov-17 10:01:54

chicken......is that where the ‘right said Fred’ song came from?

Greyduster Mon 27-Nov-17 10:19:31

Top of my bucket list is to play a station piano. There seem to be quite a lot dotted about but I have never been able to pluck up the courage to sit down and play one! I have only once ever seen anyone else playing one.
Congratulations to the youngsters who got yours into a van, fennel; I hope they manage to find, and can afford, a piano tuner when they get it off again - they will almost certainly need it ?!

patriciageegee Mon 27-Nov-17 10:40:51

What a lovely positive post fennel it really gave the flavour of giddy 'can-do and have a laugh while we're doing it' carefree days of youth. Thanks for sharing and making me smile

chicken Mon 27-Nov-17 10:42:11

lemongrove----the song came long before our piano move. Anyway, Fred's piano was an old upright wiv fings wot 'old the candles!

Jaycee5 Mon 27-Nov-17 10:45:50

varian If that wasn't what you meant, why the unpleasant comment?
You could just apologise if you did not mean to be unpleasant but you are being a bit disingenuous.
I would always encourage young people to be optimistic. There are too many 'what if' people in the UK - it is the one thing that I prefer about the US - but people need encouragement and to know that failing is not the end of the world.

Poly580 Mon 27-Nov-17 11:50:33

Bought myself a baby grand when I retired. Got it home myself, seller helped me lift it in and my hubby helped me lift it out.
I can only imagine how happy his girlfriend is going to be. What a gift and what thoughtful young man.

Jalima1108 Mon 27-Nov-17 12:07:38

Yes indeed, she's a lucky girl!

Are you going to buy something to replace it after you've moved Fennel?

NameChange2016 Mon 27-Nov-17 12:24:23

I know a gentleman who was given piano lessons by his stern Scottish grandmother when he was a little boy. He hated them and gave up as soon as he could.

He recently decided to start learning again and has been having lessons. He passed his grade 1 with flying colours and is enjoying grade 2. He will be 70 next birthday!

Wheniwasyourage Mon 27-Nov-17 12:25:25

Surely Laurel and Hardy did the definitive demonstration of how not to move a piano in 'The Music Box'? Including taking it the more difficult way round like your young neighbours, Chewbacca!

Jalima1108 Mon 27-Nov-17 12:48:44

And who can forget Morecambe and Wise with Mr Preview?

Rather like me, playing all the right notes - but not necessarily in the right order.

Sheilasue Mon 27-Nov-17 13:12:53

Hear hear Fennel.

sarahellenwhitney Mon 27-Nov-17 13:37:27

Jalimal108
My piano lessons were wasted too. My teacher was a b*** and would let me carry on and take my mothers money knowing I would never make Carnegie.

Nanny27 Mon 27-Nov-17 13:46:51

Ok I've read from the beginning and still don't get it! Who said what and why are folk getting annoyed. I'm either very naive or simply a bit thick!

So hope the piano arrived in one piece and that his girlfriend loves it.

Jalima1108 Mon 27-Nov-17 14:33:42

I never got beyond 'In an English Country Garden' - and my piano teacher didn't believe in exams either. So I didn't even get Grade 1.

Direne3 Mon 27-Nov-17 14:36:30

merlotgran's reference to a milk float reminded me of a house move when I was a teenager. We were moving across the road to what had been a very old village pub. Our piano was extremely heavy so neighbours were enlisted to haul it across the road on a farmer's milk float, heaved it up the front steps and down a creaky wooden floored passage to what we called 'the end place'. It was a few days later that dad discovered that the passage was suspended above the beer cellar and was propped up by a rotten pillar - he said that his blood ran cold when he thought of what could have ensued.

Direne3 Mon 27-Nov-17 14:42:08

Three years of weekly lessons and an hours practice every evening and I still can't play. The teacher was very nice but the old style of teaching music that I did not know was never going to work.

Greyduster Mon 27-Nov-17 15:52:03

It’s an expensive business these days, learning to play the piano. I started to learn again when we stopped globe trotting and bought our first house. I got to grade 5 and came to the conclusion that I wasn’t going to get any better than that, and I may as well save the thirteen pounds fifty per half hour that it was costing me. Totted up over a year, it amounted to a goodly sum. When I started, it had been ten pounds. I liked my piano teacher. We got on okay except for when I told him that I didn’t care for Mozart much. I thought he was going to throw me out of the house bodily!!

Jalima1108 Mon 27-Nov-17 16:42:18

DD's piano teacher has retired now but for a few years before she did retire a good proportion of her students were adults.

Fennel Mon 27-Nov-17 17:01:58

I got up to Grade 4 with my one and only piano teacher, then the poor man died. But by then I'd got the skills to tackle a big range of music.
As a teenager I had a book of Fats Waller songs (anyone remember?)
I had an email from the young man who bought the piano to say he got home safely - 250 miles each way!