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perfume - to buy or be given

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jordana Fri 11-Nov-16 13:05:17

I will be buying perfume as usual for my daughter and d-in-law. I know what they like and they have not objected to this. However, it got me thinking as to whether women prefer to buy their own perfume or receive it as a gift? My hubbie has no sense of smell so perfume is wasted on him and he couldn't buy me any unless I tell him advance which one I like ( usually falls on deaf ears anyway!) Personally, I usually buy my own. Another question is : do you think perfume is worth the expense?

Katekeeprunning Sat 12-Nov-16 09:45:58

Jo Malone earl grey & cucumber is my favourite at the minute

Pittcity Sat 12-Nov-16 09:46:51

I use Marc Jacob's Daisy. A couple of years ago DH said he would buy me some for my birthday. He found the perfume in a white box and a gift set where the perfume was in a black box. This confused the poor man so he bought me both. I haven't even opened the second one yet.....

BRedhead59 Sat 12-Nov-16 09:48:19

I try them out in department stores and nearly always regret it - I don't like any of them.

Thingmajig Sat 12-Nov-16 09:48:49

I would happily buy perfume to give as a gift, but only if I knew the recipient liked it.

I don't often wear perfume but I love Dune so husband has been instructed asked to buy me some for Christmas as my bottle (had it for years) is done. That's my night time perfume, for day time I wear Light Blue, or whatever the one from Next is called that smells exactly the same. smile

radicalnan Sat 12-Nov-16 09:51:36

Bit of a risky gift perfume I think unless you know what they like.

I have taken to using replicas of the perfume I love as can't afford it anymore, it is fine..........not quite but fine.

I wish I could afford the real stuff it does give me a boost and I don't us any other enhancements (and OMG does that show) but to know that you smell sublime is lush.

Ask the girls what they wear otherwise you may become locked into a cycle of re buying the wrong thing forever...........

NonnaW Sat 12-Nov-16 09:53:36

I tend to stick to Chanel No 5. My DSD bought me a handbag spray and refills a couple of years ago. I'm on the last refill now, and have just looked up the price to replace - ouch!

missdeke Sat 12-Nov-16 09:54:23

Greyduster, I love Cool Water Woman, lovely and light and fresh and doesn't give me a headache. They all smell different on different people, my daughter's expensive one, the one shaped like a corset, con't remember the name, smells like camel's p** on me.

Skweek1 Sat 12-Nov-16 09:56:29

I keep trying different perfumes, but they are all vile on me, so stick with Poison which is about the best of a bad choice. MIL tries the same ones and they are all great on her. Some years ago was in one of those "fragrance shops" in shopping malls and quite liked one with Posh Spice's label, but couldn't afford it, but probably would have beenn equally horrible by the time I got home.

Omaoma57 Sat 12-Nov-16 09:56:51

Have tried a plethora of perfumes...but all smell of wet dog after a few minutes...OK with perfumed shower gels, so buy really lovely ones. Anyone else have this problem?

annifrance Sat 12-Nov-16 09:59:18

I don't even put the dustbins out without wearing perfume! Don't go if for makeup much, so scent is my signature. I once telephoned a male friend, it's Anni I said. I know he said,I can smell your perfume! Omg I thought I must smell like a tart's handkerchief.

I have worn Lanvin Arpege for over 45 years, trying others along the way. I like van Kleef and Arpels First, Opium, Balenciaga Le Dix, Miss Balmain, and Lidl Suddenly Madame Glamour for putting out the said dustbins as cash flow doesn't allow the aforesaid for .'at home' nowadays. But always a bottle of Arpege to hand.

granjan66 Sat 12-Nov-16 10:02:25

I buy my own and have worn Eden by Cacherel for years.

