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I'm going to burst if I don't tell someone!

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Icyalittle Sat 02-Sept-17 10:09:50

Definitely needs a nice anonymous forum, this! My daughter-in-law is pregnant! 11 years married to my DS, both very workaholic career people, she's now 42. I knew they had tried and it hadn't happened, but I had thought that was it, no children for them. She's just coming up to 12 weeks and they haven't told anyone other than us yet, so I can only share on here. Now I am so, so happy for them, and just very anxious that nothing goes wrong. Thank you, you may now clap.

Icyalittle Tue 10-Apr-18 21:45:06

I just wanted to update my thread - thank you all for your kind thoughts, it was great being able to ‘tell’ in safety. Well: a baby boy born safe and well, as is his mother my DiL, after a fairly problematic few months! Very small (he was premature) but doing fine. My DS and DiL are both ecstatic and besotted, as are we. Thank you all and congratulations to everyone else with new arrivals!

newnanny Thu 07-Sept-17 19:48:10

How exciting and wonderful. A new grandchild to look forward to. Encourage her to take plenty of rest in first 4 months especially. I hope she has an easy pregnancy and baby born safely.

Libralady Wed 06-Sept-17 10:55:50

So thrilled and happy for you - you must be over the moon and so much to look forward to.

Our family waited 20 years for our little IVF miracle, a darling granddaughter born at 32 weeks weighing 3lbs. 6 ozs. in October 2015. Immense joy and gratitude to the amazing docs who made it possible.

cornishclio Tue 05-Sept-17 08:08:12

Wonderful news. Congratulations and hopefully your DIL will have a trouble free pregnancy.

morethan2 Mon 04-Sept-17 18:26:36

??lovely news

Newquay Mon 04-Sept-17 17:56:18

What exciting news Icy-absolutely thrilled for you and that you could tell us all on here. Our DD1 started her family young, no probs at all. DD2 has chronic health probs, married later, we assumed no babies. Then-ta dah!-suddenly she announced she was expecting and we have a lovely DGD from them. We assumed that was it as it is a big ask for her to get pregnant as she has to stop her drugs beforehand well, what do you know, she's expecting again. She, too, was concerned about being older but, the medics say they're all very experienced at older Mums now so rest assured she will be watched like a hawk. Anyway blue kitchen they don't have prams now it's travel systems! Lol! Ooh Icy such exciting days ahead-delightful news. Won't you enjoy telling everyone when you can?

MissAdventure Mon 04-Sept-17 16:23:55

Congratulations to all of you. How exciting!

Blinko Mon 04-Sept-17 16:14:26

It's so good to read happy news! Many congratulations flowers

PeggySue01 Mon 04-Sept-17 12:24:51

Wonderful news! So happy for you all x

starlily106 Mon 04-Sept-17 11:58:09

How lovely for you all. Best wishes to you all. Xxx

maddy629 Mon 04-Sept-17 07:17:13

Wonderful news!!! Congratulations, I hope all goes well.flowers wine

Elrel Sun 03-Sept-17 22:30:41

You must be so happy, all good wishes to you and your family ?

Bibbity Sun 03-Sept-17 22:22:39

On my birth board on another site there was a member who had her daughter at 50! She suffered losses for over 20 years and never gave up! Her story is truly harrowing but her daughter is perfectly healthy and absolutely beautiful!

Icyalittle Sun 03-Sept-17 21:56:38

I can't believe just how many older mothers there seem to be now, on the evidence here. There was an interview today with the Chief Exec of midwives saying we should stop scaring older women who are pregnant, and I quite believe it now. Please keep your stories coming, you are wonderfully calming.

mande Sun 03-Sept-17 21:39:43

My sister-in-law got pregnant at age 45 after 20 years of marriage. She never gave up. My brother and she had a beautiful little girl who is now a healthy, intelligent 17 year old. Good luck. God bless you all!

CrazyDaisy Sun 03-Sept-17 21:01:50

Icyalittle I can imagine your BIG smile and I'm smiling with you. How wonderful!

I found out, when on holiday earlier this year, that a niece (42) is pregnant. We had thought they must have decided not to have children! I spent the day smiling big smiles every time I thought about it, which was almost constantly.

On the same theme, I have a lovely, healthy great- nephew, whose mother at 43, found out she was six months pregnant, for the first time.

Both lovely stories like yours. The Best of wishes.

granfromafar Sun 03-Sept-17 20:46:23

Well I'm glad that you told us and didn't burst. Could have been rather messy. grin. Great news and hope all goes smoothly.

Bibbity Sun 03-Sept-17 19:52:29

Massive congratulations to you and your growing family Icy!!

A happy and healthy 6 months to mother and baby!

Starlady Sun 03-Sept-17 19:51:22

Meant to say, Icy, that I think it was very wise of you to share your news anonymously, so as still to respect ds and dil's wishes while expressing your excitement. Good on you!

Starlady Sun 03-Sept-17 19:49:34

Wonderful news! Wishing them the best! Congrats to all! I'm sure this is an inspiration to many, even those who don't post.

Congratulations to others, here, too, who have recently had children or gc!

StKilda - Best wishes to you and yours, too! I'm sure ds and dil will have a baby, eventually.

Bez1989 Sun 03-Sept-17 18:47:56

Wonderful news for you and yours.
Please keep us posted on here.

winesunshineflowers

granmanat Sun 03-Sept-17 18:37:01

Congratulations....grandma!
I love good news and news of a forthcoming birth is ALWAYS good news.

Quietdragon Sun 03-Sept-17 17:35:09

Congratulations Icyalittle super news x

Milly Sun 03-Sept-17 17:35:03

Congratulations. My husband was born a healthy baby in 1918 when his mother was 42 long before all the care we get these days, so your daughter in law will be fine.

luluaugust Sun 03-Sept-17 16:46:41

Very best wishes, lots of fun to come.