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LyndaW Sat 19-Aug-17 14:02:00

Since I retired I've found that I actually enjoy cooking which came as a real shock to me. Until then I would do anything to avoid it and I used to take as many shortcuts as possible. I took no pride in my kitchen and relied heavily on convenience food.
It's so odd to me that after years of avoiding it, it's now one of the things that gives me the most pleasure. All the dusty cookbooks I've gathered over the years are now being used. And the added bonus is even though we're eating well and probably more than before, because it's generally healthier than the convenience food, we aren't putting on weight. And my DH loves it too.
Anyone else discover an unexpected hobby or passion when they retired?

MissAdventure Tue 22-Aug-17 18:31:21

I already know that about myself, pre retirement. I'm planning on being more of the same when I get to around 100 the government lets me retire!

Bambam Tue 22-Aug-17 15:27:00

I have discovered that I am quite lazy and a champion procrastinator.
Should be cleaning bedroom as we speak! Oh well, always tomorrow!

PamelaJ1 Tue 22-Aug-17 08:09:42

I've discovered I like working so am continuing to do so 3 days a week.
I am loving having 4 days off too. Well not quite off at the moment withDGS 3 days /week for the summer.

kittylester Tue 22-Aug-17 07:56:51

Is she on GNtoo? confused

Jalima1108 Mon 21-Aug-17 23:19:06

I've confused myself too.

However, I think know what I mean. I could be Jalima1108, in addition choose a nom de plume like J.A.Lima and also call myself Me Myself I (apologies to Joan Armatrading).

durhamjen Mon 21-Aug-17 23:09:54

You've confused me.

Jalima1108 Mon 21-Aug-17 23:05:17

I'm just wondering if it's possible to have a nom de plume, an alter ego and me, myself, I all at the same time.

or will I become even more confused

durhamjen Mon 21-Aug-17 22:51:40

An alter ego with the same name? That's different. Split personality?

MawBroon Mon 21-Aug-17 22:31:26

Maybe that was an alter ego confused

durhamjen Mon 21-Aug-17 22:17:05

Illtellhim was on at 13.39 today, so she tells fibs.

Swanny Mon 21-Aug-17 21:42:29

Going back to the OP, the passion I've discovered since retiring is having time to contemplate or potter or chat to neighbours or jump on a bus and go wherever it goes or watch daytime tv (when it's raining!) or browse in Harrods or spend all day on GN or ... anything that doesn't have to be done like cleaning, laundry and grocery shopping grin

MawBroon Mon 21-Aug-17 21:09:32

Having multiple usernames sounds like having an argument in an empty room
confused
But each to his own. hmm

Lona Mon 21-Aug-17 21:06:11

Or you could cause a lot of trouble and gang up on someone else.hmm

lemongrove Mon 21-Aug-17 21:02:57

If you have three personas on GN you could have fun agreeing with yourself, or even argue with yourself and call yourself names.?

Jane10 Mon 21-Aug-17 20:55:57

I probably am too Jalima I'll maybe check tomorrow...

Jalima1108 Mon 21-Aug-17 19:36:03

I have discovered that I am a very good procrastinator.

HurdyGurdy Mon 21-Aug-17 19:06:11

I have discovered a love of cycling and ride as much as possible.

And I have astonished myself by finding out that I actually like growing things. I've never had so much going on in my garden (not necessarily successfully, but definitely enthusiastically)

NanKate Mon 21-Aug-17 18:58:56

I think you are very likeable Kitty and understanding particularly when last year I very rudely made negative comments about the village you lived in. You cut me a bit of slack as I didn't really know the area at all.

The thing I have learned about myself is that I am a much more patient grandmother than I was as a mother.

Jane10 Mon 21-Aug-17 18:54:13

Ooh yes. Time!

NanaandGrampy Mon 21-Aug-17 18:50:40

I discovered that I'm good at various crafts. I've always been able to knit, sew and crotchet but now I make cards, gifts , Christmas decks , all sorts.

And I've discovered after many years of an often 4 hr daily commute that I have time for so many far more interesting things than work :-)

Jane10 Mon 21-Aug-17 18:44:27

I'll give Elegran her cut of the profits in scones!

It's always worth checking the Book Club recommendations btw, I've found some really terrific books thanks to suggestions from Grans.

Ramblingrose22 Mon 21-Aug-17 18:34:56

Elegran - thanks for sparing Jane10's blushes by revealing her nom de plume. Department stores are a dying breed I believe. I hope the "goings on" are as funny as "Are You Being Served?"!!!

I have never dipped into the "Book club" topic on GN so I must see what they recommend. A friend told me the other day he reads only factual books because life is short and he has so much to learn.

All that remains is for that other bashful Gransnetter Illtellhim to reveal her/his alter egos! Come on, Illtellhim - Anya and Morgana are dying to know your other names on Gransnet.

I'm more curious about why you feel the need to have 3 different personae. I find that having just one of my own is more than enough to be going on with.

lemongrove Mon 21-Aug-17 18:29:42

Good on you Jane and anybody else who has discovered a hidden talent since retiring.All that I have discovered is an innate lazyness, however I am very much enjoying it! ?

Kim19 Mon 21-Aug-17 18:23:50

I have discovered a 'talent' for diy and am working my way through my house from top to bottom. So far so good. Upstairs duly completed. Every now and again my mojo gogos and my beautiful state of retirement allows me to pander to that by going fallow. However I was in the shed checking on paint and brushes this week so..... watch this space! Great sense of satisfaction.......

Jane10 Mon 21-Aug-17 18:22:44

Oh Elegran! I don't mean to go on about my books/writing etc its just that that's what I actually do. Its my life. Mostly I watch TV though!
Elegran came to both my book launches and I hardly had to bribe her at all! You're all invited to the next launch but I'll have to write the book first so there might be a bit of a wait.
I've got another story in the People's Friend next month if anyone's desperate but no launch for that.