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Gransnet today....Just my opinion.

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merlotgran Sun 27-Nov-16 11:43:46

Don't want to completely hi-jack the 'Christmas in four words' thread so I've started this one. Feel free to shoot me down. I don't do flouncing. grin

Some time ago, the 'What does Gransnet mean to you?'thread developed into a 'Bring back jingl' campaign. Despite this, it has become clear that we are not entitled to an explanation as to why she is still shackled to the naughty step

We inhabit a goldfish bowl which must be respectable to the outside world looking in on an ageing cyber community. Old people are only expected to be curmudgeonly in books and TV nonsense. Manufactured threads about growing old disgracefully are perfectly acceptable so long as they fit the approved template which has been set by people who are NOT as old as we are.

All well and good until a situation causes a ding-dong. We must be ever mindful that Gransnet is a business relying on advertising revenue. Swearing is tolerated on Mumsnet because it's acceptable in the young and feisty whereas the 'one foot in the grave' club have to leave all that behind and remember our opinions don't really count any more.

The political threads are argumentative because that's politics. You can't put a straight jacket on a well informed if opiniated point of view which is as it should be. Folk who hide behind the sofa when all hell breaks loose should know better than to get caught in the cross-fire.

So....We're allowed to moan about Brexit, complain about our aches and pains and chat about telly dramas/adverts/music. We willingly offer support to complete strangers even though it often comes back to bite us. I'm not the only one who can spot a set-up. Above all, we must remain bland!

There were two members who railed against this. One is sadly no longer with us and the other has been kicked into touch for being too outspoken. Unsurprisingly, they rarely saw eye to eye but that's LIFE!

I'm off to put the joint in the oven. I might even start a thread about it. hmm

Only joking!

trisher Mon 28-Nov-16 19:49:56

Just caught up with this- GS has been for tea. It's probably just as well I wasn't on I might have said something unrepeatable to Christinefrance or whatever her name is. And I haven't had a glass of anything, but maybe I will now. Quite honestly my response to her "give it up" is simple.It's abusive. It's two words, and the second one is "off".

Jalima Mon 28-Nov-16 19:42:05

Alima tots are still available at Naval Reunions wink

Alima Mon 28-Nov-16 19:36:26

Thank you Elegran, an interesting and credible tale about Nelson
(My only reference book is Jackspeak, a rather tongue in cheek dictionary of Naval sayings. Their definition of tapping is rather different so it is good to know the actual one).

Elegran Mon 28-Nov-16 19:20:00

alima The legend had it (apocryphal) that Nelson's body was brought home preserved in a keg of rum, but by the time he arrived back in Britain, all the rum had vanished - said to be due to people dropping in to pay their respects and tapping the barrel. More likely evaporation.

(By tapping, I don't mean knocking it, I mean tapping as a pub landlord taps it.)

A second lieutenant I know said that they used to be sent to measure out the tots for the spirit ration, but was only supposed to spend a limited time in the enclosed space with the barrel open, and had to be in pairs. I imagine it was also so that they didn't have time to help themselves!

Alima Mon 28-Nov-16 18:44:21

When DH was in, wee bit later than Waterloo, there was just a pipe, "Up spirits" and the tots were given out. He hasn't heard of the "tapping the admiral" bit. Sounds a bit dodgy to me!

Elegran Mon 28-Nov-16 18:35:59

Am I right in thinking that when the "mainbrace was spliced" and tots issued, the officers opening the rum cask worked in pairs and very fast - not because one of them might be imbibing illicitly while he had the chance, but because the fumes could have knocked out one man on his own?

Then there is the legend of "tapping the admiral"

Alima Mon 28-Nov-16 18:30:28

Jalima, there was a photo from one of the red tops of a Jack Dusty issuing one of the last tots. We knew him, a few years later he worked at Vicky Barracks, tall, dark handsome chap. Just cannot think of his name!

watermeadow Mon 28-Nov-16 18:24:47

I have older friends who don't like swearing and are fascinated by the royal family but what makes me feel an alien on Gransnet is the many posters who are apparently of the same generation as my grandmother. I'm 71.

Jalima Mon 28-Nov-16 18:24:20

Just a minute, I'll re-mortgage first
(how many members?)

rosesarered Mon 28-Nov-16 18:18:47

Yes Jalima you did miss it, and now it's your turn to get a round in.tchsmile

Jalima Mon 28-Nov-16 18:17:23

I used to buy it in my sewing days, there is probably still some lurking around at the bottom of the sewing box.

Now, what was that about wine did I miss something?

TriciaF Mon 28-Nov-16 18:15:34

That ribbon - it's still called grosgrain in France. I bought some not long ago, for the waistband of a skirt.

Bellanonna Mon 28-Nov-16 18:13:51

I pad chooses the spelling

Bellanonna Mon 28-Nov-16 18:13:08

Unbelievabel. As you say RAR .......

Ana Mon 28-Nov-16 18:11:55

Might have been a few lurkers with nothing better to do...hmm

rosesarered Mon 28-Nov-16 18:06:17

I can't believe that any poster complained about the wine thing! WTF

Jalima Mon 28-Nov-16 18:04:09

Not advertising Cari !

Unless anyone wants stars and stripes ribbon.

Jalima Mon 28-Nov-16 18:02:35

"Grosgrain" is commonly used to refer to a heavy, stiff ribbon of silk or nylon woven via taffeta weave using a heavy weft which results in distinct transverse ribs. Historically grosgrain was made from wool, silk, or a combination of fibers such as silk and wool or silk and mohair. When a combination of fibers was used, the end result was sometimes given the name grogram, silk mohair, gros de Tours or gros de Napels.

I think it is still called grosgram in America:
www.alibaba.com/product-detail/Fashion-Printed-Grosgram-Polyester-Ribbons-Wholesale_1662738228.html

thatbags Mon 28-Nov-16 18:01:47

No, but I think both are from the same Old French word meaning coarse grained (fabric).

Grosgrain is that ribbed ribbon of the type used as hat bands. My school hat had a grosgrain band.

I quite fancy a grogram cloak!

DaphneBroon Mon 28-Nov-16 17:58:04

Is grogram the same as grosgrain, then thatbags?

Jalima Mon 28-Nov-16 17:50:51

Interesting!

It was diluted for junior ranks but not for officers.
The rum ration was done away with on 31st July 1970

thatbags Mon 28-Nov-16 17:45:56

Apparently grog was called after Admiral Vernon, known as Old Grog, who, in 1740, ordered that rum be diluted with water for sailors. It came, it seems, from his grogram cloak (grogram is a coarse cloth made of silk and mohair).

#fascinatingfacts

Jalima Mon 28-Nov-16 17:39:24

Even if I have just split an infinitive
Don't blush about it, I love to boldly split infinitives
and have no shame about doing so.

Jalima Mon 28-Nov-16 17:37:00

Does the word groggy come from the noun 'grog' (rum with hot water and spices)?

merlotgran Mon 28-Nov-16 17:21:37

They haven't said it's permanent, Ana but then they haven't said it isn't. hmm