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NanKate Mon 28-Dec-15 23:17:40

My DS and DinL regularly have an alcohol free January and I am wondering whether to join them. Anyone else tried it ?

Cheers wine

Anya Sun 03-Jan-16 15:26:04

I've heard rumours queenie though never put it to the test that gin keeps quite well grin perhaps put it in the freezer out of sight?

grannyqueenie Sun 03-Jan-16 12:36:55

I'm on a dry January this year. But with hindsight asking for a nice bottle of fancy gin for Christmas maybe wasn't the smartest move! sad

Maggiemaybe Sun 03-Jan-16 11:22:46

vegasmags, you're a girl after my own heart! As it happens, it's DH's birthday and mine coming up soon and we're planning fish and chips and fizz for our family celebration.

vegasmags Sun 03-Jan-16 10:47:25

Liz - my friend and I are regular customers there and they know that we usually enjoy a drink with our meal. smile

Liz46 Sun 03-Jan-16 10:33:39

oh dear vegasmags, I wouldn't have been able to refuse that...it would have been rude! However, the staff perhaps should have asked if you wanted one just in case a recovering alcoholic came in.

SusieB50 Sun 03-Jan-16 10:00:18

Never drink at home or at family and friend gatherings as DH is a recovering alcoholic, and I support him to stay on track . I do enjoy a glass of wine when out with girl friends though ,none planned for Jan so drink free January for me !!

vegasmags Sun 03-Jan-16 09:52:25

I decided I would give this dry January a go, and abstained on New Year's Day. Last night, I dined 'in' at our local and excellent chippy, where my friend and I were presented with large glasses of complimentary wine and the compliments of the season. Consequently, my steely resolve lasted all of 24 hours ...

Iam64 Sun 03-Jan-16 08:14:37

I don't drink to excess, haven't done for over 20 years because of medication I take to keep RA under control. Pre medication, I didn't drink Monday - Thursday but as I don't have more than one small glass of wine, I have one between 6 and 7 pm most evenings.
Lent is between 10 February and 23 March this year and that's the period when I will (as usual) give up chocolate, biscuits etc. This year I may give up alcohol as well, or at least only drink it at the weekend.

Good luck to everyone who wants to make positive changes in their lives. A new year seems to encourage us to at least consider the possibilities.

Maggiemaybe Sun 03-Jan-16 07:57:29

Right, jingl, I'll reword it. "Fewer calories than beer, jingl. And better for one than gin".

Anya Sat 02-Jan-16 22:46:06

Monica - simply take a 'no' as a 'no'. No hidden agenda, no feeling uncomfortable or defensive, quite comfortable in my own skin and that I don't have to jump to your tune and we don't have to justify ourselves to you but as it happens Maggie & JG have said it all. So peace.

Well done NanKate and yes, I've had successful day all round.

jinglbellsfrocks Sat 02-Jan-16 22:34:34

Maggiemaybe "Fewer calories than beer though, jingl. And better for you than gin wink"

Sorry, but what exactly did you mean by that? confused

I can assure you I don't drink gin! hmm

jogginggirl Sat 02-Jan-16 21:44:46

You see NanKate - you've got the hang of it already ... grin
First weekend can be tricky and you're nearly there - well done smile

Couple of glasses wine going free here rq and annsixty - enjoy smile

NanKate Sat 02-Jan-16 21:07:16

Annsixty if I was in your situation, which I see from your Profile, I would use alcohol and plenty of it to get me through too.

rosequartz Sat 02-Jan-16 20:50:48

I always find it difficult to give up anything on 1st January - there is so much food left in the house, Christmas cake, unopened boxes of chocolates etc.
1st February is a much better time!

Ana Sat 02-Jan-16 20:27:39

Good on yer, annsixty - it's your life, never mind what anyone else says! smile

annsixty Sat 02-Jan-16 20:23:42

Just to add to previous post , H is already in bed. Horses for courses springs to mind.

rosequartz Sat 02-Jan-16 20:21:25

Good for you annsixty

I would say 'cheers' but I have finished my two glasses of wine for this evening and I shouldn't have any more smile
(should have had a G&T before hmm)

annsixty Sat 02-Jan-16 20:14:56

I like the taste of wine. I like a G&T a couple of times a week before s meal. I really enjoy and appreciate a good whisky. I totally support the people who want to give it up for a month but I won't be joining you although I wish you well. I drink to help my current situation, weak though that is. I need a prop now and then to help me through and I make no apologies for it.

NanKate Sat 02-Jan-16 19:55:05

Thanks Joggingirl. I see you as Head Prefect, as you have done it all before and can keep our morale up.

I'm all ready for day 3. smile

Ana Sat 02-Jan-16 18:05:26

Thank you, jogginggirl, I'm sure the sentiments expressed in your post will resound with many.

jogginggirl Sat 02-Jan-16 17:57:05

I am one of the dry January gang, I previously introduced a Dry September thread back in 2015. I don't drink excessively but I do enjoy a nice glass of wine with dinner, a glass of rosé on a warm day and and a I do love a gin and tonic with my dh who is a bit of a gin connoisseur grin

We spend quite a lot of time in France and take a keen interest in the wine growing areas, and, of course, sampling the wines. So, yes, I do enjoy drinking alcohol because I like the taste - I don't get legless, I drink within safe limits but every now and then I like to stop. I like to monitor what I eat as well and having eaten many rich foods in the lead up to and during Christmas - I now find I want to give my system a rest and return to a more simple diet.

At the end of January I hope to have lost a little weight, I hope to be fitter as I will also be stepping up my exercise. I will not be rushing for a drink on 1st February because I am not dependent on alcohol but if I want to drink wine I will.

Since returning to Gransnet last year (after some years away) I have experienced very kind support and I have tried to offer the same to others. I am not confrontational and I would not like to make anyone feel uncomfortable because of their choices or decisions.

I would like to wish everyone following this thread - lots of success - indeed good luck to anyone who is changing any aspect of their lives in order to achieve a better lifestyle.

Vivre et laisser vivre
tchsmile

Maggiemaybe Sat 02-Jan-16 17:37:49

I'm sure it is, Ana. I do usually give something up for Lent. And failed miserably when it was cheese. I barely managed a bad-tempered fortnight grin My name is Maggie and I'm a cheesoholic.

Alea Sat 02-Jan-16 17:36:38

No chance, here. Feeling sorry for Grace yesterday who was likewise feeling sorry for herself, I was halfway down a G&T before I remembered "dry January". Might try February and it's a shorter monthtchgrin

Ana Sat 02-Jan-16 17:30:50

• 82% felt a sense of achievement
• 79% saved money
• 62% had better sleep
• 62% had more energy
• 49% lost weight

The above might just as easily apply to those who give up chocolate or chips for a month. It's probably the sense of achievement that makes the 'giving up' worth it for many people.

suzied Sat 02-Jan-16 17:29:37

Yes a chilled glass or two of Sauvignon or Chablis if I'm treating myself is one of life's pleasures. Ok it's bad for health in the long run, but so are many other enjoyable things. life's for living at the end of the day , why should non drinkers query our resolve to give up something we enjoy for a month? I don't much like chocolate but I wouldn't sneer at someone who gave it up for lent just because I would find it easy. Alcohol is a pleasurable relaxant and I wouldn't want to give it up completely. I did over indulge with the champers on New Year's Eve, but heyho I was in convivial company, we had a huge laugh, I didn't drive or operate machinery, and I have now recovered and I'm on dry day 2. It's back to the gym on Monday as well.