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BREXIT? Am I just plain stupid?

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durhamjen Wed 15-Nov-17 18:27:30

Lemon, I think that Bluegal would feel happier if you told her what leavers like you are happy about.
It might help her.

Luckygirl Wed 15-Nov-17 18:17:08

Hence the farce that was the referendum. Cameron did not know what the heck to do about the EU who never listened to the needs of Britain and his members were getting restive, so he thought he would pass the buck by asking "the country" what to do, oblivious to the fact that, like you Bluegal, most of us were not in possession of sufficient information to make that decision.

So.......various factions who wanted to give Cameron a kick in the balls got together to become Brexiteers.

The real issues about the decision were never debated and it became a political game.

A referendum should not be party political; the public should be supplied with the necessary information, in the form of sources of impartial facts, to make a decision.

The complexities of either staying in or leaving the EU on so many fronts are really the realm of experts.

So don't feel bad Bluegal - you and the rest of the country!

whitewave Wed 15-Nov-17 18:01:09

Well I think that is certainly true of the government.

varian Wed 15-Nov-17 18:00:26

You are so right Bluegal so what would ever make anyone think this confusion is a good idea?

Bluegal Wed 15-Nov-17 17:48:19

Er...thanks for that Lemongrove. Forums aren't the best place to ask?

I was kind of hoping someone on the forum could put it in simple terms that a simpleton could understand. Reading up on the subject, going on-line etc doesn't make it any clearer to me. Failing that...I am pleased to hear others feel the same way as me! Nobody really knows what it all means!!!

lemongrove Wed 15-Nov-17 17:33:06

Bluegal grin do not make the mistake of thinking other grans on here know enough about the Brexit process to tell you all about it......we are leaving that to the government to get the best deal we can.Those of us who voted Leave are happy about things, those who voted Remain are not, simple as that.Read up on the subject from all kinds of internet sources but not forums!

Nonnie Wed 15-Nov-17 17:29:33

It is all very simple! 27 countries v 1 country, they win, we lose. Conservatives lose next election because nobody is happy with the 'deal', Labour win and say it was all the Tory's fault that we are in this mess.

Does it need further explanation? grin

M0nica Wed 15-Nov-17 17:28:33

I'm an economist and I do not understand it. (and I voted remain)

whitewave Wed 15-Nov-17 17:03:40

bluegal

Actually voting to remain showed that you understood quite a lot I think, and showed a good deal of intelligence.

If you are interested just go on the Brexit thread and ask any question you like. We are all such geeks we will be thrilled to reply grin

petra Wed 15-Nov-17 16:48:11

Bluegal
I'm assuming from your post that you want to understand what it all means, yes?
If so, why don't you search it. But beware, it can become slightly addictive grin

varian Wed 15-Nov-17 16:39:26

Bluegal you are certainly not dim, and not unusual. I am sure there are very many good people like you who want the best for our country, but are now getting worn down by the ghastly brexit process. You probably want to get on with your life, or get your life back.

The Leave campaign had a good slogan "take back control". But what is now becoming clear to everyone is that we will be giving up control. The UK, even our MPs, do not seem to have control of this destructive process. The brexit bullies in the Tory party have a disproportionate influence over a PM who is trying to take control away from parliament.

Do you read any of the threads on thew News and Politics forum Bluegal? This thread might get better answers there.

Tegan2 Wed 15-Nov-17 16:34:17

Same here, Bluegal [and I do read/listen/discuss a lot of political stuff]. I'll be honest and say that, prior to the referendum I knew nothing 'single markets','customs unions' etc etc. It's been a steep learning curve. However, the more I do learn the more I'm convinced that my 'remain' vote was the correct one, it was outvoted because the gutter press used lies and deceit to encourage people to vote to leave. Having said that, it is important to listen to both sides of the argument and I'm sure brexiters will be here to convince you that what we're doing is good for the country and will give you lots of examples to prove it.

PamelaJ1 Wed 15-Nov-17 16:31:38

No clue, I’m just hoping it will all turn out for the best.

whitewave Wed 15-Nov-17 16:31:34

I am totally unclear what any of us as individuals will be gaining from leaving, and I am dead sure any brexiter will be unable to explain either.

I am sure what we will be losing, but that isn’t what is being asked for here.

tanith Wed 15-Nov-17 16:29:53

I now tend to tune out when it starts to go 'over my head' I now just think its happening whether I like it or not (I don't) what will be will be now I have no control . Its like train heading for the buffers in my eyes.

varian Wed 15-Nov-17 16:23:45

More than 500 days after the vote, the brexit negotiators seem to have achieved very little. This doesn't seem to worry some Leavers who always thought it would be easy.

Meanwhile the brexit press has to scrabble about trying to find some "brexit bonus" they can declaim to pull the wool over the eyes of their readers, our PM gets more and more strident and desperate and most of us Remainers, who realised it would never be easy, let alone good for the UK, are feeling more and more worried.

Devorgilla Wed 15-Nov-17 16:19:54

Bluegal, join the club. Not even the Brexiters know what is it all about. They haven't a clue so why should we? It's happening - go with the flow and complain bitterly when it doesn't deliver what we were all promised.
I stand firmly behind the 15 Brexit Mutineers as featured in the Daily Telegraph and I don't even vote Tory.

Bluegal Wed 15-Nov-17 16:15:10

I am 64 years old, voted to stay in EU but we were outvoted.

I have no IDEA what all the talks on Brexit actually mean? OK...readily admit I am not the brightest (political) spark in the box but when I hear discussions, I have absolutely no idea what they are going on about? Do I just tune out somehow? Could I make any sense if I paid more attention?

What the heck does it all mean?

Any pointers would be most and truly appreciated. Help this old foggie understand what is going on Aaaarahhhhh