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Alea Tue 31-May-16 13:21:46

Has life got serious? Is it the age I live in or the age I am? I just don't seem to have a lot of laughs or fun!!
Look at children running in the park, babies playing with a toy, puppies or kittens chasing their tails, listen to teenagers on the train and what they all seem to have in common is their joie de vivre.
The best I seem to get is a cup of tea and a shortbread biscuit at the garden centre with my friend (don't get me wrong, a dear friend and exceedingly good shortbread) but it doesn't exactly set the world on fire.
Comedians regularly fail to make me laugh, jokes fall flat.
Oh and it is RAINING AGAIN
AIBU???
hmm

Abe49 Tue 31-May-16 22:59:03

All this has really cheered me up ?. Thought it was just me ps I do have an airing cupboard!!

Nelliemoser Tue 31-May-16 22:43:02

I really would love some fun and silliness. I get a bit at our knitting club there is nothing better than having a good laugh. It seems to be good for you.

My OH has no discernable sense of humour, everything is serious and any jokey comment I make is treated seriously and with a lecture. sad

Nonnie1 Tue 31-May-16 22:06:17

A friend of mine is dog mad like me. She was walking her dogs by the canal one day when her oldest dog aged 17 fell in. The dog was very frail, and started drowning. My friend jumped in the canal retrieved the dog and gave it the kiss of life on the bank.

She said there were people walking past. Nobody said a word. When she told us this story I nearly fell off my chair laughing. Mind you I was on holiday and had consumed several glasses of wine.

f77ms Tue 31-May-16 21:50:39

This thread has certainly made me laugh ! I loved the chewing gum tale . An old friend once said she was very sad about the fact that she would never fall in love again - the next thing I heard she had run off with her piano tutor and is living happily somewhere .

Jalima Tue 31-May-16 21:48:58

I can't remember the last time I rolled around laughing until my tummy hurt (I was probably a teenager giggling with my best friend!)
However, just had a good laugh with my cousin who phoned this evening, we don't speak very often but usually end up laughing at something stupid.

jinglbellsfrocks Tue 31-May-16 21:40:22

We (DD and me) usually find the odd thing to laugh about. For example, in our hotel room today there is a note saying that if you want the (full length) window opened, ring down to reception and they will arrange it. We duly rang them. Very polite gent came up and opened the bloody thing in the usual way. No key. Just turned the handle and pulled. Wished us a good evening and off he went. so why did they leave the note?! confused

We are imagining them in reception now, waiting for us to ring down and ask for the window to be closed. blush grin

morethan2 Tue 31-May-16 21:19:26

Oh I hope that's not trueanjanla even though there's somthing dreadfully horrible unfolding here we can still have the odd laugh. The last time I visited my 86 year old MiL in the residential home that she hates. She kept repeating the same thing over and over until I started to laugh. She joined in. So there we were on the edge of her bed both belly laughing. It was lovely. I hope I never stop being able to have a laugh.

Galen Tue 31-May-16 20:29:55

The last time I laughed out loud it was at one of my granddaughters antics.

ajanela Tue 31-May-16 20:12:00

Are there 2 threads running here!! Not laughing and airing cupboards?

Sorry but it is a fact that as we get older we laugh less.

So we have to work harder at it as laughter is the best medicine. What ever our problems being missable won't help.

Galen Tue 31-May-16 18:27:52

iPad gone odd Mediterranean

Galen Tue 31-May-16 18:27:17

Roses Required

Galen Tue 31-May-16 18:22:09

I think we get a complimentary meal at one of the 'specialist' restaurants on embarkation day. I fancy the crown grill the lobster tails I had there were gorgeous. You can view the menu on line.
I know you don't eat meat, but do you eat fish etc?

rosesarered Tue 31-May-16 18:19:03

Have FUN Bella and Galen where is the cruise headed to????

Galen Tue 31-May-16 18:16:59

Trust me! I'm a retired doctor!

Bellasnana Tue 31-May-16 18:04:55

I know what you mean, Alea. I find it hard to find life 'fun' any more without DH to share things with. Having said that, I do enjoy your posts which often have me chortling out loud all by myself grin

I'm hoping the fast-approaching cruise with Galen is going to be filled with joie de vivre, heaven knows, we are both in need of some grin

wot Tue 31-May-16 17:47:32

Grannyknot, perhaps I will fall madly in love with someone but are they going to want an old woman with skin like crepe, double chin and pot belly. If he had the same I wouldn't fancy him.

Nonnie1 Tue 31-May-16 17:34:48

Auntieflo and wot, the man measured the head height on the sloping part and allowed for over six and a half feet, so you do not bang your head at all, and as for moving house, I don't think it will pose any problems at all. I had the self same thing installed in my other house and when we moved I never gave it a second's thought.

As an aside.. I got my hair restyled on Saturday and now have a medium length bob.

When I got home nobody said a word.

Barstools

Grannyknot Tue 31-May-16 16:59:57

I felt momentarily glum the other day because I realised that I would probably never fall "madly" in love again. I mean, like, besotted with someone grin

I was out with my daughter this weekend, she made me laugh so much at one point, I couldn't look at her for fear of having a Tena moment. grin

PRINTMISS Tue 31-May-16 16:53:50

It is strange that this should come up because I have, as a background on my computer a lovely picture of me and the other half, and a friend at Amberley Museum, where we were being presented with a 'thank you' gift for all our work over several years of running the Print Shop. We were not leaving, just handing over the reigns. I have my head thrown back in sheer delight - yes, I used to laugh like that, and my other half is beaming from ear to ear. Evidently I do still laugh a lot - they say at the bowls club, they always know when I am on the green! Not the same sheer enjoyment though for some reason, and I am not unhappy.

NotTooOld Tue 31-May-16 16:43:50

I'm alright - still some joie de vivre - but DH has turned into Mr Glum which pulls me down.

KatyK Tue 31-May-16 16:25:48

Alea Until I read your post I hadn't realised how long it had been since I had a good laugh or felt excited about anything although I am lucky that I have nice holidays, lunches out etc. I always seem to have something to worry or mither about sad

wot Tue 31-May-16 16:11:09

Alea, that's why I let my hair grow and grow. Once when I had it cut short the young boy next door burst out laughing

Gagagran Tue 31-May-16 16:06:37

Alea I also know what you mean. I decided that maybe I was feeling glum because I needed to upgrade my hairstyle so I had a complete new style just last week. Very short, choppy, younger looking. Looked great when I left the salon and I had lots of positive remarks BUT can I do it myself? Can I heck. It just looks thin and short and messy.

So I am back to feeling glum and wishing that I had left it as it was because I could at least make it look reasonable.

Just wish I could feel full of vim and excitement again. Has that feeling gone for ever? (And hoping that I can do something with this hair other than wearing a turban) sad

rosesarered Tue 31-May-16 15:49:30

Drinks all round!?????????????????

rosesarered Tue 31-May-16 15:48:51

Alea I do know what you mean.I wonder why it is so?Closer to the grave? ?