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Shorthand for 60 something

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GrannyGalactica Tue 10-May-16 18:34:41

When my family took me to New Place in Stratford as my 60th birthday treat, the lady selling tickets asked if we had any vintage persons in our group. I was happy to own up to that - and to get my very first vintage person's discount!

KatyK Tue 10-May-16 17:37:54

My 92 year old neighbour was affronted when her GP referred to her as an elderly lady. smile

MrsEggy Tue 10-May-16 16:39:20

DH calls us "war babies" although in fact we are both pre-war babies, it's an excuse for saving rubber bands, bits of string and hanging on to old clothes.
We're not elderly yet though!

ninathenana Tue 10-May-16 16:26:51

I was going to say the same Ana the fact that I won't be a 'pensioner' for a few years yet rankles.
I'd be happy to be referred to as 60 + lady from XYZ (I'm 62)

lefthanded Tue 10-May-16 16:18:13

It's a tough one isn't it. I'm 65 (just) and I would be horrified to be described as elderly. I think the usage has become pejorative. If you see a newspaper headline that begins with the word "Elderly....." you can be sure that a story about driving the wrong way along a motorway or some similar foolishness, will follow.

I don't feel elderly, and I don't think I dress in the manner which is expected of an "elderly" person - I don't possess a single cardigan but I do have a few hoodies!

Ana Tue 10-May-16 16:02:21

Yes, Bellanonna, the press always used to refer to anyone over 60-ish as a 'pensioner', but these days that could be completely inaccurate since the changes in pensionable age.

'Gran of 3' etc. is another favourite, but the woman in question could be as young as late thirties!

Jalima Tue 10-May-16 15:49:36

A lot of older Australian people travel around the country after they retire in their campervans - they call them 'Grey Nomads' - baby boomers and mature age travellers grin
I am not grey yet so not eligible.

M0nica Tue 10-May-16 15:45:41

.....and 'Grandmother of 5' as if that defined us, much as I love my 2 DGC

Bellanonna Tue 10-May-16 15:37:16

Older person. I notice the papers usually say " pensioner, Jane smith" and the person is in her early 60s. I am of an age that would be described as elderly but I don't see myself as such. And neither do my daughters. I'm happy to self-mockingly refer to myself as an old fogey, e.g. If I'm asking a theatre if they do reductions for my age group I might use thst, or some other equally disparaging term. Just in fun. Actually the American usage of seniors is quite respectful I think and I do see it increasingly being used here. Meanwhile older person is ok too.

Teetime Tue 10-May-16 15:23:07

Crumblies.

GandTea Tue 10-May-16 14:41:30

Old gits works for me.

thatbags Tue 10-May-16 14:13:24

Maybe we should all just stop using adjectives and simply state a person's age. Then it's perfectly clear and readers/viewers can think what they like. There can be, of course, a huge difference, mentally and physically, between two people who are the same age, and that can be less of a difference than there is between another two people whose ages are thirty-five years apart.

It bothers me not one jot if someone thinks I'm old. I may be, after all, compared with them. So maybe another approach is to stop caring what other people think.

In addition we all have the freedom to think what we like about other people. I daresay a good deal of it is erroneous.

jinglbellsfrocks Tue 10-May-16 14:11:42

A reporter wouldn't use that though. You are stuck with 'elderly'. grin

jinglbellsfrocks Tue 10-May-16 14:10:42

Later middle-aged?

Gagagran Tue 10-May-16 14:05:38

I think in the USA they refer to "seniors". That is marginally better than "elderly but not much!

LullyDully Tue 10-May-16 13:45:29

We do.seem to be stuck. Baby boomers, elderly, recently retired, decrepit, older, those born post war.........or just prefer US.

GrannyGalactica Tue 10-May-16 13:38:40

I was reading a newspaper report about an "elderly couple" and was shocked to find that they were 66 and 64. I'm 66 and I'd be seriously miffed if anyone described me as an "elderly lady/woman/person". However, "middle aged lady/woman/person" ;might be pushing it a bit so what am I? Is there an appropriate adjective that reporters might use to describe my age if I feature in the news?