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Caretaker Thu 09-Feb-17 21:37:35

My SIL is unbelievably tight the latest thing is if she is out for a meal [at someone else's expense of course] and those she is with have any chips I say again chips left over on their plate/s SIL takes the chips home and put them in a freezer for another time. Tight or what. Do you know anyone like her.

FionaC Fri 10-Feb-17 10:51:38

I had the same health and safety reply when I asked for leftovers to be wrapped up. However, the manager gave me a pile of napkins and said I could do it myself. I assume this h&s reply must be from their Head Office probably to save money on tin foil.

chicken Fri 10-Feb-17 10:55:46

When my Dad was a young man, he went into a little shop and the customer in front was buying a pound of sultanas (sold loose in those days). The shopkeeper actually cut a sultana in half to make up the exact weight!

Maggiemaybe Fri 10-Feb-17 11:00:48

I love that, chicken! One of the expressions up here for someone with short arms and long pockets is "he'd cut a currant". grin

wellingtonpie Fri 10-Feb-17 11:02:28

Why would you want to.

wellingtonpie Fri 10-Feb-17 11:04:29

That's meant for downtoearth.

Yorkshiregel Fri 10-Feb-17 11:16:25

Not much chance of left-over food going in the bin in our house. OH makes soup out of veggies and curry out of meat. Fruit is left out for the birds to finish off. Rice also is put out for the birds as are crusts from toast. Sometimes if they are lucky the birds will get a home-made 'cake' out of scraps. We love to see them on the bird feeder. If there is anything that will not recycle then it goes in the compost maker. ie lettuce leaves that have gone off or cauliflower and broccoli, apple peelings etc.

If we have roast potatoes they are gone in a flash. OH is a superb cook so he generally measures just about enough for anyone wanting seconds and nothing much left after that.

I am very lucky and I know it. I do not like cooking but he does. I make up for it by cutting the hedge and weeding the garden, which he would do if his knees would let him. Also I help with mowing the lawn and cleaning windows.

Yorkshiregel Fri 10-Feb-17 11:20:28

When we go to other people's houses we usually take a home made cake and a loaf. Not necessarily to eat ourselves they can keep it for later if they like. If we go out we take it in turns to pay. No excuse for scroungers I think. Why should one person pay for everything when food is so expensive these days?

What I object to is my climate change dil nagging me to recycle when I have been doing it all my life! Youngsters these days think they have invented it.

Jaycee5 Fri 10-Feb-17 11:22:07

I can;t see anything wrong with people taking home things from their own plate. In Canada being offered a doggy bag is standard and in Chinese restaurant you usually get enough for a second meal.
It should become the norm here. There is no reason to waste food.
I have a relative who always finishes the food from other people's place which I find a bit unpleasant particularly as he is obese. Last time I met him he told me that he has sleep apnoea and melodramatically said that he could die from it and that there is no cure. He is not close enough that I felt that I could point out that losing weight often works.

Buddly Fri 10-Feb-17 11:31:56

Always remember going to a really posh restaurant with my mum, grandma and aunt who was over for a holiday from USA. We ordered steaks and when they arrived we saw grandma wrapping hers in a napkin and putting it in her handbag, aunt asks what she's doing and she says...that will be for colin's ( son still at home) tea tomorrow night.
This was in the days before doggy bags, we just sat there with our mouths open hoping the waiter hadn't noticed. Can laugh about it now thoughsmile

Craftycat Fri 10-Feb-17 11:41:01

Back in early 70s my (very odd) cousin came from Canada to stay. My Dad took him all over London to see sights. On the first day they went into a very nice restaurant for lunch & when they had finished he started looking around. Before dad could stop him he went over to a man who had pushed his plate away with some food left on it & asked if he could finish it. My poor Dad was horrified. He then proceeded to do the same again to someone else. Dad told him we do NOT do that in UK & got him out quickly. Cousin (who was mid 20s so should have known better) was adamant that it was a good thing to do as he had lived for a couple of years in Thailand & they never waste food there.
Believe me he had many more odd ways- scoured all my brand new- wedding present -teflon saucepans while I was out at work as they were 'dirty' & he got all that nasty black stuff off them!
He was actually on his way back to Canada via UK & we never heard what his mother thought of his new ways. We didn't dare ask!

