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What is it that makes YOU feel that you have reached old age?

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Shanma Wed 23-Nov-16 15:45:29

I thought I would start this as a bit of a fun thread, so not looking for answers here along the lines of aching bones etc.
The thing that made ME feel old yesterday when on my long bus journeys( See the " What a Day" Thread smile...ok the thing that made me think " Oh Boy you old fogey" was that when I was on the bus there were alot of Schoolchildren of various ages travelling too.

I was horrified by the state of their SHOES!! I know it isn't important in the great scheme of things, but most of them looked like they hadn't seen any polish for weeks if not months.

When I was at school we had shoe inspections, fingernails too as I recall. My Son always went out with highly polished shoes, when he was younger his Dad did it then we made sure he did it himself as he became old enough. Does this annoy anyone else?
By the way Son is 36 now and well beyond my duristiction...his shoes are a mess grin

petra Sat 26-Nov-16 16:46:29

Not being able to party as I did for many years.

Conni7 Sat 26-Nov-16 15:40:17

When my granddaughter says: "Why have you got lines on your face, Granny?".

Flossieturner Sat 26-Nov-16 13:59:35

I look very much like my mum. When I visited her in the home she thought I was her twin sister. After a few years she thought I was her Mum.

Yorkshiregel Sat 26-Nov-16 10:44:47

sarahellenwhitney I was one of the lucky ones too. It passed me by thank goodness.

Yorkshiregel Sat 26-Nov-16 10:43:14

Morgana I expected that comment to come under your post but it didn't.

Yorkshiregel Sat 26-Nov-16 10:42:24

Aaaaw! Hope he is ok now and still has the courage to go out on his own?

Thingmajig Sat 26-Nov-16 10:13:43

I'm not sure that I'll feel old as long as I have the aged mother (88) around! In saying that, I'm "only" 58 so have a few more years of youth maybe? smile

carol49cat Sat 26-Nov-16 08:25:18

Never mind looking in the mirror and seeing my mother, I now see my grandmother looking back at me!

Faraway43 Sat 26-Nov-16 01:17:16

Bus drivers wait until I've sat down before moving off, they never used to lol

Tessa101 Fri 25-Nov-16 23:16:45

Having to scroll so far down to find my date of birth when filling in forms online.

Lyndylou Fri 25-Nov-16 22:16:02

I work in a big office with a lot of young girls on the desk behind me and I hear their chatter. Recently they were discussing a "very old" film. Turned out to have been released in 2010. My idea of a very old film is The Ladykillers (the original).

However today it was brought home to me when a new young man on our team was discussing that today is apparently the day everyone should wear their favourite band t shirt and everyone got asked what they would wear except me. The idea that I must have given up on music is very depressing.

Blinko Fri 25-Nov-16 19:17:21

Ha ha. Went to a rock and roll gig last evening where the stars were all old boys well over 70. Marty Wilde, Eden Kane, Mike Berry and Mark Wynter, all still on form and rockin' 'em in the aisles. One of them remarked how it was good to be on the 'Antiques Roadshow'! Cheeky wotsit.

Luckygirl Fri 25-Nov-16 18:56:23

Not being able to read the buttons on the front of the DVD player etc. under the TV because I cannot find any place to look through my varifocals that is in focus. And without my glasses I cannot see it at all - and I cannot kneel on the floor to look up close. Blooming frustrating!

Esspee Fri 25-Nov-16 18:45:41

No Sarah, been on HRT for 27 years. Still feel 40 most of the time.

Morgana Fri 25-Nov-16 18:45:05

I realised I am getting old when there was a knock at the door a couple of weeks ago. There stood my D H. Blood dripping from elbow. He was in tears. Looked 90 tho he is only 72. He had fallen over in high street and some very kind lady had brought him home. He is fine now nothing broken. But it was a real wake up call.

NickyD47 Fri 25-Nov-16 18:37:42

I am nearly 69, but feel about 50, but I obviously don't look it because last weekend I was offered a seat on the underground twice! Very impressed by the kindness, but it was something of a reality check!

sarahellenwhitney Fri 25-Nov-16 18:26:44

Espee Not yet been through the menopause?No night sweats, no feeling that every day is the end of the world ?You may have sailed through it.Lucky you.

sarahellenwhitney Fri 25-Nov-16 18:20:45

First thing I have to do when out of bed in the morning putting the kettle on for a cuppa.
Never used to drink tea until I retired.

Esspee Fri 25-Nov-16 18:19:56

Nothing makes me feel I have reached old age yet, but I am only 67, still working part time, not intending to go through the menopause EVER and I think that is what makes the huge difference.

chrissyh Fri 25-Nov-16 18:19:24

When I gave in and took a pair of slippers to leave at my DS an DDiLs to wear when I looked after the DGC. My DM left slippers at mine and I thought 'ah bless her, how sweet'!

Teddy123 Fri 25-Nov-16 17:17:06

The slipper thing! I've even left a pair at my daughters. Then again, she's very fussy about the wooden floors!

Walking along the street and realising I've now become invisible!

Being called 'dear' in shops.
? Dear. Eh?

Not knowing what's No. 1 in the charts or even if there still are pop music charts

Actually I'm gonna stop ... The list is endless ....

Direne3 Fri 25-Nov-16 17:03:53

Remember Terry Wogan (on his radio programme)saying that it is when you lean to pick something up and wonder whether there is anything else to be fetched before you get up - I now know what he meant.

Venus Fri 25-Nov-16 16:45:42

When my sister, who is nearly 81, asked ME if I'm alright to go up the stairs at a cinema! (I'm 10 year's younger then her!!!)

hapgran Fri 25-Nov-16 16:30:27

more over

hapgran Fri 25-Nov-16 16:29:43

On a city break in Barcelona, I lost count of the number of times I was offered a seat on a crowded bus. They certainly respect their elders moreover there but I am sure they would be mortified that each offer upset me for the rest of the day!