Gosh - I think the opposite - Christmas is coming out of our ear holes from October onwards!
Religion is on the curriculum in schools - pupils, quite rightly, have to learn about all religions and their festivals and thus learn tolerance. Christianity has been central in all the many school Christmas celebrations I have attended in the last couple of weeks. And rightly so - the message of Christmas is not lost on me as an agnostic and the symbolism is powerful. The government has not stopped religious assemblies in school - they just represent a variety of religious belief.
No-one is stopping anyone from putting a nativity scene in a shop window - where does that idea come from?
I do not know why your town has banned a Christmas tree - it certainly has not happened here or anywhere else I have been during this run-up to Christmas.
Shops opening over Christmas is not ideal for shop workers, but I am sure they would prefer to have a job than none. And Christmas with the family is not a rest for many!!
I have no problem with how things are in the main. I do not think that the real message of Christmas is lost - you only have to look at all those people who give up their time to provide meals for the street sleepers, or to give company to the lonely. OK, the commercial stuff is a bit of a pain, but religions have been heavily into this themselves over hundreds of years - go to a catholic cathedral or Lourdes if you want to see what real commercialism is about.
The tenor of the posts here on Gransnet is evidence of Christmas being celebrated in a loving spirit.
I think you should take a look at the positives - there are plenty to find.