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Open letter to all Gners

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GandTea Mon 06-Jun-16 17:46:45

I have been a member and regular contributor to GN since its inception, many of you will know me as Pompa.

I have always tried to be helpful to those that need it where my skills are appropriate. I have always been compassionate to those in trouble and always tried to inject a little humour into my posts.

I am not racist, feminist or any other form of ist (perhaps a bit of a pessimist now)

In all the years I have been here I have not knowingly been reported.

But I have now been reported ( I guess for racism because of my humorous thread in the Gardening forum regarding immigrant Spanish slugs.

GN is no longer the great site it used to be, it has become very unpleasant on many threads, dominated by a few posters.

Many GNers are now afraid to post for fear of verbal retribution.

Humour that is in the least edgy is condemned by a few.

Please, please will those Gners that want GN to become the fun site that it was again please speak up.

I am now leaving GN, I'm sure that there are those that are now cheering as they have won, but to the rest of my friends,
Love
Pompa

jinglbellsfrocks Mon 06-Jun-16 19:34:06

Oh, I do hope LaraGNHQ reads this thread.

Anya Mon 06-Jun-16 19:34:04

Exactly wink

jinglbellsfrocks Mon 06-Jun-16 19:33:13

Gransnet has two Editors these days. Good cop. Bad cop.

#luckofthedraw

glassortwo Mon 06-Jun-16 19:32:40

I haven't been around much lately so no idea whats going on ( as usual wink) but don't let them get to you Pompa doesn't seem many of us olduns left smile

Anya Mon 06-Jun-16 19:31:27

Well that post from Gracesnan just about sums up all that is wrong with GN these days. And a lot is wrong.

pompa I didn't realise that was you but you can see the support you have on here and the strength of feeling this ridiculous response by someone at GNHQ has generated.

I'm afraid there are moderators and moderators.

angry

Ceesnan Mon 06-Jun-16 19:31:04

Hopefully the person who did the reporting will have the grace to apologise to GandTea by a PM, assuming, that is, that they don't have the courage to publicly admit that they were wrong.#won'tholdmybreath

Bellanonna Mon 06-Jun-16 19:16:01

Oh they probably did read it ann but just went ahead anyway. How cowardly they are not to stand and be counted. Churlish and childish.

sunseeker Mon 06-Jun-16 19:15:41

I agree with annsixty someone just read the title, didn't bother reading the actual post and decided to they were offended. Whoever it was reminds me of something my grandmother said "she would walk 3 miles over broken glass in her bare feet just to get her feelings hurt".

annsixty Mon 06-Jun-16 19:12:57

Doesn't wash with me Gracesgran I can find no extenuating reasons for reporting. Posts are there to be read not to be reacted on without reading the content.

sherish Mon 06-Jun-16 19:12:13

How very small minded of someone to report you for what I read as a light hearted post. There's always someone who will take everything so seriously. I would stay and let whoever it is know that you intend to carry on being yourself.

Gracesgran Mon 06-Jun-16 19:07:58

Just a P.S. Of course I was told about contentious titles because someone ... I wonder who ... complained to GNHQ - it happens.

Grannyknot Mon 06-Jun-16 19:07:06

I caaaan't believe someone reported the slug thread. That in itself is hilarious!

Don't go G&T ... smile

morethan2 Mon 06-Jun-16 19:06:53

I don't really know what this is all about but I have read many of your posts on here. I enjoy your humour and insight. Don't go I value your contribution. We need you

Gracesgran Mon 06-Jun-16 19:06:47

What a fuss. As some of you have realised I am quite happy to report something that I feel is outwith the GN rules - that is what the moderators ask us to do. I am also very happy to explain, if it seems worthwhile, why I have. Don't shout at me; I didn't report this but I can see why someone has and, as It is GNHQs job to keep the forum going on the right lines I think they should be supported and a little thought go into why they might have sent and email (they don't seem to have done anything else).

I saw the title and didn't even read the thread but just sighed and thought "not on here too"; perhaps someone did the same but thought it should be reported as outside what GN stands for. What did GNHQ say was their reason for contacting you? I would say GandTea/Pompa (why two names?) that, as so many people think the post was funny your comedic skills did not extend to timing. Some of the UK and GN in particular are like a tinder box at the moment and sooooo many people get upset very easily. I wonder why you didn't realise that your title (I have been told about contentious titles in the past) would get the reaction it did.

sunseeker Mon 06-Jun-16 19:02:53

Don't leave!! I didn't read the "offending" thread (I'm not a gardener - I can even kill ivy!), I have now read through it and have found nothing that could be deemed offensive. Your posts are always informative and good humoured. I agree with Indinana, the person/people who took offence should contact you and apologise, as should GNHQ. Please Stay!!

NanaandGrampy Mon 06-Jun-16 19:00:46

We'll blow me down with a damp feather!! I had no idea your Alta ego was Gandtea Pompa !!

But you make a great team!!

I will be sad to see you go because some self righteous Billy no mates reported you for an infraction of their own personal rules!!

There are some people on here with their heads so far up their own bums they must spend the day bumping into things smile

Hmmmmm can I say 'bums' ?

Anyway, stay ... Be a thorn in their sides !! That could be your new job title !! ???

Cherrytree59 Mon 06-Jun-16 19:00:13

Pompa or if you now prefer GandTea
Just had look on your very funny thread ,there is a post from GNHQ who also say they think its very amusing!

Cherrytree59 Mon 06-Jun-16 18:45:17

Pompa only the other day I was wondering if you were on holiday or even worse not feeling well.
I hadn't realised that you had been Re-Bornsmile
Don't let the B******'s wear you down!
( I know should be Latin but I can't spell it !)grin

Bellanonna Mon 06-Jun-16 18:44:46

Alea grin

Indinana Mon 06-Jun-16 18:42:38

I really hope the slug/escargot/whatever is reading this thread.

Whoever you are, I hope you're SERIOUSLY EMBARRASSED. In fact, I hope you're embarrassed enough to leave GN forthwith because I think you can see from all the support that Pompa/GandTea has that it should definitely not be him that leaves. It should be you. You are not wanted here. Get that into your head and go. Now.

Ana Mon 06-Jun-16 18:39:58

It seems they're all in thrall to the strident PC brigade...

Newquay Mon 06-Jun-16 18:38:18

And the reply from GN is? . . . . . .

Alea Mon 06-Jun-16 18:37:36

(Definition of a slug? A homeles snail)
Would a British ?????? slug make such a fuss?
Never!! Not ⚾️ dontcha know.

Bellanonna Mon 06-Jun-16 18:34:38

Alea. A slug, surely ?

TriciaF Mon 06-Jun-16 18:30:29

GandTea perhaps they've got a new mod? pressure from ..... I'd better not say, but someone in the govt? wink
But very annoying to be rebuked, especially at our age!
ps don't go from me too.