RAF Fri 10-Feb-17 11:58:46

I have to admit I was gobsmacked when we went out for lunch with friends, and there was a shortage of tables. Eventually found one that had yet to be cleared, and my friend started eating the chips that had been left on the plate by a previous occupant!!!!

Lewlew Fri 10-Feb-17 12:01:20

Gosh, Crafty, that was really odd. shock

Coming from the US, you get such huge portions, that doggy-bags are a must. That's even in normal restaurants.

This is an extreme example, but my DH watches 'Fast & Loud', a car make-over show and the owners went to this Texas steak house where you are served a 72 OZ STEAK (isn't that 4 pounds?) and have to eat it all, to get it for free. Link is OK, just shows you the steak on the plate. There are YT videos of people eating it, but I could not 'stomach' watching that. The car show chap could not finish his at all.

bigtexan.com/72-oz-steak/

Lewlew Fri 10-Feb-17 12:02:25

RAF Ewwwwwwww... what if the previous diner had a nasty virus or something. confused

harrysgran Fri 10-Feb-17 13:13:08

I have a friend who years ago when she was with her husband bought the little sachets of coffee and would take a turn on alternate days on who's turn it was for coffee It was embarrassing when she would ask him was it your turn for coffee yesterday??

Morgana Fri 10-Feb-17 13:24:07

My dad was always very 'careful' with his money. No wonder as he was brought up in terrible poverty. He got worse as he got older and when my younger sister was a teenager he would take the plug off the hairdryer as he thought it took too much electricity!

inishowen Fri 10-Feb-17 14:06:45

I remember being in a steak restaurant with friends. We all had leftover steak so i said I'd take it home for our cat. Everyone tipped it into my napkin and i came home and put it in our fridge. The next day it was gone. My teenage son had come home from a night out and eaten the lot. He was horrified when he realised it had come off four different plates. He still recalls that now.

Jalima Fri 10-Feb-17 14:08:05

I went out with someone when we were students who told me off for using a fresh match each time I lit a gas ring. Matches should be saved and re-lit from the lit ring, never mind burned fingers.

Sheilasue Fri 10-Feb-17 14:21:46

That's tight crikey.

Jalima Fri 10-Feb-17 14:23:04

I didn't marry him grin
although someone I know did, often wonder how she is.

veronica2X5 Fri 10-Feb-17 14:49:49

Not hard up. Have always carried plastic box when eating out. Hate waste. helpings far to large. Great fun turning them into something different.

Legs55 Fri 10-Feb-17 15:08:03

My DM always has a plastic bag in her handbag or will ask for a "doggie bag", she's done that for years.

A few years ago my DM & I went out for Christmas Day to a lovely local pub, food was supurb but DM had a very heavy cold & couldn't eat much of her main course. The Owner came over very concerned so we reassured her food was lovely but DM was ill & couldn't eat up. She asked if we would like a "doggie bag" to which we replied "yes please". She came back with a plastic box, there was all my DM's plus the veg we hadn't eaten - enough for Boxing Day lunchgrin

H & S is a "red herring" - you've paid for your meal so any leftovers are yoursgringo prepared, I also carry a plastic bag in my handbag

Tessa101 Fri 10-Feb-17 15:30:16

Katek
It's common practice in Indian restaurants to ask for a doggy bag to take home the leftovers from your meal.

Funnygran Fri 10-Feb-17 15:50:03

A friend of mine told me she asked for the turkey carcass at the local Carvery as they were about to take it off the hot plate. They bagged it up for her and she took it home and made soup and sandwiches the next day from it. Not sure if I'd have the nerve to ask.

Blodwen1910 Fri 10-Feb-17 16:37:21

MIL could never finish a restaurant meals would surreptitiously(!) wrap the meat in a tissue and secrete it in her handbag. This was fine by us until the time she got home feeling tired, forgot the 'package', which my SIL found days later. False economy as the handbag was in such a bad state and had to be disposed of.

carol58 Fri 10-Feb-17 16:56:24

My MIL no longer takes home leftover meat for her dog. She forgot it was in her seldom used handbag. You can imagine the rest - not pleasant ? !