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LyndaW Sat 19-Aug-17 14:02:00

Since I retired I've found that I actually enjoy cooking which came as a real shock to me. Until then I would do anything to avoid it and I used to take as many shortcuts as possible. I took no pride in my kitchen and relied heavily on convenience food.
It's so odd to me that after years of avoiding it, it's now one of the things that gives me the most pleasure. All the dusty cookbooks I've gathered over the years are now being used. And the added bonus is even though we're eating well and probably more than before, because it's generally healthier than the convenience food, we aren't putting on weight. And my DH loves it too.
Anyone else discover an unexpected hobby or passion when they retired?

Jaycee5 Mon 21-Aug-17 13:34:15

I have actually gone the opposite way with cooking. I recently made an inedible cauliflower cheese for the second time. How does sauce curdle if it doesn't have egg in it?

I don't like the multiple personas. I have thought that some people appear to almost gang up in an odd way and that would explain it. It was also said in a provocative way. At least that account should be cancelled.

DameJudyClench My favourite is vegetarian Cumberland sausages in a sausage sandwich with a small dollop of brown sauce.

I can't really think of anything that I am better at now than before except being on my own which I quite enjoy now.

Elegran Mon 21-Aug-17 14:20:22

I expect to see Illtellhim vanish in a puff of smoke as soon as GNHQ notice the multiple usernames - I wonder who else will vanish at the same time? Illtellhim is on GN From 7 to 9? Longer today, I think, as there was a thread he/she could really get some teeth into and leave some toothmarks.

grannysue05 Mon 21-Aug-17 14:31:16

Discovered the garden. Was always meaning to brush up leaves, prune bushes, plant more colourful blooms and so on, but never had time.

Now I have a lovely courtyard style back garden full of colour all year round.

I spend hours here just pottering. Can't believe how relaxing this is and am so glad I found this hobby late in life.

EthelJ Mon 21-Aug-17 15:05:13

Since I retired I have discovered I am quite lazy I always wanted to learn a language and I have started lessons but I still don't work at it as I should between lessons so not getting very far.
I have also always wanted to be able to paint but have no talent. Can't draw at all and have no confidence so been afraid to try. I have though just booked up for some lessons that start in a few months. I am excited at the thought of it but also a bit afraid.

Jane10 Mon 21-Aug-17 15:14:33

I'm really good at watching TV!

Ramblingrose22 Mon 21-Aug-17 15:54:33

Jane10 - don't be bashful! Please tell us about the books you have written, titles and nom de plumes - especially as GN inspired you.

Illtellhim - what is the point of having 3 different names on Gransnet? Please tell us quickly before the editors get wise to you.

Am I missing out on a wonderful opportunity?

kittylester Mon 21-Aug-17 16:10:50

Think how many people one could annoy with 3 user names! grin

Anya Mon 21-Aug-17 16:54:27

What other names do you post under Illtellhim ?

Morgana Mon 21-Aug-17 17:09:29

I have discovered I enjoy writing poetry and now belong to two different groups. Yes Jane do tell us more about your books. AND these people with multiple user names - do they reflect different parts of your persona?

Elegran Mon 21-Aug-17 17:13:45

Ramblingrose To save Jane10 having to risk being in trouble with GNHQ for advertising, I shall tell you that her pen name is Jane Tulloch and she has published two books, entitled "Our Best Attention" and "Assured Attention." Both have short stories about goings-on among the staff of a department store. They are on Amazon (The Kindle editions are the best value!)

Elegran Mon 21-Aug-17 17:24:13

There is a blog about department stores at www.gransnet.com/forums/blogs/a1222876-Nobody-to-call-me-Madam

and a thread under the "Book club" topic at www.gransnet.com/forums/books_book_club/a1222445-Our-Best-Attention

Now please do I deserve a cut from the profits of book three Jane?

Jalima1108 Mon 21-Aug-17 17:47:46

Perhaps Jane10 will dedicate her next book to you Elegran wink

Jane10 Mon 21-Aug-17 18:22:44

Oh Elegran! I don't mean to go on about my books/writing etc its just that that's what I actually do. Its my life. Mostly I watch TV though!
Elegran came to both my book launches and I hardly had to bribe her at all! You're all invited to the next launch but I'll have to write the book first so there might be a bit of a wait.
I've got another story in the People's Friend next month if anyone's desperate but no launch for that.

Kim19 Mon 21-Aug-17 18:23:50

I have discovered a 'talent' for diy and am working my way through my house from top to bottom. So far so good. Upstairs duly completed. Every now and again my mojo gogos and my beautiful state of retirement allows me to pander to that by going fallow. However I was in the shed checking on paint and brushes this week so..... watch this space! Great sense of satisfaction.......

lemongrove Mon 21-Aug-17 18:29:42

Good on you Jane and anybody else who has discovered a hidden talent since retiring.All that I have discovered is an innate lazyness, however I am very much enjoying it! ?

Ramblingrose22 Mon 21-Aug-17 18:34:56

Elegran - thanks for sparing Jane10's blushes by revealing her nom de plume. Department stores are a dying breed I believe. I hope the "goings on" are as funny as "Are You Being Served?"!!!

I have never dipped into the "Book club" topic on GN so I must see what they recommend. A friend told me the other day he reads only factual books because life is short and he has so much to learn.

All that remains is for that other bashful Gransnetter Illtellhim to reveal her/his alter egos! Come on, Illtellhim - Anya and Morgana are dying to know your other names on Gransnet.

I'm more curious about why you feel the need to have 3 different personae. I find that having just one of my own is more than enough to be going on with.

Jane10 Mon 21-Aug-17 18:44:27

I'll give Elegran her cut of the profits in scones!

It's always worth checking the Book Club recommendations btw, I've found some really terrific books thanks to suggestions from Grans.

NanaandGrampy Mon 21-Aug-17 18:50:40

I discovered that I'm good at various crafts. I've always been able to knit, sew and crotchet but now I make cards, gifts , Christmas decks , all sorts.

And I've discovered after many years of an often 4 hr daily commute that I have time for so many far more interesting things than work :-)

Jane10 Mon 21-Aug-17 18:54:13

Ooh yes. Time!

NanKate Mon 21-Aug-17 18:58:56

I think you are very likeable Kitty and understanding particularly when last year I very rudely made negative comments about the village you lived in. You cut me a bit of slack as I didn't really know the area at all.

The thing I have learned about myself is that I am a much more patient grandmother than I was as a mother.

HurdyGurdy Mon 21-Aug-17 19:06:11

I have discovered a love of cycling and ride as much as possible.

And I have astonished myself by finding out that I actually like growing things. I've never had so much going on in my garden (not necessarily successfully, but definitely enthusiastically)

Jalima1108 Mon 21-Aug-17 19:36:03

I have discovered that I am a very good procrastinator.

Jane10 Mon 21-Aug-17 20:55:57

I probably am too Jalima I'll maybe check tomorrow...

lemongrove Mon 21-Aug-17 21:02:57

If you have three personas on GN you could have fun agreeing with yourself, or even argue with yourself and call yourself names.?

Lona Mon 21-Aug-17 21:06:11

Or you could cause a lot of trouble and gang up on someone else.hmm