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Do you like your own firstname?

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Teetime Sat 12-Mar-16 10:11:36

Following on from the thread 'do you like your grandchild's name' I wondered how many of us like our own name and what would you rather be called? I quite like mine now as its seems to suit me /I've grown into it but as a child I wanted to be called Isabel. I told DH this when we met and he said something I have never heard before 'Isabell necessary on a bicycle?' I still like the name and apologies to all Isabel's out there. (Mine is Susan by the way there were four of us in my class at school!)
Don't reveal yours if you don't want to.

Judthepud2 Sat 12-Mar-16 23:12:36

I always hated both my names, especially the middle one which was very unusual to give a child in the 50s. Oddly enough it has become quite popular again. The name was after my maternal grandmother who died 3 months before I was born.

My father wanted to call me Myfanwy. shock He wasn't even Welsh. ?

harrigran Sat 12-Mar-16 23:33:57

All the time I was at school I only ever met one other girl with the same name as me. I don't mind my first name and I quite like my second name which is the feminine of DH's name. I never thought to ask mother why she picked my name, it was unusual for the 40s.

Elrel Sun 13-Mar-16 02:11:03

I was named after an area being fought over in WW2. I have always liked my name, unusual then, and didn't meet another until my late teens. I've only ever met one older than me and she was named after a WW1 battleship which had sunk! Now we even have a tv show named after one of us. The name became better known after a certain ad for Luton Airport.

It seems my mother's first choice was Mary Rose but father's comment was 'Mary sat on a pin ...' She also liked Jane and went to register me still unsure whether to choose Jane or the name I got. She never really explained why Jane couldn't have been my second name. I didn't get one although mother herself had a second name which she liked.

BBbevan Sun 13-Mar-16 07:08:46

My grandma had a friend called TD. It was many years ' til I realised it was Aunty Edie.We also had a family at school , the children called SX, KC and another I can't remember. These were not nicknames but their real names !!

Maggiemaybe Sun 13-Mar-16 07:56:27

Elrel, I was guessing at Campari till the penny dropped!

thatbags Sun 13-Mar-16 08:05:51

Yes, I've always liked my name. It's one of my favourites. I once asked my DDs if they like their first names. They do, all three of them. They were all, for longish periods of their school careers, the only ones in the school with their name. None of the names are unusual; they're all 'classic' names.

BRedhead59 Sun 13-Mar-16 08:25:30

My mum was called Joyce and there were several others in her year at school. When I was born she wanted a name no one else had so chose Rebecca. It was shortened to Becky - I was only called Rebecca when in trouble. Now there are numerous Rebecca's but they are all younger than me!

Napoleon Sun 13-Mar-16 08:28:17

I love my name, Pamela and only wish other people would use it "Pam" sounds so flat and boring.

PPP Sun 13-Mar-16 08:35:14

I always liked my name, Susan, shortened to Sue when at uni. But there were five Susans in my class at school and now I feel that it indicates my age too much! And how many couples, now in late 60s, do you know who are called Sue n Dave?!

Tessa101 Sun 13-Mar-16 08:36:12

I've never liked my name its Jean. My mum wanted to call me Beatrice I'm not keen on either and I feel my name doesn't suit me.

Mildred Sun 13-Mar-16 08:50:05

My first name is Scottish and rare rather than unusual south of the border. Unfortunately I also had an unusual surname so my full name stuck in everybody's memory at school so I had to behave myself. I was in my 50s before I worked with someone with the same first name which was confusing because I was so used to responding when my name was called. I have a lovely surname now and am quite happy with my first name as they go together rather well.

Pittcity Sun 13-Mar-16 08:50:14

My name was very popular in my year at school, although with various spellings and pronunciations.
I have sometimes wanted to use a shortened form, fancied being a Carrie at one time (the film or Cliff Richard?), but have always been a Caroline.

