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watermeadow Sun 20-Nov-16 20:22:29

I always have a strict budget for Christmas, which makes me feel very mean but I have a large family.
This year I'm worse off than usually and will have to limit it to £20 per person. I shop only locally (small town), no internet purchases, nothing which people would buy for themselves.
Please suggest 8 man presents, 8 woman presents and 8 children presents (ages 5 to late teens)

pattie Mon 21-Nov-16 10:16:12

For small gc I have bought a portable microphone as she loves singing,a gardening set as 5 yr oldasked for one. Also bought leggings and top in Marks. All these were under£20.
For an11 yr old boy I bought 'soft' pjs (asked for) and supplemented with a big box of chocs.
Also got personalised floor cushions for curling up watching films at home.
And a fleecy blanket to wrap up on cold evenings.
Hope this is helpful.

Albangirl14 Mon 21-Nov-16 10:19:09

I buy some gifts from Christmas Fairs such as new good brand toiletris or an unusual mug that is right for that person. Go when it opens and be prepared to buy quickly. If you hesitate someone else picks it up! Have had many a bargain for my family

pennyh47 Mon 21-Nov-16 10:20:27

Our family gets bigger so we are having a secret santa for adults with a limit of £20 and a wish list from each one. When it was suggested everyone leapt on the idea. Often just takes someone to do this and rest of family are relieved. Just buy for the DGC who are all under 5. Ask parents what to get. One DD asked for money towards two toddler beds. Do have a DD and DGD in Oz so send money or use an Aussie shop. John Lewis will deliver for £10. It's more about being together xx

David1968 Mon 21-Nov-16 10:24:02

Charity shops! Some great "as new" bargains, including books. My family are happy with anything from charity shops - and friends don't know!

annodomini Mon 21-Nov-16 10:25:06

I've found mugs with recipes for, respectively, a cake and muffins for two of the GSs to make in the microwave. Fake tattoos can be good stocking fillers for youngsters who will have great fun adorning themselves - and probably you - on Christmas morning.

Blinko Mon 21-Nov-16 10:36:45

As usual, GN comes up trumps. There are some great ideas on this thread. The Works has super books and craft things for bargain prices. Also lovely and varied calendar, diary and pen sets.

Disgruntled Mon 21-Nov-16 10:38:48

I agree with everyone who says Don't buy for the adults. My suggestion is that you contact them, phone or face to face, and suggest that you don't buy each other a present: the other person might be relieved.
One of the most successful presents I got for my 5 year old granddaughter was a pair of sparkly high heels, size 4 (not my size) in a charity shop.
Good luck.

ninuksmith Mon 21-Nov-16 10:39:48

As our family expanding...we are struggling financially to give each member of the family a decent present. So we decided to have a "secret santa" system with a budget, in our case, £60. I am the "chief of elves " and pulls out a name of who is he/she buying for. I then tell the person (the secret santa) but not the person receiving it. Everyone then have to email/tell me what are their wish list within the budget, which I then forward it to appropriate "santa/elf". This way we get a good present that we like and not 10 different little presents that will end up sitting on the shelf. The best thing of all you only spend £60. Of course There is nothing to stop you from giving your own spouse and/or children additional present. We have been doing it this way for 3 years now and everyone is happy! I recommend you to try it! It is fun watching and listening to the family trying to guess who's their secret santa is! And I am the only one that know!grin

DaphneBroon Mon 21-Nov-16 10:41:48

www.waterstones.com/campaign/ladybird-books-for-grown-ups
(Other booksellers e.g. Amazon are available)

These plus "I spy for Grown Ups " books make excellent presents for those hard-to-buy-for men!

moobox Mon 21-Nov-16 10:44:17

£20 per person - that's fine, and probably quite a lot if you have all those gifts to buy. I confess I tend to see and buy things from about September, then ask for one specific idea from each person. In the last few years I have gone from 0 to 6 grandchildren and step grandchildren in a rate of acceleration rivalling that of a Porsche.

patriciageegee Mon 21-Nov-16 11:05:29

Anything food/drink for the adults maybe something a bit extravagant they wouldn't normally spend £20 on themselves if you have a local deli or farmers' market. All of the above suggestions for the young uns are good so won't add any more. Here's a thought for next year..in our family and group of friends we all spend £5 on 5 individual £1 presents which we put into a lucky dip..cue much hilarity at the crapness of some of the gifts and surprising usefulness of others. We all really look forward to it and even shopping for the presents is great as there are marvellous hilarious things to be got from charity shops, Christmas fairs, pound shops etc. And echoing a lot of the posts £20 isn't at all mean when you're on a limited budget..bring on the real Christmas spirit and hope you have a lovely one!

Legs55 Mon 21-Nov-16 11:21:16

I am lucky as I only a few to buy for - DD easy this year, she needs new clothes (new DGC due end of May) + chocolate, her OH is a Liverpool FC fan, I'm collecting "pin badges" bought throughout the year + chocolate. DGS game for PS3, Books, Jigsaw (UK Map showing all League Football Teams) + chocolate & any stocking fillers I find.

