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ninathenana Sun 04-Dec-16 10:14:34

It's only 4th December and already we have received 4 cards, 5 if you count the one from a well known coach company.
What is it with these people confused

ninathenana Sun 04-Dec-16 18:32:03

Rinouchka yes we still send to neighbours that we will see over the season. H and I exchange cards. A tradition I picked up from mum n dad. I don't give to D or S as they are living here. Mum n dad exchanged theirs on Christmas morning but H and I give ours in the lead up.
I like receiving cards. I don't know anyone who only sends e-cards or texted greetings thankfully.

goldengirl Sun 04-Dec-16 20:56:35

4 so far. I've just been to post some of mine [all written but I've run out of stamps!!!]

Grandma2213 Mon 05-Dec-16 01:41:01

I have received one from a friend who lives abroad and who is now spending the Christmas season locally, about 5 minutes away from me. What?!!

The cards that I send are still in the loft (bought in the sales last year). I also write a newsy letter personalised and email it to younger friends who appreciate it more than ungreen Christmas cards. I also post a Christmas and New Year message at the appropriate time on Facebook.

Close family and friends who I see all the time do not receive cards but I make a donation to a local charity.

Does that cover all tastes? If not - any other suggestions?

Izabella Mon 05-Dec-16 04:47:36

We only do e-cards and have finally got everyone to agree not to send us any actual cards in return. We give a donation to Guide Dogs instead which I believe is of far more use. My mum was blind hence the choice of charity.

Pigglywiggly Mon 05-Dec-16 06:40:59

We had one in November from some neighbours, but turns out they have gone on a cruise so we're sending cards early.
We do send cards to neighbours because other people do it and it would seem churlish not to. I bought 30 cards on Saturday, but hope to have some left for next year wink

BBbevan Mon 05-Dec-16 07:27:55

None yet, but I have sent all our cards. We have moved recently and I wanted to tell everyone

Witzend Mon 05-Dec-16 09:05:12

None yet, which is unusual.
We send a lot, since many friends are far-flung. I had posted all my overseas cards by 30th Nov, and all the UK ones by 2nd Dec. One job out of the way - we will be a very big family party this year in a rental far from home so I have plenty of other stuff to do and think of, plus other family visiting in a few days.

I know two couples who have stopped sending cards, which I can well understand if money is tight. However these people are all very comfortably off so I suspect they just CBA. One of them said they would be donating the money to charity instead, fair enough, but these are the sort of people who could easily do both and not even miss it. Still, their choice.
Dh hates doing the relatively few he HAS to do, and puts it off as long as possible, so I suspect there's a bit of that involved.

mischief Mon 05-Dec-16 09:26:16

5 up to now. Must get a move on with mine.

Lilyflower Mon 05-Dec-16 09:38:06

I have had two cards one of which was from friends who have moved home from abroad and who wanted t re-establish contact.

I have written, added the dreaded newsletter and stamped my cards and will post them on the Sunday nearest the 10th December. My rule for cards is that they have to be classical art and religious and they have to be on good card not floppy paper. Anything less isn't worth the eleven bob it now costs to post second class.

I absolutely love sending and receiving cards at Christmas. The post adds a thrill to the day.

HannahLoisLuke Mon 05-Dec-16 09:40:56

Just one so far, from an elderly relative in Canada and I've posted hers too.

Plan to write and post the rest later this week. I do send electronic ones to overseas friends and relatives now to save on the very expensive postage ( except for the elderly Canadian lady already mentioned)

Mid December feels about right for them to begin arriving.

Rosina Mon 05-Dec-16 09:44:25

'Got our first on on Saturday and the dog ate it. 'Think it was from my cousin as far as I could decipher from the few spitty remnants on the mat.

GrammaH Mon 05-Dec-16 09:46:32

3 so far. I usually write mine 2 Sundays before Christmas, sitting at the dining table with a bottle of prosecco to help me as it's not a task I enjoy but we have DS, DDIL & DGS lunching that Sunday as they're away for Christmas. It's quite put me out! I don't know when I'll get the cards done but hopefully everyone will receive them in time for Christmas

paddyann Mon 05-Dec-16 10:10:14

I buy mine just after christmas and write one for evryone I take down,just leave the addresses blank in case people move through the year ,they're put in the box with the christmas tree decorations and completed when the tree goes up ,usually posted the first week December

GadaboutGran Mon 05-Dec-16 10:20:25

I think that sending & receiving cards is one tiny bit of glue that keeps people connected & you never know if it is a spark that reignites a stronger connection at some time - even if only to let their relatives know who to contact when they die. I now tend to send some when I receive so I can reply to any news. Some early senders are just anxious, elderly, scared they will receive none - or like to spread the load for postal workers. They warn me to start thinking about Xmas. So more things to get bothered about.

Gaggi3 Mon 05-Dec-16 10:25:26

I have thought about writing my cards every day for about two weeks.

Yorkshiregel Mon 05-Dec-16 10:56:56

What started out as a joke has now turned in to a tradition for my son and his long time friend from school. They send each other the same two cards alternating every Christmas. They are getting a bit tatty now but it is just one way of keeping in touch. They include a note inside of what they have been getting up to. I think he would be quite sad if it didn't arrive one Christmas. Just a bit of fun.

My OH has been writing cards since October! He says it is less stressful that way. He doesn't send them until the week before Christmas though.

We have had 5 already, two from abroad from people we have known for years. They always include a photograph of the children so we can see how they have grown.

radicalnan Mon 05-Dec-16 11:03:02

My gran used to send all cards in June or Jan for the entire family birthdays / anniversaries and Christmas..........just to keep on top of things

MissAdventure Mon 05-Dec-16 11:13:29

I don't send cards, and its such a relief. Everyone who knows me knows I wish them a happy Christmas.

Greyduster Mon 05-Dec-16 11:20:37

I am going to do mine today, but the fact that the postage will cost me twice as much as the cards have cost is not sitting well with me.....

LilyBlue Mon 05-Dec-16 11:23:28

I received my first Christmas card this year on November 21st.
Their cards usually arrive on December 1st.
I haven't started writing any of mine yet.

Granny1London Mon 05-Dec-16 11:41:38

I reckon that as Christmas starts at midnight on 24 Dec and goes on until Epiphany on 6th Jan it is ok if my cards arrive within that time frame! Everything seems to happen earlier every year so the excitement has worn off by Christmas Day!

hulahoop Mon 05-Dec-16 11:47:45

I have just got my 5th have wrote most of mine I need some more stamps now I like to
Send and receive cards , I also give to charity and buy cards from charities love cards made by grandchildren ?

grandMattie Mon 05-Dec-16 11:49:27

Only 2, one of which was from the postman!
It seems to be yet another competitive thing - how many cards did you get? are they homemade by some Yummy mummy or their equally ghastly sprog? etc., etc.
The year I turned 60 and got a -minute- pension [I was a kept woman], I sent cards and told everyone that from now on i was cutting back as i was broke and a pensioner. Only about 2 people responded...
My list was endless, friends of my late parents who never wrote, people i hadn't seen for about 30 years and was unlikely to see again. Quite frankly, I also was fed up with the letters about their riches, their perfect DCs and the unbelievably gifted GCs. wink
I felt so much better after that. I now send about 5 cards by post, and the rest by e-mail. If they don't like it, they can lump it!
Having said all that, I love Christmas, the build-up, the services, the carols, the church decorations, the food, the whole blooming lot!

Sheilasue Mon 05-Dec-16 11:53:45

I have 5. Haven't sent any yet.

grandMattie Mon 05-Dec-16 11:55:28

me neither - haven't even written the darned letter either!