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Words you don't like, please, ladies?

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MissAdventure Thu 31-Aug-17 18:19:57

Are there any words which you find distasteful for any reason?
One which springs to my mind is 'panties'. It sounds so twee..

Alima Fri 01-Sept-17 10:33:02

What's wrong with "hello" EEJit?

MissAdventure Fri 01-Sept-17 10:28:08

It seems a few women don't like anything much, EEJit!
grin glad you didn't feel excluded by the title of the thread.

EEJit Fri 01-Sept-17 10:25:35

Grumpy old man here. It seems quite a number of you don't like "ladies", so what should I say to a group of you , "Hello women"?

MissAdventure Fri 01-Sept-17 10:00:40

Witzend,
I came across some "panty slips" in a charity shop a while back.
The woman working there sidled up and told me what they were, out of the corner of her mouth..

wendycl Fri 01-Sept-17 09:57:46

My pet hate are PC terms like "individual" which the Police and newscasters use frequently - we are people!

Jan51 Fri 01-Sept-17 09:56:26

'So' used at the beginning of an answer when people are being interviewed on tv or radio.

Witzend Fri 01-Sept-17 09:45:27

Yes, agree with 'panties' - nobody I know has ever used that word. Sounds so coy and twee.
And what about 'slips' - used by M&S for a certain type of men's underpants? Has anyone's Dh EVER said, 'Oh, I haven't got any clean slips,' or 'My slips are getting a bit holey- time to buy some more.' ?
Once upon a time a slip was a sort of petticoat - does anyone still wear that sort of slip under a dress?

I do say 'kids' but hate 'grandkids', which is utterly illogical, I know.
One word that really winds me up lately is REEsearch.
It's reSEARCH fgs!
Unless you're American, in which case I'll just about allow it.

annodomini Fri 01-Sept-17 09:20:04

'Lady garden'
'hubby'

MissAdventure Fri 01-Sept-17 08:54:00

I think its a horrible word, particularly when children use it. Its uncouth, I think. My daughter makes my grandsons say "pop", which sounds a bit silly considering the oldest is 6ft 3 with the beginnings of a beard!

DanniRae Fri 01-Sept-17 08:51:04

I really don't like the word "fart" - when I hear it said I always imagine an awful smell - yuk!

MissAdventure Fri 01-Sept-17 08:35:50

Ok kitty. Consider me told. Again!

Angela1961 Fri 01-Sept-17 08:33:55

Long story short - My better half - I could kill myself - If only you knew..... all these annoy me !

Tea and cake Fri 01-Sept-17 08:28:38

'Flesh' ugh makes my skin crawl.

Teetime Fri 01-Sept-17 08:22:11

I haven't read every message here so apologies if I am repeating someone else but really 'gobsmacked' and 'gutted' purlease stop these ugly words!!!!!

But also the phrase 'to die for' - would you really give up your life for a cake/lipstick/kitchen cupboard? Annoying!

kittylester Fri 01-Sept-17 08:13:46

Sometimes both, Alima but mostly the word. grin

Misadventure I'm not sure you can just ask a question of the ladies.

We are trying to encourage the men to join and participate not exclude them.

Greyduster Fri 01-Sept-17 08:08:21

There is only one, and it is "tummy". I can't use it, not even to children.

MissAdventure Fri 01-Sept-17 07:34:08

Men can do whatever they like, Kitty, as I'm sure they will.

Alima Fri 01-Sept-17 07:29:51

Your own Kitty or the word?

Tea and cake Fri 01-Sept-17 07:28:49

'Innit' tacked onto the end of every sentence..angry

kittylester Fri 01-Sept-17 07:22:01

I'd like to point out that there are men on GN or are they not allowed to post on this thread?

I hate hubby.

Maggiemaybe Fri 01-Sept-17 00:42:31

Retch. Bogey.

I'm off to bed, to dream of pleasant things (I hope).

Maggiemaybe Fri 01-Sept-17 00:36:10

I quite like the word ladies. Gentlemen too. What an old-fashioned girl I am. grin

Phlegm now, MissAdventure, that really does make my skin crawl. A globule of phlegm sizzling on the fire - eugh. envy

MissAdventure Thu 31-Aug-17 23:20:20

1. Moist

2. Blog

3. Lugubrious

4. Yolk

5. Gurgle

5. Phlegm

6. Fetus

7. Curd

8. Smear

Nelliemoser Thu 31-Aug-17 23:19:55

How would you address a whole group of other women you know.
A mixed group can be referred to as "Ladies and Gentlemen"
"Ladies" has been considered as a social class ridden anachroism.
"Girls" is disapproved of as infantalising women.
A few people with over zealous ideas about political correctness have made this difficult .

"Women" sounds really odd and clumsy .
You lot?
You guys ?
How do we deal with this. (No men allowed in this group)

MissAdventure Thu 31-Aug-17 23:14:48

I don't like 'babe' or especially 'babes' when used by another woman to me. It sounds like a veiled insult, I think. I can tolerate it from a male.