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Josie1910 Fri 31-Mar-17 10:50:07

Some time ago I took out a subscription to a weekly magazine. As an inducement totake out the subscription,there was a free gift of kitchen utensils worth £89.99. After about three months of receiving the weekly delivery of the magazine, I still hadn't received my free gift, so I emailed the subscription service to let them know. The reply was that they had run out of stock and as soon as they had more in, I would receive my gift. About 2 weeks later, sure enough I did receive, not one,but two of these gifts. My dilemma is that, if I keepboth, is this stealing. A good friend says it is and I should return the extra one. But they gave it to me,I didn't take it, so I'm not sure about the wrongs and rights of this. If I return the extra one, I shall I incur expenses. There is no system to return the goods so I might have to do a lot of research to find out how to do it. Should I keep the extra one?

AlgeswifeVal Sun 02-Apr-17 09:10:41

Your question was, Is it stealing? No, you didn't deliberately take it. Hardly stealing, or theft.

Marmight Sun 02-Apr-17 08:26:16

I think you always feel better ? if you make someone aware of the mistake. What happens after that is up to them. My DD ordered a coat on line. It didn't arrive, so the company sent another. A week later she found out it had been delivered to a neighbour's property. She informed the seller who told her to keep it. It's probably more costly and a faff for the company to pick up and process.

ethelwulf Sun 02-Apr-17 07:41:43

In your position I'd advise them of their mistake, and ask them to collect the additional consignment. Resist any advice for you to mail it, even if they offer to refund P&P. It's their mistake. I'd be very surprised if they collect it... in which case it becomes your property by default.

Jalima Sun 02-Apr-17 00:02:48

It just wouldn't post so I kept clicking, lucky it wasn't half a dozen times!

Chewbacca Sat 01-Apr-17 23:58:56

It was worth saying, so it posted twice Jalima !

Jalima Sat 01-Apr-17 23:52:17

what happened?

Jalima Sat 01-Apr-17 23:51:21

It's always best to let them know if you have received two and to offer to send it back if they will collect or pay the postage; most times the firm will not bother to collect the extra item. We ordered two bedside cabinets, one had a piece missing and when they delivered another one they didn't want to take the faulty one back again so DGD had it.

Jalima Sat 01-Apr-17 23:50:43

It's always best to let them know if you have received two and to offer to send it back if they will collect or pay the postage; most times the firm will not bother to collect the extra item. We ordered two bedside cabinets, one had a piece missing and when they delivered another one they didn't want to take the faulty one back again so DGD had it.

Kate51 Sat 01-Apr-17 23:29:09

Regarding handing in cash to the police, after the time is up ( think its 3 months) you have to phone the station where lost property is stored. You should have been given a receipt with a unique number. You can check if it has been claimed, if not it is rightfully yours. I know this because I found a wallet with £160 in cash but no ID. After waiting the allotted time I phoned and was told to come and collect it. I think it is up to you to phone because the police probably don't have time to follow all lost property up.

Penstemmon Sat 01-Apr-17 22:39:24

I got sent some wrong size storage containers. I informed the company who then sent correct size. I asked if they would collect the other containers when correct ones delivered. No, separate courier would collect. When not collected after a month i re-emailed but got no response. Still in my shed 9 months later. They are now mine!

stillaliveandkicking Sat 01-Apr-17 22:01:37

It was a magazine "give away" not an on line purchase. If an on line purchase then yes of course send it back but a "give away" due to buying a magazine doesn't warrant the OP spending hours on the internet "finding out" who they to give a duplicate back.

Niobe Sat 01-Apr-17 21:58:55

I have had duplicates sent on several occasions, the first time it was a printer, the second time a fleece and lastly a handbag hook. In each case I was told to keep the item when I informed the sender so I think that the OP should let them know that they have sent a duplicate and they will probably tell her to keep it.

stillaliveandkicking Sat 01-Apr-17 21:27:09

Find some views very OTT and righteous in my opinion.

Bellanonna Sat 01-Apr-17 21:25:27

Not questioning the vocabulary, just the inference

stillaliveandkicking Sat 01-Apr-17 21:21:46

Yes, I used the right word there Bella. So have no idea why you feel the need to pull a strange face.

Bellanonna Sat 01-Apr-17 21:14:54

Righteous ? confused

stillaliveandkicking Sat 01-Apr-17 20:37:36

It was a magazine "give away" no need to be so righteous about it. Totally different if you purchased something and it was faulty.

joannewton46 Sat 01-Apr-17 19:41:11

Email them on any/every address you can find. My guess is also that they will say keep it. It's probably not worth their time or money to get it back.
I've done this before and received such a stunned reply (always to keep it)and effusive thanks for being so honest!

stillaliveandkicking Sat 01-Apr-17 19:18:05

I'd keep them too, not often we get anything for free these days.

Jaxie Sat 01-Apr-17 18:40:50

Tell the truth - it sets you free.

VIOLETTE Sat 01-Apr-17 15:48:31

Received a wrong item of clothing I had paid for from the UK ,,,,immediately phoned the company and informed them and said I would send it back but could they please send me the one I ordered. The manager came on the phone and said Please do not trouble to return it ,,,we will send you the correct item and you can either keep the one you have or donate it to charity. It was quite expensive and I double checked by e mail that advice ....received my correct garment and donated the other one to charity so someone got a nice coat for 1 euro (we don't have shops like the UK charity shops ,,but we have one for a charity whereby it charges 1 euro each item and only sells to people on no or a low income) ....thanked the supplier very much ! have since ordered more items ...all ok ! Same with a pair of ear rings I ordered from Amazon ...I actually returned them before contacting them ...received a new pair and a note saying I need not have returned them .... good service !

Many many years ago in a notorious part of Essex whilst taking my daughter to the country park to see the Deer, with her nanna and granddad we found a large bundle of cash wrapped in an elastic band, on the grass. This was a known place for criminal activities such as money changing hands from crimes, and drugs .....we counted it and took it to the police ! Never heard anything more ....but I somehow doubt anyone came forward to claim it ! Since we were really hard up at the time it would have been lovely to have kept it ,,,,but also criminal (although I doubt anyone would have known !) On the other hand, when working, my husband lost his wallet in Los Angeles ...didn't realise until reception in the hotel called him and asked him to come down ...a taxi driver had found his wallet on the floor of the taxi and remembered where he dropped him .....there was quite a lot of U S currency in it (business expenses !) ....but the driver refused to take even one note as thanks ! That is so honest .....but he wished the driver would have let him give him something ! Hope you resolve your dilemma !

damewithaname Sat 01-Apr-17 14:57:48

It may be that they have sent an extra set due to you not receiving it when u signed up for the subscription. It's like an "apology" from their side. A lot of big brand stores, media concerns etc do this.

Suzisue Sat 01-Apr-17 14:13:12

Whoops that went allwrong! My brother acquired a second gazebo after letting the company know of their mistake. I had the opposite though when returning £5.00 to a shop assistant who had given me too much change. She gave me daggers and no thanks at all! I have a feeling she may have been new and was embarrassed by her mistake!

Suzisue Sat 01-Apr-17 14:07:43

I've learnt a lot reading all the comments. My brother acquired an extra gazebo after informingbhe company

BlueBelle Sat 01-Apr-17 13:17:39

Paddyann you never get money handed into the police station back ifs fairly well known what happens to it

As for a free gift being a police offence they won't even come out to a full blown robbery so don't think you ve got too much to worry about some plastic utensils Josie ....Give it to a friend who could use it