DM is 87 so it will be cash unless she finds something she wants.

Couple of friends - just small gifts.

I do like to start buying small gifts early if I see something unusual. Next year (all going well) there will be one more DGC smile

KatyK Mon 21-Nov-16 11:34:48

Gift vouchers for their favourite shop/eatery.

GrammaH Mon 21-Nov-16 11:42:28

I bought some gorgeous fluffy dressing gowns & some silky kimonos for the ladies I buy for & some super PJS for the men -all well under £20 & excellent quality from Matalan

jessycake Mon 21-Nov-16 11:47:04

I always go for goody bags when I'm on budget, you can buy the bags in the pound shop, get multi packs of sweets then look for offers in the supermarket on small gift sets often 3 for 2 ,you can buy bulbs a cd, all sorts of bits and bobs . If you have 3 or four items wrapped in some tissue paper they look quite nice.

Direne3 Mon 21-Nov-16 12:01:22

Quite a few suggestions are for gift vouchers. Excellent idea, however, not so good if one is sending with card in the post. You might as well be putting cash inside which P.O. advises against - emailing e. vouchers are a much safer bet.

Direne3 Mon 21-Nov-16 12:03:29

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Yorkshiregel Mon 21-Nov-16 12:37:04

www.thecufflinkstore.co.uk/

Great bargains here for men.

Also here:

www.sportsdirect.com

Some good buys here for toys:

www.theworks.co.uk

Unisex:

www.31dover.com/drink-gifts/pick-and-mix.html

Ladies:

www.prezzybox.com/gifts-for-her.aspx

Or you could always buy a rose bush or indoor plant?

Yorkshiregel Mon 21-Nov-16 12:44:49

The Best Christmas of All

Do you remember when we were small?
Our parents had no money at all
They would feed all us children the best way they could
And keep us warm with sticks from the wood

Do you remember getting up in the cold light of dawn
Father telling us about a child who’d been born?
He was laid in a manger for his bed
A bright star was shining overhead

Three wise men travelled night and day
To get to the place where baby Jesus lay
Dressed in coats that were trimmed with fur
They gave him gold, and frankincense, and myrrh

Do you remember the tree our Father had found?
Deep in the wood sprouting out of the ground
All of the branches hung down low
You could see Father’s footprints there in the snow

He’d sat carving figures all through the night
And there, under the tree, we saw such a sight!
Baby Jesus snuggled up in a manger so warm
And his mother and father, smiling down on that tiny form

You had a wooden boat; I got a wooden bat and a little ball
Those are the gifts I will treasure most of all
So thank you so much for your gold watch, and the silver pen
But you know the best Christmas presents I ever had
Were the ones in the wood, way back then

One of mine.

annan Mon 21-Nov-16 14:29:33

Used my Tesco vouchers and bought different family members a senior railcard, membership of Ramblers, a family outing to Safari Park and English Heritage at the 'boost' rate which was 50% off and under your £20 a head budget.. Obviously the people concerned liked getting out and about and only works if you have the right tesco vouchers nectar points or whatever

DotMH1901 Mon 21-Nov-16 14:34:06

We only buy for the kiddies apart from my sister in law who I always buy a small hamper for which I arrange to arrive between Christmas and New Year (something I have done for years).. I am knitting a dress each for my two eldest granddaughters and will be buying a single present each for them, and will be sending money over to the US for my grandson and granddaughter there - did send presents one year and the postage was dreadful, we agreed that it was better to send money instead. My grandson will have money as well - he is 13 and likes to spend it on what he wants. I will buy my daughter a small present as she is a single mum and she appreciates the thought very much. I have gt gt nieces to buy for now, my gt nieces and gt nephews are all adults so have joined the 'card only' group smile

Newquay Mon 21-Nov-16 17:30:41

I asked a friend recently what she and her (large) family do when they have their annual get together and she said Secret Santa too-£5 limit.
Brilliant thought I, so I googled Secret Santa £5. Well. . . . . The most decent item was a small China bell-labelled 'fart alert'!
I think £20 per head is quite generous. Some of the ideas here are excellent.
LOVED your poem Yorkshire gel.

joannewton46 Mon 21-Nov-16 17:32:33

Boots tokens for men and women, cash for children, itunes vouchers for teenagers.
I always feel guilty giving my god-children cash but they always appreciate it as they can buy whatever they want.

Nergard Mon 21-Nov-16 18:53:11

Usually I give only toys to the children but this year giving a relative's family a voucher to pay for the whole family to go to the cinema together. Only problem will be the demand for popcorn.

path20 Mon 21-Nov-16 19:38:18

I would just put the £20 cash in one of those Christmas money cards.We have eight grandchildren and thats what we do now. They rather like having the money to spend on what they want.
I thought I'd made it easier for myself doing that but now I'm searching for one of those Hatchimal Eggs. Apparently my smallest granddaughter has it on her Santa list and her mum can't find one anywhere.All sold out.