Hence the farce that was the referendum. Cameron did not know what the heck to do about the EU who never listened to the needs of Britain and his members were getting restive, so he thought he would pass the buck by asking "the country" what to do, oblivious to the fact that, like you Bluegal, most of us were not in possession of sufficient information to make that decision.
So.......various factions who wanted to give Cameron a kick in the balls got together to become Brexiteers.
The real issues about the decision were never debated and it became a political game.
A referendum should not be party political; the public should be supplied with the necessary information, in the form of sources of impartial facts, to make a decision.
The complexities of either staying in or leaving the EU on so many fronts are really the realm of experts.
So don't feel bad Bluegal - you and the rest of the country!