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What a lot of miserable old buggers some of you are!

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Anya Wed 08-Nov-17 10:50:29

I’ll post then run for the hills ???

Just reading through threads this morning and left asking ‘is it me?’

An example, someone comes up with an idea they are really keen on and at least half the posters rain on their parade. Or someone is asking for advice and off some of us go just talking about ourselves and ignoring the OP’s request. Reminds me of those ‘friends’ (ex-friends) who monopolise the conversation.

Then there’s those who seem to think you and on the downward side of the hill after you hit 70 and are getting rid of ‘stuff’ from their lives, presumably in expectation of shuffling off this mortal coil in the not too distance future. Now I’m not a hoarder by any means and anything that wasn’t beautiful, useful or had sentimental value was ditched along the way even when I was young. So what is their point now?

Then there’s the old sparring partners who’ve been getting digs (and sometimes ‘slings and arrows’) at a particular poster who they fell out with in 1066 and seem to live for the chance to twist the knife.

And of course, extremely irritating, those who don’t read the thread and other posts and say exactly what I’ve just said as if they had just had the most amazing idea. And even more irritating those who comment on that post ‘that’s a great idea why didn’t someone else think if thst?’ (they did - me ?) making it a double whammy. Grrrr...

Then, there those with a listening ear, a bit of common sense and, above all, logic ....thank god.

PamelaJ1 Thu 09-Nov-17 20:01:09

I was a flower child in the late 60’s.
I got refused entry to the Penninsula hotel in HK because I wasn’t wearing anything on my feet. I did have a bell round my neck tho’ and you’d think that would have been enough to reassure them of my respectability!
What happened to that girl?

Jalima1108 Thu 09-Nov-17 17:13:21

grumppa wink

#POW

Madgran77 Thu 09-Nov-17 17:12:04

Well I try to apply logic and look at things from more than one perspective when advising....I also try to point out when I feel others have unfairly not done that!! I confess to being a GW and almost losing the will to live when people comment with no real reference to the OP. Sometimes I just cant bear to keep scrolling and reading, so I comment referencing the original thread ...which means I might end up repeating what another poster has said...which may not be a bad thing if whatever is being said more than once, helps the OP!

grin

Jalima1108 Thu 09-Nov-17 17:11:20

This is how I picture some of the grumpies
I have given up trying to straighten my hair into a nice silky bob like that merlotgran.

Otherwise, the likeness is amazing - how did you know?
grin

Bathsheba Thu 09-Nov-17 16:08:25

NanKate grin

I fancied a boy like mad in my teens, saw him in a dimly lit nightclub and went up to talk to him. I put my right hand on his arm as we were talking...... and when I took it off I found three of my false nails were sticking up from his fuzzy mohair sweater shock grin. I beat a hasty retreat!

BBbevan Thu 09-Nov-17 15:26:17

Spent the first half of the 60s at art school, doing what art students did ! The second half , I was unexpectedly a mother. But I loved it and had been with DH for a few years before. We are still together after 52 yrs.
I don't feel old. Well just a bit as we have been gardening all day. I am rarely grumpy and mostly happy and contented

NanKate Thu 09-Nov-17 15:10:07

In the 60s I was in a bit of a tight clinch with some chap and I was worried he would try and run his fingers through my hair, as I was wearing a rather fetching wig. ?

Bathsheba Thu 09-Nov-17 13:10:50

I spent the 60s in terror that something exciting was going to happen and Id have to join in!

I remember a party in the 60s in London. It was a very groovy affair in a huge mansion of a place in St James's Square. The colleague who'd invited me was a friend of the girl whose parents were housekeeper and butler there - I think she'd nicked the key when she knew the house would be empty shock. Anyway, there we all were, sitting on the floor in a dark room, lit only by candlelight (the power was switched off) and spliffs were being passed around. I am embarrassed to admit (and I was embarrassed then too) that I passed the spliff on without trying it, thanking God for the dark room so no-one noticed what a coward goody two shoes I was grin

kittylester Thu 09-Nov-17 12:21:35

I spent the 60s in terror that something exciting was going to happen and Id have to join in! shock

gillybob Thu 09-Nov-17 11:27:21

I thought I would share this photograph of me taken recently. It was taken when I was in a particularly good mood.

Galen Thu 09-Nov-17 11:27:11

nellie try googling the llama song!

Nelliemoser Thu 09-Nov-17 11:25:13

Here is grumpy. I am related to one of them!
(I could not resist the likeness. )

Galen Thu 09-Nov-17 11:18:21

I spent the 60s studying then working as a House doctor on 72 hour days, then as a GP. Oh! And I got married and bought a house sometime during them. I’m still working PT and when I’m not, I’ll feel grumpy if I want to!
It’s a habit by now!

grumppa Thu 09-Nov-17 10:58:31

"No doubt the men on GN will soon be here to defend themselves and tell us that they are always positive, optimistic and helpful in a non-partisan way."

Very well put, Jalima. I couldn't have expressed it better myself. My Gransnet name is of course entirely ironical.

sunseeker Thu 09-Nov-17 10:54:01

I'd vote for a POW emoji! Of course everyone knows I am practically perfect with no faults but just very occasionally I do feel like a POW! grin

POGS Thu 09-Nov-17 10:47:42

So now I have posted on the thread does that mean I am let off as being seen as a GOW por favor.

I don't mean out of Merlots cannon! grin

ffinnochio Thu 09-Nov-17 10:44:34

? POW.

#foundone

merlotgran Thu 09-Nov-17 10:39:35

This is how I picture some of the grumpies grin

ffinnochio Thu 09-Nov-17 10:36:52

I’d love a POW emoji!

ffinnochio Thu 09-Nov-17 10:34:22

Grumpy Old Woman sounds so drab and old fashioned. Much rather be a POW - pissed-off woman.
Probably a bit sweary for some. hmm

merlotgran Thu 09-Nov-17 10:32:17

Knowing my aim, Jalima, I'd miss. grin

Jalima1108 Thu 09-Nov-17 10:24:11

Call it 'letting off steam' gillybob

gillybob Thu 09-Nov-17 10:23:17

I recognise myself as a GW (notice I took out the O).

I hate being a misery guts and I really didn't used to be. I think perhaps I am just a victim of my very hard paper round. hmm

Jalima1108 Thu 09-Nov-17 10:08:21

is that the shit aiming at the fan merlotgran?

kittylester Thu 09-Nov-17 10:07:32

This is in danger of getting philosophical! grin