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Why do you come to Gransnet?

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LaraGransnet (GNHQ) Thu 20-Jul-17 15:52:30

Aside from the virtual cake obviously... grin

It would be really helpful for us to know what you like about Gransnet, and what draws you to the site? Is it the general chatter and social aspect, the advice, the competitions, the word games, the articles, the webchats. If you were to pick your top three (or if you can't think of three then just one will do!) reasons for logging on, or what keeps you coming back, what would they be?

Anniebach Sun 23-Jul-17 09:17:27

GG, why ask me? Many have given their opinions

TerriBull Sun 23-Jul-17 09:26:13

I also agree with Elegran's assessment and I also concur with Monica "one political thread is indistinguishable from any of the others". How true!

Baggs Sun 23-Jul-17 09:29:59

Yup (as someone who has been sorely sand-blasted on political threads more than once).

Baggs Sun 23-Jul-17 09:34:11

I'm very happy to argue political points but too many political threads descend into personal sniping.

norose4 Sun 23-Jul-17 09:50:28

In answer to original question I personally love the word games, they make me use my brain . I also am interested in politics , but in some cases it is obvious unless you are a virtual politician then your comments will be at worst ridiculed or ignored deemed as not worthy of reply, so it can sometimes feel disheartening , often a poster will be hell bent on correcting another's incorrect grammar etc & then the original topic quickly goes of piste & deteriorates .Thirdly I think sharing personal problems is extremely helpful , partly because of the anninomty this site provides.

Jalima1108 Sun 23-Jul-17 11:06:32

Thirdly I think sharing personal problems is extremely helpful , partly because of the anninomty this site provides.

I think that could answer Eloethan's point about names not being 'blued' - some people may prefer anonymity as they may put a few personal details on a thread and not wish to be identified.

It could also be a reason why some people do not introduce their friends or relatives to the site.

Eloethan Sun 23-Jul-17 12:40:05

You may well feel that Elegran and Anniebach but, that being the case, I would suggest that people who don't like a rancorous atmosphere should not provoke one. For instance, to use virtually every political thread to keep repeating the same statements over and over again is, in my opinion, aimed at provoking a response and is bound to get one.

If you feel someone has overstepped the mark and been rude or unkind, why not just say so and continue posting your opinions? I have had three occasions on Gransnet where what I considered to be very spiteful, personal comments were made to me. I felt hurt and deflated but responded to defend myself and then carried on as normal.

On the other hand, perhaps I should have just ignored such remarks because in a way I think they are designed to aggravate, and ignoring them would thwart that intention.

GracesGranMK2 Sun 23-Jul-17 13:29:23

If the answer to a simple GNHQ question is an overwhelming attack on personalities not content - and this is allowed by GNHQ - it is probably high time an "I fled from GN Politics thread" closed, members only FB page was opened.

Anniebach Sun 23-Jul-17 13:51:43

Freedom of speech GG, freedom of speech

GracesGranMK2 Sun 23-Jul-17 14:12:32

What does that mean in the context of setting up somewhere else where I would feel more comfortable?

GracesGranMK2 Sun 23-Jul-17 14:17:29

For GNHQs information I have a feeling people are moving from open forums to closed communities such as FB group pages. I already belong to two which cover my hobbies. I certainly would not recommend my friends to come on here - why would I want them subjected to personal attack disguised as moralising which is not stopped?

Ana Sun 23-Jul-17 14:23:40

You're no saint yourself, GG2 - haven't one or two of your posts been deleted on various Political threads? Pots and kettles etc...

merlotgran Sun 23-Jul-17 14:32:47

Reading some of the posts on here, anyone would think the whole of Gransnet was a battlefield of mud slinging, name calling, bitching and back stabbing.

It isn't!!

Anniebach Sun 23-Jul-17 14:46:19

GG, you said you thought it time the thread was closed and I replied - freedom of speech, what you do on Facebook is of no interest to me

GracesGranMK2 Sun 23-Jul-17 14:52:51

Re-read my post Annie. I was talking about a closed, members only FB page, not closing the Politics forum. The first is in my gift if I choose to do it; the second is not my decision to make.

Crafting Sun 23-Jul-17 14:55:19

Because I'm boring and twee and like virtual cupcake and virtual wine and pupppy dogs and cute little kittens and sugar and spice and all things nice I enjoy GN for the kitchen. Or I could enjoy the kitchen because the posters who go there have a sense of humour and fun, get on with each other and try and help each other get through the tough times with genuine care and concern and welcome anyone who wants to pop in.

Crafting Sun 23-Jul-17 14:56:02

Also because I can't spell ?

LaraGransnet (GNHQ) Sun 23-Jul-17 14:59:27

Hello! We appreciate all the comments about the political threads and see your point. We'll have a think about what we can do to make sure everyone feels comfortable posting.
Maybe we could take the political threads issue out of this discussion for now and go back to the original questions? Thanks smile

Jane10 Sun 23-Jul-17 15:05:21

You still haven't said what you are going to do with the information we give you!

Ana Sun 23-Jul-17 15:10:07

Apart from make certain threads more fluffy! grin

kittylester Sun 23-Jul-17 15:10:20

Crafting you forgot the unicorns! grin

Crafting Sun 23-Jul-17 15:14:14

Oops! grin

durhamjen Sun 23-Jul-17 15:18:43

I am sure, Lara, that quite a few people would be pleased if you removed the political forum from GN.
However, I come on GN, as I said in my first post, to discuss politics with like minded people.
There are lots of fluffy threads on GN.

Ilovecheese Sun 23-Jul-17 15:23:09

I came mainly for the political threads too

LaraGransnet (GNHQ) Sun 23-Jul-17 15:38:40

Hi Jane. At the moment we really just wanted to understand what you like most so we know where we should be spending more or less time. And give you more of the things you do like.
Don't worry dj, we won't get rid of the political threads grin. They can be hugely interesting and informative but it looks like a lot of people are hesitant to post which is a shame.