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What makes you happy?

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pollyparrot Sun 06-Mar-16 19:15:00

I was reading the other day about what makes us grandparents happy. The researcher claimed that although grandchildren bring us joy, it's actually having a life of our own that makes us happy. By that they meant our own friends, hobbies, activities, holidays and interests, outside of the grandchildren.

I can definitely relate to that. What do other Gransnetters think?

Elrel Wed 09-Mar-16 20:07:38

Since oldest GS said my son (his uncle) and I were the happiest people he knew I wouldn't want to disillusion him! Strangely keeping up the appearance of happiness morphs into the real thing - thanks, GS!!?

annifrance Wed 09-Mar-16 17:41:09

Grandchildren and anything to do with them anytime.

Living in the back of beyond with the snow capped mountains in the distance, sunshine and blue skies - even in winter and being able to watch the seasons and all nature brings, especially whilst swimming in my pool surrounded by it all.

My dogs and cats

The joy of longstanding friendships.

Books.

Our lovely huge comfy bed.

Our woodburning stove

Wine!!! OH just brought me a glass of chilled rose.

Bonne nuit tous le monde

MES Mon 07-Mar-16 23:43:11

I am happy knowing that Spring is on its way ?

Newquay Mon 07-Mar-16 23:26:54

Just in from a choir practice-that defo makes me happy. Working together with others to produce a lovely sound esp when it's challenging. Mostly jolly people all in it togethersmile
But as you say, nothing beats grandchildren. My dear sister's deceased lovely mother in law used to say "children's laughter-better than medicine". How true!
And all the other things netters have said, Spring just around the corner, seeing the flowers blooming AND we've got blue tits in our nesting box.
And lovely new young neighbours expecting their second baby any day too.

grannylyn65 Mon 07-Mar-16 21:32:10

Grandchildren fighting for a place on my lap smile

jan727 Mon 07-Mar-16 19:17:32

The cards I received from my 3 grand-daughters twins aged 6 and big sis aged 11. The spelling-Grand muvver-priceless! And my daughter finding the time to send me a special card.
Going for a motor-bike ride with my partner and doing 120mph on a dis-used runway.
So many things to make me happy.

runway.

Matella Mon 07-Mar-16 17:07:14

Narrowboatnan do you live on your boat? That view would make me happy too. I have often thought I should love to hitch up our caravan and let out our house for a year. Too many responsibilities right now though.Not complaining, just a fact.

hulahoop Mon 07-Mar-16 15:10:35

KatyK same here just got in seeing my family makes me happy and just being alive and a cuddle with hubby of course ?

oldie730 Mon 07-Mar-16 14:30:17

My dog.

A 4x4 driver giving way.

KatyK Mon 07-Mar-16 14:12:05

I've just been for a long walk in the sunshine. I stopped to watch the ducks and geese on the canal at the back of our house. That made me happy smile

Cherrytree59 Mon 07-Mar-16 14:07:20

I am happy as I have just managed to get a very grizzly GS down for a nap after much singing and rocking. Whew!

I will also be very happy when he wakes and gives me a big smile and holds out his little arms for a cuddle

nipsmum Mon 07-Mar-16 13:48:26

Simple things for me. Knitting ,cooking, baking and having my family for lunch or whatever they need. Also walking my Westie. I've spoken to more neighbours in the last 7 months than I have done in 10 years in this house.

Lupatria Mon 07-Mar-16 12:54:49

lots of things make me happy but the thing that makes me happiest is the realisation that i'm alive to be happy about things!!

i was diagnosed with ovarian cancer in 1995 and had a total hysterectomy and three month's recuperation [no chemo fortunately] followed by ten years of annual ct scans. one of the happiest days of my life was in 2005 when i was officially discharged!!

so these days i tend to live from day to day enjoying everything that makes me happy from seeing a patch of snowdrops to the sunshine playing on the hills.

re-reading my post makes me realise how much i use exclamation marks - but that's another thread entirely!!

Phoebes Mon 07-Mar-16 12:50:10

I got a Mother's Day message today from my American son-in-law in New York and that made me very happy. He lost his own dear Mum not long before the wedding in New York 18 months ago and the first thing he said to me was "Can I call you Mum now?"
Earlier in the week I had a beautiful Mother's Day card from our daughter, whom we miss very much and her present is on the way. (The American post is appalling!)
We chat to them for about an hour every Sunday afternoon and that makes me very happy too.
When my gorgeous husband tells me how much he loves me, that is the best feeling!

jinglbellsfrocks Mon 07-Mar-16 12:47:52

Yes. I like going past the local primary school when they are playing out. Makes me think of GS2 doing the same thing in his neck of the woods.

grannylyn65 Mon 07-Mar-16 12:47:07

smile

jinglbellsfrocks Mon 07-Mar-16 12:46:09

No Greyduster! grin I mean, follow up someone else's post with a smile to show you liked it.

jinglbellsfrocks Mon 07-Mar-16 12:44:06

Actually, sitting doing not much at all, makes me quite happy. Especially with the sun coming in through the window like it is now.

I'm easily pleased.

downtoearth Mon 07-Mar-16 12:40:07

am a happy little soul smile

downtoearth Mon 07-Mar-16 12:39:17

or going to the library and finding a book I have wanted for ages on the shelf..
comfortable shoes
my jeans not feeling tight round the waist
coming home

downtoearth Mon 07-Mar-16 12:35:05

driving through the back roads and country lanes in my part of the country,and seeing wild animals going about their business,the birds in the gardens,beautiful flowers,animals..sunshine

grandMattie Mon 07-Mar-16 12:34:50

I was in the library the other day and had my spirits lifted by the 6 or 7 little ones fronm a nearby nursery. there is something joyous about small children which lifts one's heart.

Greyduster Mon 07-Mar-16 12:34:42

I might be a bit behind the door on this but once a comment has been posted, how could someone then put a smile on it? Have I missed something?

misunderstood Mon 07-Mar-16 12:31:24

Grammies, You have summed it all up.

jinglbellsfrocks Mon 07-Mar-16 12:28:10

Actually, we don't need a (soulless?) 'like' button. Just put a smile after the post you particularly like. Job done! smile