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grandMattie Sun 10-Sept-17 14:51:17

Having just changed the loo roll for the umpteenth time, it made me wonder why it was always my turn to do so?
It's also my turn to wash the saucepans - DH's domain is "his" dishwasher; I'm not allowed to load it as I do it "wrong"!
But it is also my turn to fold the clean towels, etc. We are both retired. OK he does the bill paying but it is not relentless day to day stuff.
Whinge over! grin

tigger Mon 11-Sept-17 20:51:48

Mawbroon, You protest too much!

phoenix Mon 11-Sept-17 20:47:23

There seems to be a bit of a trend lately for sort of light hearted OP's to be "jumped" on. sad

MawBroon Mon 11-Sept-17 20:47:02

It should be obvious to anyone who knows Serkeen's OH was in hospital for WEEKS ( if not months) that I am sure she would have given anything to have him home again, loo roll changing duties or not, and there will be others like her who can still have a laugh about their OH's failings while just wishing they had them back to "moan at".

tigger Mon 11-Sept-17 20:43:46

Many thanks Imperfect 27 for your post, appreciated but sorry I cannot agree. Personally I feel extremely sorry for the OP who I thought posted a very light hearted Monday morning whinge. She could not have anticipated what eventually followed which developed into an acrimonious exchange of views IMO fuelled by Mawbroon. If Mawbroon has any complaints about my posts, then I would urge her to make a complaint.

MawBroon Mon 11-Sept-17 20:41:48

Flipping eck
My post to Serkeen!was entirely sincere and intended to be supportive.
Are you in a parallel universe or what?

Imperfect27 Mon 11-Sept-17 19:46:48

tigger I don't do 'taking sides'. However, I do think you may have misread / misunderstood the nature of Maw's post to Serkeen, to my mind it was intended to be supportive.

Ah the perils of the written word ...

Trixee Mon 11-Sept-17 19:15:39

Sorry, meant to add, 'use the toilet as a bidet'.

Trixee Mon 11-Sept-17 19:12:47

Well, we hardly use any toilet paper, there is a plastic jug and soap within easy reach of both loos. During the war people were encouraged to 'bottle wash', as hot water for baths was a luxury. DH thinks it's an excellent idea, I am pleased to say.

tigger Mon 11-Sept-17 19:11:31

You just can't help yourself can you Mawbroon (Serkeen's post). What a snide post!!! and whatever happened to "End Of"?

W11girl Mon 11-Sept-17 18:37:37

You are not on your own! Same here! Before anyone says leave it and see what happens, I did exactly that withthe lawn in the back garden, it was up to my knees before I had to tackle it myself!!

MawBroon Mon 11-Sept-17 18:30:32

Now you DO have reason to moan Serkeen - not that you ever seem to.
All those weeks when he was in hospital I bet you would have just been grateful to have him home NOT to change the loo rolls!

Serkeen Mon 11-Sept-17 18:17:06

Ellie Why would he when he has you that comes along and does it for him, what would he do if you did not..

Ellie Anne Mon 11-Sept-17 18:13:42

My gripe is a soaking wet hand towel every day after he's been shaving. Has never changed it in his life!

Serkeen Mon 11-Sept-17 17:46:15

Your lucky that he pays the bills I pay all the bills in my house and do all the cleaning except from washing up and changing the loo role sad

Tessa101 Mon 11-Sept-17 17:31:25

Surely we are allowed to post anything on her as long as it's in the guidelines. I don't want to have to worry or think am I going to get critisized every time I want to post something.Of course we are all fully aware of what is going on in our world, surely even more reason to have some light hearted posts.I totally agree with izzywizzy.

rentawitch Mon 11-Sept-17 16:59:44

Stop changing the roll and folding the towels. Stick it out and see how long before he notices reacts. The world may be going to hell in a handbasket. It doesnt stop these niggles driving one crazy.

Teddy123 Mon 11-Sept-17 16:53:54

maw Oscar was right! You do appear to be highly intelligent. I, on the other hand, am decidedly thick and uneducated. All the best to you x

Daisydoo2 Mon 11-Sept-17 16:17:55

My other half never changes the toilet roll, he instead alerts me that it is running low... how considerate - not. My late husband was no better, he used to say "put your feet up and have a rest, you can do the housework later"! hmm

MawBroon Mon 11-Sept-17 16:15:04

Who is attacking whose grammar, what grammar, where????

And if you did not want to read my link, that is fine by me, as you say your interests clearly lie elsewhere.
It WAS a good and worthwhile scheme though!

queenofsaanich69 Mon 11-Sept-17 16:09:43

I always have to change the roll,the way I look at it is at least I can have it the way round I like it,see previous posts re this !!!

MawBroon Mon 11-Sept-17 16:03:10

I am not feeling sorry for myself grin!!
See my comment "Oo-er missus"
Have you honestly never come across it before??

tigger Mon 11-Sept-17 15:52:36

I am someone who feels seriously offended by the misrepresentation of my posts. As you well know my comment re sarcasm was directed at your "missus" and not the link you posted. So now you are feeling sorry for yourself and when all else fails attack the grammar, a well known tactic. Stop chopping logic and crying all over the place.

MawBroon Mon 11-Sept-17 15:39:05

"A few quizzical,emotions"??
Well slap my wrist.
I bet GNHQ never intended us to use any of those!
A couple of "confused" confused, a couple of grins grin and a hmm hmm. Note to self, must avoid those in future.
My comment to illtellhim was NOT. Sarcastic as I hope she realises, but heck, why am I justifying myself to you?
Do you regulate which emoticons may be used? Pontificating that "sarcasm is the lowest form of wit" ignores the second half of the quotation (by Oscar Wilde) which is
"...but the highest form of intelligence "

May I also add that izzywizzy presumably spotted where I felt I had been at the receiving end of rudeness (thank you for your apology izzy)
Thanks a bunch all those who have felt this is Open Season on Mawbroon bashing.
I hope it has made you feel warm and fuzzy inside, I hope you are suitably lightheartedly amused by the barbs shot off in my direction, as we all like a lighthearted amusing thread.

I would like to say I am hurt or indeed that I care, but this says it better.

Teddy123 Mon 11-Sept-17 15:25:32

grandMattie well your post made me smile. My DH always changes the toilet roll in his bathroom and for some reason leaves the empty cardboard roll on the shelf. Perhaps he's planning do a 'Blue Peter' with them.

And to maw I noticed a few quizzical emoticons in your posts too! Sarcasm is the lowest form of wit. Izzywizzy summed up perfectly IMO.

Blownupdolly Mon 11-Sept-17 15:19:01

Sorry, my previous post was in reply to Eglantine19s post