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Dividing cafe/restaurant bills.

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Katek Fri 10-Feb-17 09:30:46

Following on from the 'Mean' thread I wondered how others divide the bill when out with friends. I'm quite happy to divide it by the number of people, makes it easy. I have a friend who pores over the bill adding up what each person had. Meanwhile the poor waitress or cashier is waiting for us to pay and go as there is a queue building up behind us. My friend also brings her own decaffeinated tea bag and asks for hot water. She then complains that she's still charged for a pot of tea. I have tried to explain that it still costs to produce the hot water, milk etc but it falls on deaf ears.

Daddima Mon 13-Feb-17 18:18:15

Janeainsworth, I think the tables may have been booked in the name of the school.

( Incidentally, his wife is a head teacher!)

MawBroon Mon 13-Feb-17 18:34:50

Organising meals for my department while I was still working could be a nightmare. These things in particularly irritated me
1) ordering from an advance menu - I would have to make sure I kept a copy as nobody could remember what they had ordered
2) people who would "have to" go home early leaving you with exactly enough for what they ate -so when service was factored in, yep, you're short of a few quid
3) one colleague who was tight with money but always chose the most expensive item (by a long way!) and then "absolutely" agreed we should just divvy up the total by the number of people there
4) people who claimed they should pay less because they only had soft drinks, ignoring the massive mark up on soft drinks in most pubs and restaurants.
No matter how you divvied up the bill there would be that awful business of half of them paying by card, half waving £20 and £10 notes but wanting change and inevitably when it was all done and dusted (or so you thought) you were somehow short and the few who were left always ended up lobbing an extra fiver into the pot.
Nightmare.

mrsmopp Tue 14-Feb-17 09:31:23

I'm with Madison on this issue, as I don't drink wine or spirits (just water) and these two items do bump up the bill quite substantially. I usually find a starter and main enough for me so I omit the dessert. I don't think I am being mean in thinking that if the bill is split evenly, that I'm overpaying every single time. It is tricky, but I just have to grin and bear it. It would be nice if one of the party noticed this and let me pay separately, then the others can split the bill evenly. But it can be a minefield. Should I subsidize the lobster eating wine drinkers who finish the meal with a brandy or two?
There should be a better way.....?