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Teetime Sun 03-Sept-17 13:25:47

Indeed I have just had a reply from Queen Opal who must field all the general enquiries. Apparently my nearest 'chapter' is in Rutland who would have thought the stable matrons of Rutland would be so daring. Anyhoo what I have learnt is that this 'movement' started in USA hence the silly 'chapters' and 'queens' terminology'. I think I shall explore a little further - my flamboyant days are over really but I'm curious and it would annoy DS and DD! enormously!!!!! grin

Day6 Sun 03-Sept-17 12:49:13

I am quite happy to grow old disgracefully (or not) and meet people and have fun, but I am not sure I want to dress up to do it, or stand out.

In truth, I prefer smaller groups of about six maximum really so we can all hear the conversation and talk to each other. Sometimes with bigger groups you tend to talk to the person beside you and miss out on different conversations, so I suppose small gatherings are best for me.

To each their own and good luck to those who enjoy being part of the Red Hat group.

MissAdventure Sun 03-Sept-17 12:35:38

Oh that sounds quite awful: Queen Opal! Ugh!

Luckygirl Sun 03-Sept-17 12:21:28

Just got a reply to my enquiry email about it and had a reply from "Queen Opal" - now that DOES put me off!

Imperfect27 Sun 03-Sept-17 11:50:29

Sounds like good fun, but I would want to be more anonymous and just quietly subversive in my own ways grin.

Wonder if they have spitting competitions?

nanaK54 Sun 03-Sept-17 11:31:32

I came across a group of these ladies at the Newmarket Stud restaurant at the beginning of August - they looked to be having a great time smile

merlotgran Sun 03-Sept-17 11:15:49

I live twenty mins from Cambridge but I can assure you I wasn't one of them. Not my cup of PG.

I looked at their website and you join 'chapters' like the Hells Angels shock

Good Luck to them if that's what floats their boat but I haven't worn a uniform to go out and have fun since I left the Brownies.

Christinefrance Sun 03-Sept-17 11:10:29

Sounds a great idea, grow old disgracefully ?

mcem Sun 03-Sept-17 11:08:13

Tried searching locations but don't think there are any near me.
Sounds like something GN might have become.
The best bits - like meetups and humorous aspects but without the grumbling and nitpicking!

Teetime Sun 03-Sept-17 11:05:44

So there were a few of us Gransnetters lurking about too!!
OK kitty sounds like our kind of thing. I see you in HUGE Chapeau I shall have a Fez!

Lindylou51 Sun 03-Sept-17 11:04:20

I was also in Cambridge yesterday and saw them. Their outfits looked very fine and they did look to be having a jolly time indeed! Worth joining just to dress up and wear the hat!

kittylester Sun 03-Sept-17 10:57:27

Keep me posted Teetime!

Teetime Sun 03-Sept-17 10:43:15

I have sent my enquiry to see if they are based near me.

Maranta Sun 03-Sept-17 10:29:50

Google the Red Hat Society Teetime. I saw them too.

Chewbacca Sun 03-Sept-17 10:29:03

britishredhatters2.weebly.com

You're right Teetime, they're inspired by the Jenny Joseph poem. If you're in the Cambridge area, you could join them, they look like fun is their aim!

grannysue05 Sun 03-Sept-17 10:27:42

Its a society of Red Hatters....a group started in America in the late nineties.
Ladies over 50 can join.
They enjoy their age, wear red hats and usually purple dresses, and have loads of fun.

Teetime Sun 03-Sept-17 10:19:23

I was in Cambridge yesterday which was awash with Ladies of a Certain Age in Red Hats and red/purple dresses. They looked resplendent and were seen in several places at once having tea, having coffee, having lunch, cocktails etc. I assume they are a society linked to the poem. My sister (aged 55) and my daughter (45) took great exception to these ladies ands their 'look'. The ladies were having the most enormous fun and I am temped to join - anyone know anything about them please.