MissAdventure, so sorry for your heartbreaking loss 
Regarding coffee shops, I used to favour Costa, in fact for a good few years I was a big fan. These days I prefer to patronise individual coffee shops, there are quite a few in my local high street, that wasn't the case when we first moved here. I think it's much better to try and help a local business succeed with everything that's loaded against them. Totnes in Devon won't let any of the multi nationals in, they want to preserve local shops. It's a lovely place with a multitude of great coffee shops far better than the Costas, Cafe Nero and worst of all Starbucks.