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annsixty Mon 24-Apr-17 21:35:43

I have just spoken to Rubylady she had an appointment at the MRI today and was admitted to the Acute heart ward for tests. She is on a drip and is to have an MRI scan and an angiogram.
She sounds in good spirits, it is a nice ward and patients ok.
She asks "for grapes please"
Her son has been quite shocked by the seriousness of her condition and has come home to look after the dog and the other pets.

Luckygirl Fri 26-May-17 11:12:20

A date at last ruby - but all this waiting has been about trying to make you as fit as possible for your surgery and it sounds to me as if they have all eventualities covered and are good to go. Let us hope that when this major thing is sorted out then all the little health niggles will begin to settle. There will be a fair few Gnetters rooting for you on Thursday! Get that hospital sheet out and start girding!

rubylady Fri 26-May-17 10:29:05

Thanks Kate, yes, very sad about Lily, poor thing. I just wish I'd have been there but it is what it is, I would have been if I weren't here.

Yes, I feel a bit better now but won't really believe it until I've got the mask on my face and injection in my hand. I'm to be taken to look round ICU to know what to expect, very scary but them loins will be girded. smile or lions will be guarded??? grin Actually it's been a bit like trying to tame a lion, me being in here, growling from time to time, happy when eating and luring men into my den! (only kidding).

There's only one surgeon willing to take this on as it's so complicated an operation. I hope he has his weetabix before he starts it.

I just want to wake up, the rest I can deal with, pain, physio, emotions, everything. Just get better a bit at a time. It's been a long time being so ill , I am looking forward to being able to breathe better and not be swollen up.

Now, if they could just put a new back in, hip, knee, bowels, hormones and wave a magic wand over the depression and panic attacks/shaking, I'll be one happy bunny. Not much to ask is it? smile

annsixty Fri 26-May-17 10:22:18

Brilliant news Ruby. Onwards and upwards.

Katek Fri 26-May-17 10:06:07

At last Ruby! And a day visit! Good news indeed to start the weekend. You'll soon be on the road to recovery and a better quality of life. You've done so well keeping your spirits up, don't know how you've managed! So sorry to hear about the little bird, not what you needed at the moment. flowers

rubylady Fri 26-May-17 09:42:16

Precedence. confused

rubylady Fri 26-May-17 09:41:15

Operation next Thursday unless emergency takes presidence. And I can have a day visit at home before then. Yeah! Xxx

bikergran Fri 26-May-17 09:24:02

Sorry ruby hadn't seen your post about your little budgie..

cornergran Thu 25-May-17 23:30:49

News you didn't want to hear, ruby, sad news indeed. I'm sending you my favourite red rose from our garden. Thinking of you and wishing you well.

harrigran Thu 25-May-17 22:54:17

Sorry you have been upset today Ruby. Here is a photo of the blinking eye bridge over the river Tyne with the Sage in the background.

Elrel Thu 25-May-17 22:51:17

So sorry things aren't progressing for you, losing the poor little budgie must feel like the last straw. Thinking of you and wishing you well x

bikergran Thu 25-May-17 22:29:07

rubyno pics of garden as no colour yet.....but! we have groups of Virgin Media Men putting fiber optic cables..in our area..strapping men in hard hats, bright orange uniforms (all very new and clean) I could send a couple over to tuck you into bed !! grin best I can do at the mo..smile

Izzywizzy Thu 25-May-17 22:28:50

I'm so sorry to hear about your budgie rubylady,how very sad for you when you're already feeling low. So for now you will be sad but that's ok,it's normal. Your going through something very stressful but hopefully with the other lovely GN here they have helped you with their jokes and photos.
You have such a great sense of humour and have made me smile many times.
Have a good sleep x

annsixty Thu 25-May-17 21:37:01

I have just PM'd you Ruby sorry to hear about your budgie.

rubylady Thu 25-May-17 21:33:46

Hi, I've enjoyed your jokes, thank you.

I phoned to see how the crew are getting on at my friend's and was told the sad news that my little blue budgie has died. She said her wing was damaged somehow. I'm really sad. And I wasn't there to be with her.

harrigran Wed 24-May-17 22:56:26

Lady walks into a bar "what'll you have" ? asked the barman, she says "I will have a double entendre", so he gave her one grin

Juggernaut Wed 24-May-17 22:37:03

I hate those Russian Matryoshka dolls, they're so full of themselves!
Keep your chin up Ruby! X

merlotgran Wed 24-May-17 22:22:38

I rang up a local building firm, I said 'I want a skip outside my house.' He said ' Well, I'm not stopping you.'

I went into a shop and I said, "Can someone sell me a kettle?" The bloke said "Kenwood" I said, "Well, where is he?"

I went to the record shop and I said "What have you got by The Doors?" He said: "A bucket of sand and a fire blanket!"

courtesy of Tim Vine....Keep your chin up, ruby

Luckygirl Wed 24-May-17 22:06:27

I love the "loin-girdng"! You must try it. grin- perhaps with a hospital sheet.

FarNorth Wed 24-May-17 21:10:03

I don't know why people buy Domestos, it's just money down the drain.

phoenix Wed 24-May-17 19:43:11

Velcro, is it just a rip off?

thatbags Wed 24-May-17 19:09:36

Hang on in there, Ruby, and all the best when the time comes. I'm so glad annsixty has been able to visit you in hospital.

Cherrytree59 Wed 24-May-17 19:08:29

Everyday I think of you Ruby.
Wishing you well and hope that you are a day near to coming home.

Good advice re PALs you need someone there to fight your corner, especially on days when you are not up to it yourself.

You have had some good news that your OP is going to be next week.
Another hurdle over.
Wishing you a peaceful nightmoon xxx

cornergran Wed 24-May-17 18:53:14

That's a bit more definite at least ruby. If you've the energy ask a staff member to contact PALS for you, it can't do any harm and could be really useful to get support for your recovery time. Thinking of you.

rubylady Wed 24-May-17 18:43:37

Operation next week sometime. X

Auntieflo Wed 24-May-17 11:44:26

Morning Ruby, your task for today "Girding up your loins" or nightie" choose as necessary. ?