What do u not dare to do?

My granddaughter is currently exploring S,America, river rafting horse riding, cycling, camping in the jungle I wish I had been more daring when I was younger.

After my husband died, I didn't care whether I lived or died (really I'm not just saying it) so I did all kinds of things that I would have been scared or worried about doing before because it didn't matter. I know it sounds weird but the risks I took!
Now I like my life again Im much more cautious. So I guess the saying "What have you got to lose?" is actually quite true.
But I'd definitely go to the club Morgana. I mean what have you got to lose!

Go to Australia alone and drive myself around and see the country a lifelong ambition.

Oh morgana go - you will love it- dress up and boogie!!!

I wont bungee jump- EVER!!! but I don't want to either so that doesn't make sense!

Travel alone I have no sense of direction so would probably get lost

tanith you would be joining lots of other 'grey nomads' (I don't like that term) on the road so would meet lots of other people.
The camp sites are very civilised

Dangerous sports, like free-fall parachuting, but not until I'm well into my nineties when I'll have less to lose.

Tell my DIL about my experience of her DH (my son) when he was my DGD's age. I learnt that I had to pick my battles, never make a threat that I couldn't carry out and ignore bad behaviour, only rewarding good. I daren't say a word.

I'd love to sky dive too.

Travel all over, have a tattoo - cat or bee or butterfly, get a puppy. You should try the club but take a friend!

Drive on the right

Drive further than the local supermarkets ....

Move to somewhere warm ! Too late now and I would miss my family too much

Dye my hair a beautiful shade of blue. I'd love to but don't have the courage.

Tegan is that a lost confidence or have you always been that way ? just curious, sorry.

H has never had a license so I have driven all over the UK

I always said I would love to try an illegal drug just to see what all the fuss was about. But not until I've had a terminal diagnosis (It wouldn't matter then if I got addicted)

It wasn't illegal, I was in hospital, but I have to say morphine was lovely! I can see why people take it if their life is miserable.

Don't fancy bunjee jumping; always wanted to do a balloon ride, but now DH couldn't do it, so guess that's gone now. As a 60s child really enjoyed experimenting with Acid - amazing experiences. Wish I'd taken my driving test, but now too scared. Want to do Glasto just once! Still many places I want to visit - S Africa, Brazil, much of Europe, India, etc. Not adventurous, but so much still to do. And would love to take second and possibly third OU degree, this time languages and if time/money allow maybe science.

Agree with you E19 when my son died it was devastating but I found it very hard to deal with even the simple things.
But I hoisted myself up and now I say what I think and do what I want to do.
When I fell over and broke my hip a few years ago I was
given morphine. i was away with the fairies. Great

Go to your club, Morgana - may not be your cup of tea, but you could surprise yourself and at least you'll be able to tick off one thing off your bucket list!

Definitely go to see your son morgana, take a friend and some ear defenders.

Wow, I like being E19. That's so cool. Thanks Sheilasue!
Skyweek, won't you do a balloon ride without DH. There's about 12 people in the basket. You wouldn't be on your own.

Do go to the club............that is a must and report back because we are all interested now in how you get on.You may have a latent DJ gene yourself and take a set and become famous..........age matters not a jot in music.

I wish I could drive properly again...........I would buy a motorhome and be off all the time taking my dog as navigator, he at least knows his way home.

Radicalnan
You have just made me splurt coffee all over the computer! The bit about the dog was hilarious. When my MIL was in the early stages of dementia, she would insist on going out for a walk on her own. We insisted that she take the dog as (a) he would know his way home and (b) he would certainly know when it was dinnertime!

Chewbacca, its very easy to give grey hair a blue tint, I use Swarzkopf Blonde me Steel blue, you spray and comb through after your wash condition oil etc, I have very curly hair. I am stopped a lot and asked about the colour. I grew out the dye so now have grey hair which is good but I thought needed a lift, and this is it, its water soluable so washes out. I use rubber gloves as it stains when wet but no problems when dry with pillows or during rain.