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gransruleok Mon 13-Feb-17 13:00:15

This is my first post, so here goes. How I hate bras, I get myself professionally measured, buy the recommended bras, but always find that after a few washes, they cut in, and by mid afternoon, if I'm not going out, I just have to undo them, oh, the relief. Today I decided to go along to John Lewis and buy bra extenders. I took a simple sketch of the end of my bra to make sure the hooks and eyes are the same distance apart, and bingo. Simple to fit and comfortable as you like. Highly recommend this to all those others who hate their bra. Should have done this years ago.

Joelsnan Mon 13-Feb-17 13:07:52

Thanks for the good idea. I too suffer from the 'afternoon spread' and a lately am suffering from the straps sliding off my shoulders. I must be getting a Dowagers hump. I would love to bin my bras but couldn't cope with my boobs knocking against me knees smile oh for the long gone days of the 32B!

sunseeker Mon 13-Feb-17 13:09:48

I wear the Genie bras which I find very comfortable - although a friend who is very well endowed finds they don't give her enough support.

NanaandGrampy Mon 13-Feb-17 14:04:52

Are genie bras like AhhBras ?

I use these exclusively now. The great thing is one is enough support for indoors and I layer one over the other for good support when I go out.

So comfortable, no back boobs or cutting in. Heaven !

sunseeker Mon 13-Feb-17 14:35:45

Not heard of AhhBras but looking at them online they are very similar to Genie bras.

NanaandGrampy Mon 13-Feb-17 15:08:50

I will have a look at Genie bras thanks sunseeker .

AhhBras seems to have shut down in the U.K. . They did all sizes up to 5x in lots of colours , so I'm glad I stocked up when I did lol

shysal Mon 13-Feb-17 15:46:08

There are some Ahh bras on Ebay NanaandGrampy. I think they look more supportive than the Genie and some have removeable padding. I had never heard of them so have ordered a triple pack of the lacy ones, after Googling the sizings.

silverlining48 Mon 13-Feb-17 17:36:38

I hate bras too, and just before reading this had undone mine...as i usually do later in the day. i have never heard of those mentioned. Will check them out. Thanks.

Luckygirl Mon 13-Feb-17 17:49:53

I had a bad bra experience today! I was cooking with DGD in the kitchen and kept getting acute pain in my right nipple - once I had made sure the jam tart6s were not burning I investigated. Somehow a sharp bristle from my hair brush had embedded itself in my bra and was poking directly into my nipple - no wonder it hurt!! But a bit of a relief to know there is nothing amiss with my anatomy!

Takingthemick Mon 13-Feb-17 17:54:57

Thanks I thought it was just me who couldn't wait to get home and take the blooming thing off. Such a comfort to be in good company.

NanaandGrampy Mon 13-Feb-17 18:03:34

Thanks Shysal I'll have a look .

Dianalou Mon 13-Feb-17 18:17:49

My, admittedly unglamorous ,solution is to put my bra on over a camisole or sleeveless tshirt laye.
It stays comfortable all day.

Chewbacca Mon 13-Feb-17 18:19:00

Nothing beats coming in from work, at the end of a long day, and unhooking your bra. The relief is bliss. Sometimes, if I'm working alone, I slip both straps off my shoulders and pull my arms through. But I have to straighten myself up again before I leave my office! The days of pert boobs have long gone! sad

f77ms Mon 13-Feb-17 18:32:36

Bras are the bane of my life , I find that I have to have the shoulder straps so loose that they don`t hold me up and the fasteners at the back really are painful on my spine bones . I have found a sort of solution in a pull on effort which has a bit of padding . It is not a good look though , I feel very frumpy and it does not give a good shape under clothes . I have tried every kind of bra there is and they ALL HURT ! May look at the genie and extenders .

Jaxie Mon 13-Feb-17 18:48:43

I'm 38A and to find a comfortable bra is well- nigh impossible. Most cups are far too full for my small breasts, so I look like the cow with the crumpled horn. The band underneath the breasts is always on the last hook, or it cuts into my flesh. Cotton bras are particularly difficult to find. The pull on comfort bras are all made from nylon jersey and make me too hot, as my autonomic system has given up and I have no thermometer. I can't understand why M&S stock so few bras in my size - am I a freak?

bumblebee123 Mon 13-Feb-17 19:41:35

OOPS, I think I'm in the wrong section.blush
Brian.

Chewbacca Mon 13-Feb-17 19:42:42

grin come on in Brian and give us your opinions!

Coolgran65 Mon 13-Feb-17 20:05:17

f77 what about a front fastening bra ?

Esspee Mon 13-Feb-17 20:54:46

I burned my bras in the 70's. Don't any of you just go free?

Hellomonty Mon 13-Feb-17 21:27:55

Have a look at this. Most of us, certainly I, have been measuring ourselves incorrectly for modern bras. I found this a complete game changer. thebetterbracampaign.blogspot.co.uk/p/fitting-advice.html?m=1

f77ms Tue 14-Feb-17 07:47:14

Coolgran Thanks for your suggestion . I have tried the front fastening ones but still find them uncomfortable . I really don`t know what the answer is apart from going braless , difficult at a 36 c/d ! I have bra free days when staying at home grin

granjan30 Tue 14-Feb-17 08:17:22

I second Hellomonty's suggestion above. I had been wearing 34E bras and after measuring using the bra guru guide wear a 32G. The look and fit is so much better.

Witzend Tue 14-Feb-17 08:41:28

Jaxie, I'm a 38A too, and used to have a lot of trouble but found some very smooth, stretchy-cup ones with wide straps, no wiring or anything else to dig in, in M&S. They come in S,M and L - I found the M size fine.
Not exactly glam but who cares? I wear them nearly all the time.
I agree, not always easy to find 38A but you can always order at M&S.

grannypiper Tue 14-Feb-17 08:41:38

Had a fitting yesterday at M &S and i was still 40dd but the bra i bought from M&S last month which was also A 40dd was digging in all over and the assistant was shocked at the red marks, we tried other bra's and they were fine. The assistant replaced my old(18 days) bra with a new one.Must have been the style or it had been sized wrong. Aahh bra's cant be beaten though.

grannypiper Tue 14-Feb-17 08:55:00

Have just been on the WOWCHER site and they have aahh style bra's at 3 for £6, i bought a pack 3/4 years ago and they are still going strong. I feel they have better support and straps than aahh bra