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Alea Sun 13-Dec-15 07:44:17

Soontobe has made a point that there should be more diversity on GN.
What do others think?
It is a tricky one because first of all GN is open to all who choose to contribute, but obviously self-selecting to a degree just by the site name and target group.
It is also hard to establish the degree of diversity among members as we retain anonymity and are under no obligation to reveal or even refer to ethnic background, religious affiliation, physical or any other disability, political inclination ( well some people are very clear on that, but not necessarily all) education, age, colour or shoe size.
So who's to say?
Does it really matter?
tchconfused

Alea Sun 13-Dec-15 19:53:56

Things go in peoples' memory Ab.
So for instance, for posters to say who knows whether we are diverse or not, well when many photos have been published, in=t cant be wiped out of brains that there were not many afro carribeans among regulars
And a whole load of other details cannot be wiped from brains either

I think this is what Maggiemaybe was referring to. Sounds a lot like some things can't be wiped out of brains to me. Apology in order???
tchconfused

Alea Sun 13-Dec-15 19:39:57

I asked a question (second line)
I then gave one sidel of the argument which happened to be my own opinion
(lines 3 - 7)
I then opened it for discussion (one 8) with a closing opinion couched in the form of a question.
A fairly run of the mill format for initiating a proposal and counter proposal in a debate.
Your point is...?

petallus Sun 13-Dec-15 19:35:13

Especially when it's an opinion which is obviously going to be disagreed with by nearly everyone, including yourself!!!

Ana Sun 13-Dec-15 19:31:23

Do you really think GNHQ keep a list of 'recorded' unfounded complaints?

Ana Sun 13-Dec-15 19:30:11

Really? I've never known GNHQ to offer the option of having a reported post 'recorded'. To what purpose? confused

Very odd.

petallus Sun 13-Dec-15 19:29:42

Alea if you want to start a thread on diversity because you are interested in what other Gnetters think, why not just do it rather than quote soon?

Luckygirl Sun 13-Dec-15 19:29:27

I am 91, and a black wheelchair using lesbian. Bra size 48FFF. I have 20 great GC and my OH is Russian, aged 102 and is going skiing this winter. I can do diversity! grin

soontobe Sun 13-Dec-15 19:26:41

I told them I wanted it recorded Ana.

Everyone can start to write all sorts of things they think someone has said on this forum, without a shread of evidence. Which is what Maggiemaybe has just done.

Is that really where everyone wants this forum to go? It would stop gransnet in its tracks.

People had better think very carefully about this.

Being tired and forgetful is one thing. Making things up about what they think anyone has said, completely out of the blue, with nothing whatsoever to back it up, is quite another.

Or repeated hints of what someone has said, again with no evidence whatsoever.
People are ok with that? Report it. It then becomes recorded.

Maggiemaybe Sun 13-Dec-15 19:23:03

Report away, soon! tchgrin As you say, if only we had a decent search facility....

Ana Sun 13-Dec-15 19:16:49

Well, as Petra's post's still there it seems GNHQ didn't agree with you, soontobe.

Elegran Sun 13-Dec-15 19:14:34

Memories are long but uneven.

Elegran Sun 13-Dec-15 19:13:11

Did HQ agree that she was telling lies? No, don't answer that, we don't need to know.

I do think I remember a different poster saying that she loved winding people up.

soontobe Sun 13-Dec-15 19:10:55

I am going to report you too.
Either that, or you find the slightest bit of evidence[as perhaps you have me muddled with another poster] of which there isnt any to find.
Or else say sorry, as you know you have completely made something up.

soontobe Sun 13-Dec-15 19:08:04

I most certainly did not say that Maggiemaybe!
I reported petra earlier today for telling lies.
And will not hesitate if anyone else starts that malarkey!

rosequartz Sun 13-Dec-15 19:00:30

Just behave yourself in future Alea grin

A lot of is do lurk on Mumsnet shock
My DIL might think I'm spying on her if I do that!

And last but not least:
Galen how do you do those other emoticons? Very impressive!
I can't see them, all I can see is a little square sad

Sorry, can't take this thread seriously (which means my last but one remark wasn't the last one)

Maggiemaybe Sun 13-Dec-15 18:41:50

Anniebach, as soon says, some things "can't be wiped out of brains".

For some unknown reason, one thing that has stuck firmly in my brain is one of soon's very first posts, when she said how much she enjoyed winding people up. And no, I have no intention of searching for it! tchgrin

mcem Sun 13-Dec-15 18:35:09

Kindly put anniebach. This suggestion has been made before but I'm afraid we've once again been suckered into the attention-seeking egocentric world that is soon's.

Anniebach Sun 13-Dec-15 18:20:05

No more soon

Alea Sun 13-Dec-15 18:17:00

This should have been on the Katie Hopkins thread of course. Distinction getting more and more blurred.

Galen Sun 13-Dec-15 18:16:49

Ostrich more likely!????

Alea Sun 13-Dec-15 18:12:47

Gransnet members agreed with the anti Trump dismissal by Boris Johnson, the Met etc. Nobody is saying otherwise, but ooh no, you had to go and ask how many people had intimate knowledge of all of the London boroughs or else you wouldn't take any notice. You dismissed anything anybody said whether or not they lived or worked there and decided that because it was quite possible that radicalisation was taking place behind closed doors QED great swathes of London were indeed no go areas.
Pages and pages of sticking your fingers in your ears and going "La, la, I'm not listening".
You know what your attitude reminded me of?

Doubting Thomas

soontobe Sun 13-Dec-15 18:04:37

soon, get out of denial, it was the Met and the London Mayor who said Trump was wrong, not anyone here

There are up to 7 posters on there who say he is wrong.
Why are not posters reading properly? Perhaps they are tired.

DS. I agree with myself!

With repsect Anniebach, I am realising that you cannot remember much of what I write. And certainly not in correct detail. Fair enough, but if you can, have a search, so you can get it correct as I went through DS details before with you.

I have no idea which site you think I use regularly. I would be very interested to know myself!

Please please please granset, give us a decent search facility, so that all of us can check what we write. This is getting very silly!
Memories are far from accurate.

Lilygran Sun 13-Dec-15 17:58:35

Galen how do you do those other emoticons? Very impressive!

Anniebach Sun 13-Dec-15 17:38:27

soon, get out of denial, it was the Met and the London Mayor who said Trump was wrong, not anyone here yet you say you sat on the fence , right I will be honest with you soon, you have a desperate need for attention , you join threads , then say your leaving the thread, then back you bounce to add more . You were not taught of the two world wars in school, you are in your fifties so let's take 55, I asked you for your opinion on Donald Soper but you said he was before your time, he didn't die untill 1998 , a few weeks later you said you didn't agree with his views. How on earth can a Methodist in her fifties not attended a Donald Soper lecture held in Methodists churches throughout the country every year, you didn't know the name of your second in command because you forget names , you google bible passages and yes I know from which site, I suggest in christian love you find a different site.

I am sorry but this had to be said soon, you either need attention or you are enjoying winding posters up.

Alea Sun 13-Dec-15 17:33:07

I do apologise if you feel I should not have started a thread based on a comment by another poster.
Well, actually I don't apologise at all and I take exception to the thread police suggesting I or anybody else " should confine myself to my own opinions and not those of others" - patronising or what? Raising a subject following on from what somebody has said, isn't that how discussions can start?
I asked a question about a topic which might have led to fruitful discussion if it had not reverted to the usual topic.
IMHO high handed petallus