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MissAdventure Sun 10-Sept-17 12:33:26

I can also recall a programme where children were given plasticene, and whilst the girls made pies and food with it, all carefully colour coordinated, the boys squashed it all together, after making things for fighting with. grin

ninathenana Sun 10-Sept-17 12:30:28

Oh dear, rather you than me.
I think norose has a point, active past times would seem the way to go. I do appreciate that some of us GN's me included find being out and about 'doing stuff' a bit difficult.

MissAdventure Sun 10-Sept-17 12:30:09

I think boys seem generally more active and fidgety than girls. I can remember my friends little boy biting his sandwich into something he thought resembled a plane, which then got 'flown' around, with sound effects..

Luckygirl Sun 10-Sept-17 12:30:08

Yes - he has done the rampaging around the garden this morning and the jigsaw was my (failed!) attempt to wind him down a bit. Confession - they are watching Charlie and Chocolate Factory at the moment.

I had 3 little girls and they were very physically active, but also had the ability to be still and to play by themselves. One of my DDs was dyslexic and could not even begin to understand maths - she, like this little lad, was (and is) the most loving and warm of personalities.

norose4 Sun 10-Sept-17 12:20:45

Well he does sound hyperactive. So maybe jigsaws not the way to go, sounds like tiringout physical activities maybe better suited or water play tree climbing , etc if that doesn't work maybe he does need to be reassessed. Ps some foods sweets can have this affect, one of my sons would get very hyped up when he had sweets with red colouring in them .

Luckygirl Sun 10-Sept-17 12:07:50

I have two of my GSs staying this weekend and it is a huge challenge. They are 8 (highly intelligent and intellectual) and 5 (totally the opposite). The young one is nearly 6 and he is never never never still! - or quiet! Even when he is sitting in the car he is jiggling his legs about and humming loudly; filling his mouth with spit and inadvertently letting it out so we needed a change of clothes!

I have just tried to do a simple jigsaw with him - silly grandma! - and it is impossible - he just boshes about randomly trying to force pieces to go together! - his brother is there trying to explain about corner pieces and matching the colours - some hopes!

He seems not to hear you when you talk to him, but then you realise that he has and is simply processing it very slowly. When he wants something he just stands where he is and calls your name - loudly! - I ignore it and wait for him to come to me - but it takes some patience.

He is the most loving and sociable of children - so not on the spectrum - but just a force of nature, crashing from one mad thing to the next!

No wonder my DD asked us to have them so she and OH could have a quiet weekend together!!

We have had them before of course, but little one seems harder work this time - maybe I am just a few weeks older! But we love them dearly.