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Ilrina Sat 17-Sept-16 23:51:25

How many of you feel compelled to open your door just because someone knocks at it, or to answer your telephone?

People seem to take it for granted that this will happen. If I am not expecting a caller then I do not open the door.

I may answer the telephone depending on what mood I am in , but I find it annoying that whoever it is calling( And I don't mean cold callers here, I mean people who know me), never ask.." Are you ok to talk or are you busy?". I always ask someone if they have time to talk if I call them. what does everyone else think?

ginny Wed 21-Sept-16 08:30:41

I have a look to see who is a the front door. Friends and family are welcome any time but I often ignore others ( unless they are obviously delivering something). My door, my choice.

We have caller identity on the 'phone so it is not answered if I don't know the caller. If it's important they can leave a message which I can instantly reply to.

annsixty Wed 21-Sept-16 08:41:35

I got a no cold caller sticker from Amazon when my H started with his Alzheimer's as he got flustered with callers. Only one has ignored it in a long time. Caller display deals with most calls but the TPS still lets some national calls through. I am polite but firm with them, just once being told I was a very rude woman when I stopped one in mid speil saying I wasn't interested. He did get the phone put down on him.
The sticker was under £2.

Tizliz Wed 21-Sept-16 14:55:58

I open the door to anyone who makes it that far - I have two big dogs and only the brave or dog lovers get through the gate. I never tell callers that they are really big softies.

Juggernaut Wed 21-Sept-16 15:33:06

When we had our porch built we deliberately chose to have clear glass in the door. That way the front door gets opened, but the porch door is kept locked until we know who the caller is.
There are times when we ignore the doorbell completely, when we've heard delivery men knocking at our next door neighbours house. We must have taken upwards of sixty parcels in for them over a period of less than a year, but not once did they ever thank us for doing so. The straw that finally broke this camel's back was on a glorious day in spring of this year, I was weeding at the bottom of our (very long) garden, our doorbell rang, I dashed to the door only to find it was yet another parcel for the neighbours. I took it in, and before I returned to the garden went upstairs to open the dormer window wider........and saw 'her next door' lying on a lounger in her back garden! I thought perhaps she hadn't heard her doorbell/knocker, but when I took the parcel to her later on my way out shopping, she said "Oh, that's what the knocking at my door must have been, I was sunbathing and couldn't be bothered getting up"!
They're a young couple, he's 33, she's 32, he works, obviously is on a good salary because she spends a huge amount on clothes, which she has delivered!
Since the 'sunbathing' episode, if she doesn't answer her door, she doesn't get her parcel!
Yeah, I'm a grumpy old woman, and proud of it!

grannypiper Sat 24-Sept-16 08:28:01

I think i may have said this on here before (memory is awful) but my Granny always used to wear a hat during the so that if an unwelcome visitor came to the door, she could say she was just going out but to a welcome visitor she had just this minute got in.

DanniRae Sat 24-Sept-16 09:01:04

I would feel the same as you Juggernaut - what a bl**dy cheek the woman has!hmm