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Open letter to all Gners

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GandTea Mon 06-Jun-16 17:46:45

I have been a member and regular contributor to GN since its inception, many of you will know me as Pompa.

I have always tried to be helpful to those that need it where my skills are appropriate. I have always been compassionate to those in trouble and always tried to inject a little humour into my posts.

I am not racist, feminist or any other form of ist (perhaps a bit of a pessimist now)

In all the years I have been here I have not knowingly been reported.

But I have now been reported ( I guess for racism because of my humorous thread in the Gardening forum regarding immigrant Spanish slugs.

GN is no longer the great site it used to be, it has become very unpleasant on many threads, dominated by a few posters.

Many GNers are now afraid to post for fear of verbal retribution.

Humour that is in the least edgy is condemned by a few.

Please, please will those Gners that want GN to become the fun site that it was again please speak up.

I am now leaving GN, I'm sure that there are those that are now cheering as they have won, but to the rest of my friends,
Love
Pompa

Luckygirl Mon 06-Jun-16 21:06:52

Pompa - I had a post reported and deleted a while ago. That was fine by me - someone interpreted something I had posted in a way that I would not have thought of (very innocent me!).

There's nowt so queer as folk - just be a duck and let the water flow by!

Do not go! Stay and keep us all amused - I need a bit of light relief now and again.

trisher Mon 06-Jun-16 21:03:31

*Pompa/Gandtea never knew you were the same person!! We have sometimes disagreed, but I respect your views and your slug thread was great. Please stay on. Maybe you can think of some more titles that will cause shock and horror and give us a giggle.

baubles Mon 06-Jun-16 21:02:36

Ok I've read the thread and can only wonder what on earth is wrong with some people. Whoever reported it should take a hard look at themselves. Unbelievable!

granjura Mon 06-Jun-16 20:58:23

Of course don't go. I realised you were an 'old' poster re-incarnate, but wasn't sure which. Why did you change name?

I know some will sayI've said it before, but the rules of GN say clearly it is not allowed to change names with a good explanation. Some here have changed so many times- and there are a few 'new' posters recently who are clearly 'old' posters- their message and style makes it very clear who they are. Spots and stripes do not change.

Hope you stay.

baubles Mon 06-Jun-16 20:47:58

I haven't seen the thread in question but will have a look in a moment. I just want to say don't go GT.
I wondered where Pompa had got to, glad to see you're still here.

Pittcity Mon 06-Jun-16 20:35:50

Please stay GandTea, the world is a miserable enough place as it is, we need as much joy and silliness as we can get.

Greyduster Mon 06-Jun-16 20:06:44

roses that was my first thought too! Please don't go Pompa. Ignore the small minded. We need your wit and your common sense. Can't rely on me for either!

rosesarered Mon 06-Jun-16 20:05:33

Oh good, sounds as if HQ ARE thinking again, quite right too. posters need to start actually reading posts before they blow their whistle.

Nannylovesshopping Mon 06-Jun-16 20:03:49

Please stay pompa, I love your inputsmile

aggie Mon 06-Jun-16 20:01:56

Sigh !!..... I thought the "Immigrants" thread was about Spanish bluebells too !! , I never even thought for one minute of it being a contentious thread .... sigh . Pompa I would miss your input so do try and stay !! pretty please xxx

Blinko Mon 06-Jun-16 20:01:12

Cheers, jbf, I didn't know that.

Tegan Mon 06-Jun-16 20:00:05

Hang on; HQ haven't said the thread must be deleted [or have I misread something?]. They just said that it had been reported.Didn't they??

Indinana Mon 06-Jun-16 19:56:20

Exactly Elegran!

rosesarered Mon 06-Jun-16 19:50:33

I didn't know you were Pompa ( well hidden!)
On first seeing the thread, my first thought was Spanish bluebells, but it turned out to be slugs, NEVER did I think it meant people ( and it was on the Gardening thread!)
gransnet HQ, please rethink this, or we will all become too PC for words ( literally) there is somebody on here who is reporting everything at the moment, and this site will suffer for it.

Elegran Mon 06-Jun-16 19:49:28

You should have known, gracesgran and Tegan and so should the poster who reported it, that NO-ONE on Gransnet would have said "Bloody immigrants". It was not "on here too" because even somone posting something that was not complimentary about immigrants would not have put it like that.

Lona Mon 06-Jun-16 19:45:36

For heaven's sake please don't go Pompa, we need as many sane members as we can get!
The lunatics are taking over the asylum!
Don't suppose I should have said that.?

Elegran Mon 06-Jun-16 19:44:30

"as so many people think the post was funny your comedic skills did not extend to timing" but this is EXACTLY the time when a bit of humour is needed. Life may be real, life may be earnest, but no-one was hurt by this spot of topical humour, and by not even reading it before complaining, someone has demonstrated their own narrowness of mind. It is up there with banning words like "blackboard" and "Manchester"

jinglbellsfrocks Mon 06-Jun-16 19:43:59

Btw, no one on here has two names. If someone leaves, they may re-join with a new name.

thatbags Mon 06-Jun-16 19:43:20

You could have checked, gracesgran, as could the person/people who reported it. Doesn't take much effort. It's always worth checking something that looks contentious/blasphemous/nonPC/wotevs before getting in a tizwaz or being judgmental.

Because, after all, it wasn't "here too" at all.

jinglbellsfrocks Mon 06-Jun-16 19:42:12

Gracesgran you were simply too quick to jump to conclusions. Without having even read the thread. ("I saw the title and didn't even read the thread but just sighed and thought "not on here too"") hmm

grannylyn65 Mon 06-Jun-16 19:40:44

No pompa, we need you!
Racist slugging slugs?? Really???!!
Is toddler net !

Tegan Mon 06-Jun-16 19:37:30

Yes, there is a lot wrong with gransnet these days. A lot of it is because people can say quite hurtful things but don't seem to realise [or care] that they're doing so. I agree with what Gracegran has said. Having said that,I don't want pompa to leave; I've been enjoying his comments recently [had NO idea it was him!]. there's an 'us and them' mentality on gransnet these days and, alas, I am one of 'them'.

Blinko Mon 06-Jun-16 19:36:27

didn't

jinglbellsfrocks Mon 06-Jun-16 19:35:21

Or - there is that other mysterious person. The one who insists on always going by the name of 'GNHQ'.

#cowardycustard

Blinko Mon 06-Jun-16 19:35:07

Hey, G&T I've only just found this thread. Please don't go. As someone has already said, Nil illigitmus carborundum' - don't let 'em grind you down. I sidn't realise you were also Pompa. Will you continue as both? does it depend on your mood, or content, or what, I wonder? Anyway, you add a different perspective which we would miss. Nooooo.....