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tigger Sun 23-Oct-16 11:46:36

Does anyone else feel a little surge of delight when "Karma" kicks in and a person who has been unkind etc gets payback without you having to do a thing except wait......

Pamish Mon 24-Oct-16 14:55:41

I prefer to work on this one - the opposite of schadenfreude - mudita. Mudita is word from Sanskrit and Pali that has no counterpart in English. It means sympathetic or unselfish joy, or joy in the good fortune of others.

ninathenana Mon 24-Oct-16 14:35:03

corncob certain circumstances mean you can't "walk away and get on with your life" There are ratbags that you need to keep contact with sadly.
I agree with. roses karma is abstract it's just satisfying to think it will happen to some.

rosesarered Mon 24-Oct-16 14:06:25

Karma (as such) doesn't exist, just good things/bad things that happen all the time to everybody (good or bad people and even those somewhere in the middle.grin)

NannaJay Mon 24-Oct-16 13:57:48

I have experienced so much grief and trauma that I feel I must have been a really unpleasant person in a past life. I have known some horrible people who have nothing but good fortune and continue to do so. Funnily enough, yesterday a friend told me that karma will get my ex eventually (he left me because I have chronic health) and I would like to believe it

Skweek1 Mon 24-Oct-16 13:37:10

Karma is more a Buddhist concept than a Hindu one (many Hindus don't accept the concept at all and those who do feel it is of secondary importance) and Buddhism is more of a philosophy than a religion, being more akin to humanism - our duty in life is to do as we would have done to us and try to become as close to the "ideal" person as we can. As a Wiccan I blieve whole-heartedly in the law of 3-fold return - it may not happen in this life, but sooner or later our thoughts, words and deeds, whether for good or evil, will rebound on us.

dihut Mon 24-Oct-16 13:23:07

Oops should have said I would.

dihut Mon 24-Oct-16 13:22:27

Oh how I hope and pray, a would certainly enjoy Karma happening to a particular woman!!!

Helena1 Mon 24-Oct-16 12:56:33

Absolutely...

KatyK Mon 24-Oct-16 12:51:33

Me too phoenix I am always saying to DH 'am I a bad person or do you think I did something bad in a past life?' He just says 'luck of the draw dear'.

tigger Mon 24-Oct-16 12:35:06

Revenge is a dish that is BEST eaten cold. If you do good, do someone a favour etc my Mum used to say "bread cast upon the water".

marpau Mon 24-Oct-16 12:29:26

I always tell my family not to get angry as every dog has it's day I even have a pillow with this embroidered on. Some days are a long time coming but provide unexpected joy as you never know when it will happen just move on in the belief it will happen

Corncob Mon 24-Oct-16 12:26:59

Cant say I have.Yes some people have been nasty to me in my life,I have just walked away and lost all contact,so have no idea what happened to them.I say do not let revenge eat you up,move on.

Anniebach Mon 24-Oct-16 11:54:41

But what of good people who have bad events happen?

annifrance Mon 24-Oct-16 11:42:05

Revenge is a dish that is eaten cold!

Legs55 Mon 24-Oct-16 11:30:31

"what goes around, comes around" is something I can always remember being said in our family (Yorkshire born & bred).

Yes it gives me great pleasure when it happens - my DD, after her Dad died was meant to receive some of his collection of Beswick Cattle & Sheep (which I started for him as presents) as were her three half-sisters & half-brother. Instead eldest half-sister took all of them. Some years later she lost her home in a fire & all their possessions (she was likely to blame by drying clothes too close to a fire). I'm afraid we couldn't feel sorry for her although we did feel sorry for her husband & children grin

SandyD Mon 24-Oct-16 11:28:31

Yes I do.

Grannynise Mon 24-Oct-16 11:28:19

I think Karma also means good things happening to people who do good things. I'd like to think so anyway.

KatyK Mon 24-Oct-16 11:26:32

I am waiting for karma to visit someone at the moment. Someone who wasn't very nice to my DH when he was going through gruelling treatment for cancer. Yes, possibly karma is revenge but I can't help how I feel.

NonnaAnnie Mon 24-Oct-16 11:14:10

And Annieshere, when good things happen to bad people?

Anniebach Mon 24-Oct-16 10:59:17

So karma just means we want revenge

moobox Mon 24-Oct-16 10:57:56

I wonder what revenge we could wish on dog owners who leave a neat plastic bag of poo in the middle of the pavement - maybe that they help someone else's to biodegrade by moving it round on the bottom of their own shoe

dizzygran Mon 24-Oct-16 10:43:11

Don't like myself for it but find myself wishing revenge on people who are unkind to me or my family and not feeling too sorry when something happens to them!!

KatyK Mon 24-Oct-16 10:37:50

Yes! If someone has been horrible to me or mine, I am guilty of wishing them pay back. I agree that sometimes it takes to long to happen and also I don't like myself for my unkind thoughts towards these people.

granjura Mon 24-Oct-16 10:36:36

Anneishere and Anniebach - yes, you are so right, thank you.

BBbevan Mon 24-Oct-16 10:34:43

What goes around comes around. Karma by any other name. I always hope it will happen smile