Teetime Sun 13-Mar-16 08:54:16

PPP we meet lots of couples called Sue and Pete like us!

mcem Sun 13-Mar-16 09:00:23

Mildred just referred to unusual Scottish names which reminded me of a comment near the start of the thread about the different attitudes to the name Fiona in England and Scotland. I did ask about it but no-one seemed able to enlighten me and now I'm really curious. Not the sort of question I can google, is it?

harrysgran Sun 13-Mar-16 09:02:21

Hated mine especially as a child I constantly got the nickname Elsie Tanner from coronation street at the time ,when I was eleven and starting secondary school I changed it to my middle name which I much preferred and have stuck with although it can be confusing as my family still insist on my first name.

oldgaijin Sun 13-Mar-16 09:03:05

No! As a child I was always referred to as Janet the Gannett.

basketlady Sun 13-Mar-16 09:04:42

Dad's mother was Kate Elizabeth Jefferies - so I am Elizabeth and my brother is Geoffrey. I always wish they had gone for the Kate instead!

costalminder Sun 13-Mar-16 09:09:31

I was Elizabeth which my mother didn't allow to be shortened. I changed it to Jane when I was 16 and haven't looked back. Y daughter also changed her name about the same age. I wonder what my grandson will do?

Jaxie Sun 13-Mar-16 09:11:07

My problem is I was named Jacqueline, after male family members called Jack ( my ma evidently not aware of the true origin, James). In fact my mother was forced to give me the first name Maria, having married into an RC family, but I was always known as Jackie. At the age of 72 this seems a most inappropriate name and has rather common connotations with a cheap girls' comic book of the sixties & seventies. I mentally cringe when my grandchildren refer to me as Grandma Jackie to distinguish me fom the other two (one from a remarriage). I should prefer something more dignified, such as Helen, or Charlotte. After this confession I expect to be targeted by Gransnetters accusing me of snobbery. I can take it; I'm a blunt northerner who believes in honesty.

ellarussell Sun 13-Mar-16 09:19:56

I have been called by the shortened form of my name (which isn't ella!) since I was a child - except by teachers and certain members of my family. As a result the full version sounded more and more formal and unfriendly until I came to absolutely hate it - especially in situations like being in hospital where use of my unfamiliar name was quite alienating. The last straw was when I got married and my husband was in a similar situation - only ever known by the shortened form of his name. We felt as though the registrar was talking about two other people. Solution - changed my name by deed poll to my 'comfortable' name 20 years ago and am very happy with that.

cangran Sun 13-Mar-16 09:43:08

Like numberplease I am a Lois; hated it when growing up in Canada where there were more Lois's, a couple I knew my age but most older, so I thought of it as an old-fashioned name (I wanted to be Kim or Debbie). Since moving to England many years ago, I've grown to like my name as it's not common here (although I still get letters addressed to Mr Louis, and there's still a few people who call me that). A few years ago I was startled to hear a woman behind me shout 'Lois - sit down!'. I turned around to see a little girl standing up in her push-chair. At the time I thought 'What a strange name to call your daughter' but maybe like Mabel and Ruby (my aunts' names) that are having a turn at being popular again, Lois can too!

grandMattie Sun 13-Mar-16 09:46:57

I have an old fashioned name, as you can see... I loathed it much preferring the more modern names of the time; being brought up in a French environment they would have been names like Chantal and Janine! I can't imagine being any other than my first name now - second and third names are eithyer mispronounced or commented on anyway.

Before we moved to our present house, I always had to spell my first/Christian and surnames, my house name [no numers on our road], the road too... It got very wearing grin

I hate being given any shortened versions of my name - reminds me too much of my parents and sisters, with whom I have/had a very troubled relationship. sad

Theoddbird Sun 13-Mar-16 10:08:50

I had three Godmothers called Emily, Alice and Rita and grandmothers called Victoria and Cecilia. My parents called me Rita...I detest the name...sighs. My favourite of the possibles is Cecilia... From what I have heard of this fiesty Irish woman I think I inherited a lot from her smile

Because of my awful name I chose beautiful names for my two daughters.

MargaretinNorthant Sun 13-Mar-16 10:13:02

I am sorry, but I can't resist........

" What's in a name? A rose by any other name would smell as sweet."

I will go and sit on the naughty step.

Margaret, never Maggie unless you wished to die at my mothers hands.

oldie730 Sun 13-Mar-16 10:22:54

Mum gave me the name Ann, long long before the princess, mainly because she said it couldn't be shortened, BUT a lot of the time I was called Annie by various school friends and then work colleagues. Do I like the name, yes, both versions.