Good morning to all my Granspals. Thank you for many kind messages.
The wee fall out between Jingle and me, should have been resolved when we both apologised to each other. I'm sorry that a mini crisis in "la la land" ensued. I'm sorry to lose Alea. We shall miss her. 
The purpose for my wish to create a virtual place in which people who need support come together, stems from personal experiences of having to keep my worries (as a child) to myself. I'm definitely not a saint. In fact, I'm atheist. If anything, I'm Buddhist.
At midnight, our friend was contacted by Oban hospital. Her husband, also a dear friend, was taken from the Campbeltown Care Home to the hospital on Thursday. His condition is rapidly deteriorating. A close neighbour has driven her to Oban (some 60+ miles away) and we now wait to hear further news.