Linnie Sat 12-Nov-16 10:04:57

I usually lust over a perfume for ages, keep spraying a bit in Debenhams (pretending it's first time I've tested it) then when I'm at airport buy myself gorgeous scent of choice. HOWEVER OH picks up 'pour homme' anything going and always smells better than lotsa wonga pong I've bought. I use his nowgrin

cavaliermum Sat 12-Nov-16 10:08:07

Molecules 01
Wear everyday
And at least once a day a get a comment about how lovely it is
( usually be handsome strangers )

Teetime Sat 12-Nov-16 10:09:25

I bought my self a large bottle of Opium recently as I had run out of perfume and there wasn't a birthday or Christmas in sight so its part of my kit I wear it perfume every day. Yesterday I bought myself some Paris because I had done all the Christmas shopping within budget so I fancied a treat. Usually DH buys me perfume for my birthday and Christmas he favours Chanel No5 which I always love but this year I have left a little hint about Black Opium and a Jo Malone Lime and Basil.

annodomini Sat 12-Nov-16 10:18:32

The one I used to love (as did most of my female relatives) was Ma Griffe which sometimes turns up on Ebay, but could be years old, having languished in a drawer for its whole life.

JaxKerr Sat 12-Nov-16 10:28:38

Always wear Lou Lou by Cacharel :-)

JaxKerr Sat 12-Nov-16 10:32:14

And always get DH to buy me 3 bottles each Christmas which makes us both happy!smile

TerriBull Sat 12-Nov-16 10:32:41

I like to buy my own perfume, cos I know what I like. Although I appreciate being given a Jo Malone product. I like Channel No. 5 a lot I think it's a classic. I'm also very fond of Hermes Eau de Merveilles. As much as I hate Amazon, I sometimes go there for non available perfumes, I recently bought Femme by Rochas which I loved years ago and is quite reasonably priced. Another, as metioned by Janeainsworth, Jolie Madame, I loved it too, is no longer available, but it can be bought on Amazon but at a very extortionate price which sadly is just too much, for me at any rate.

SueDoku Sat 12-Nov-16 10:36:33

My skin tends to make most perfumes smell as though there's some rotting fruit about shock and as I also have asthma, I stick to the one perfume that I know smells good on me - Ysatis...! I've used it for years, and have no idea what I'd do if it's ever discontinued...! hmm. I'd probably opt for no perfume at all...

sillup Sat 12-Nov-16 10:48:08

It's been opium for many years now.

dragonfly46 Sat 12-Nov-16 10:48:34

I use Angel and people often comment on it and say how lovely it is!

Sourcerer48 Sat 12-Nov-16 10:50:13

When I was young I used to wear Sea Jade by Yardley. Such a lovely fresh perfume which unfortunately has been discontinued for many years.
Also love Madame Rochas which is an old classic (my mum's favourite) also on it's way out.
Now wear Eden by Cacharel which I discovered quite by chance and loved.
Jo Malone's Amber & Lavender for when special spoiling is required!

jeapurs54 Sat 12-Nov-16 10:53:56

I have been fortunate enough to win Viktor & Rolf Flowerbomb. It is a lovely perfume and after entering a competition I was so pleased this arrived in the post and all done up in a Cracker. Dior Pure Poison is another favourite but more suitable for evenings. I love going in to larger department stores and see what new perfumes are like and have a quick spray sometimes. Most of them are not in my price range so if Im lucky enough to get a sample I am happy these last a while and gives me the chance to decide if it's worth spending the money.

Wobblybits Sat 12-Nov-16 10:56:53

I know I'm at risk of being called some sort of something, but I buy MrsP Channel5 because I like it (and luckily she says she does as well) When I say I like it, I mean I like her wearing it.
Last years empty bottle was left on the side for recycling, so I guess that might have been a hint for the coming Christmas.

harrigran Sat 12-Nov-16 10:56:53

I am often given perfume as gifts, my friends and family have very good taste. If I see a perfume I fancy I buy it myself. Favourites, at present, are Pomegranate noir by Jo Malone and Magnolia and mure by L'Occitane but also love Serge Lutens and Tom Ford perfumes.