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Open letter to all Gners

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GandTea Mon 06-Jun-16 17:46:45

I have been a member and regular contributor to GN since its inception, many of you will know me as Pompa.

I have always tried to be helpful to those that need it where my skills are appropriate. I have always been compassionate to those in trouble and always tried to inject a little humour into my posts.

I am not racist, feminist or any other form of ist (perhaps a bit of a pessimist now)

In all the years I have been here I have not knowingly been reported.

But I have now been reported ( I guess for racism because of my humorous thread in the Gardening forum regarding immigrant Spanish slugs.

GN is no longer the great site it used to be, it has become very unpleasant on many threads, dominated by a few posters.

Many GNers are now afraid to post for fear of verbal retribution.

Humour that is in the least edgy is condemned by a few.

Please, please will those Gners that want GN to become the fun site that it was again please speak up.

I am now leaving GN, I'm sure that there are those that are now cheering as they have won, but to the rest of my friends,
Love
Pompa

jinglbellsfrocks Wed 08-Jun-16 16:50:15

merlot you've out-braved me! Even I didn't dare say that. grin

MiniMouse Wed 08-Jun-16 16:46:02

Naughty Merlot wink grin As if . . . . .

GandTea Wed 08-Jun-16 16:45:39

Please, Please morph this thread off to something more interesting.

I don't care who reported my thread, I don't believe there was any malice, they had every right if they thought it warranted it, each to his/her own.

Time to close this thread and open some new more interesting ones, someone, please, pretty please.

merlotgran Wed 08-Jun-16 16:42:40

Wanna bet? grin

MiniMouse Wed 08-Jun-16 16:41:07

This thread could give War and Peace a run for its' money shock Unbelievable! I bet GandTea didn't have this in mind when he started the thread grin

Elegran Wed 08-Jun-16 16:32:19

I am so glad I went out, Just back, hot, tired, thirsty, and thought I would sit down to a nice peaceful look at GN. It is still going!

But the McVities Coconut Rings are very nice (50p from the pound shop

janeainsworth Wed 08-Jun-16 16:32:06

Gracesgran It also seemed to me that JA was using this to attack an entirely different group of people, "those who are offended and are easily 'hurt'" because of personal remarks.

I wasn't attacking anyone.
The fact that you think I was, says a lot more about you than about me.

Ana Wed 08-Jun-16 16:30:21

It's because it was a foreign one...grin

tiggypiro Wed 08-Jun-16 16:20:00

Blimey !! I didn't realise that a slug could cause so much upset !!

jinglbellsfrocks Wed 08-Jun-16 16:16:52

Sorry * Obieone*! blush] sad

jinglbellsfrocks Wed 08-Jun-16 16:15:35

I would! (have defended my viewpoint, if it had been me. And it bloody wasn't!)

Bellanonna Wed 08-Jun-16 16:11:09

Oh God I didn't refresh. Sorry. A bit late.

Bellanonna Wed 08-Jun-16 16:10:21

I was a bit puzzled there for a moment ana ! We're all allowed a senior moment or two.
But seriously I'm amazed this thread is still going. Let's all get a life.
Yes kitty really odd. Anyone with guts would have defended their viewpoint. Just wondering though whether I would, following such a backlash. Maybe I wouldn't. But it wasn't me !!

Gracesgran Wed 08-Jun-16 16:06:11

Obieone indeed you would grin

obieone Wed 08-Jun-16 16:02:53

No, of course I didn't report it!
If I reported everything with swear words in it anywhere at all, that is all I would be doing with my time!

Gracesgran Wed 08-Jun-16 15:53:12

I don't see it as "nasty" for someone to report to GNHQ something they think is outside the rules or general sense of what GN is about Kittylester. I think it perfectly reasonable that GNHQ make a decision about that and make a suggestion to the OP. I find coming onto the forum and saying you are leaving rather manipulative. I have no idea why whoever reported it did so but it is part of the forum that you have the right to do so and the moderators appear (because the say so) to prefer this way rather than a row on a thread.

I have no idea what other "nastiness" you refer to as it is your view of it not mine. All that is just my opinion. I have no evidence of any of it except that GNHQ prefer things to be reported and have no intention of defending this view - it is mine and no one is expected to agree smile I really wasn't that interested in the OP but the link did raise my interest.

Teetime Wed 08-Jun-16 15:50:42

Yawn!

Ana Wed 08-Jun-16 15:38:50

So are you trying to say that you didn't report the slug thread, obieone, even though its title contained a 'sweear word'?

jinglbellsfrocks Wed 08-Jun-16 15:26:48

I must admit boredom does kick in about two thirds of the way down. (of the article)

obieone Wed 08-Jun-16 15:24:17

I suppose my point is that I dont judge people for it. A lot of people do not even realise there is a problem.

Plus, where would that leave GNHQ and everyone else, if people put in complaints all the time. No one would get anything done.

kittylester Wed 08-Jun-16 15:23:30

GG, I do know that JA posted a link but that doesn't alter the facts that prompted the OP to start this thread or various others to open other threads to try to get away from nastiness - or to find likeminded people.

Jenty, try to play nicely! Surely, that is the point of this thread! confused

jinglbellsfrocks Wed 08-Jun-16 15:22:13

I got as far as 'it's not enough to have opinions, you need to have arguments to back them up'. Then - totally lost.

jinglbellsfrocks Wed 08-Jun-16 15:20:48

jenty!!! What on earth is that in aid of? confused Has someone taped you to your computer and taken away the off switch? shock

obieone Wed 08-Jun-16 15:18:49

even not ever

obieone Wed 08-Jun-16 15:18:30

I am not sure if I am going to contribute anything to all of this or not.

But I get offended by swearing. And you can imagine how often I see and read it every day, everywhere!
But there is no recourse, and I have to put up with it.

Not ever sure what my point is really.