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rosequartz Fri 11-Dec-15 10:07:33

You maynot want to, but if it were me I would take it as a sign that your mum w8uld like you and your sister to mend bridges.

I don't know the story, and you may not want to risk being rebuffed and more heartache however.

flowers

Anniebach Fri 11-Dec-15 10:01:56

Are you missing your sister morethan?

I had a dream recently about my husband , he died 1975, it was wonderful , we laughed together , he was still young and I didn't feel old , woke up and felt such grief , I felt as I did forty years ago , wanted to go back to sleep in the silly hope I would continue with the dream . I do so feel for you x

soontobe Fri 11-Dec-15 09:26:56

[hugs] Maybe christmas is stirring things up for you? I find dreaming about those who have died, comforting after a few years. But I seem to know at some point in the dream, that they may no longer be alive really.

morethan2 Fri 11-Dec-15 07:55:39

About my mum who died in 1979. I wish I hadn't because now I'm feeling wretched. Weeping and grief stricken all over again. I dreamt about her a lot in the first two years, then intermittently and less as time went on. Birthdays and anniversaries mostly. But nothing at all in the last five years. Last night I was with one of my sisters ( who hasn't spoken to me since my dad died about two years ago) and my mother was waiting for me. She showed me were she was living and said it was lovely. She asked about my children and I went to get some photos and when I returned she'd gone. I wandered round this strange tidy house looking for her until someone said very matter of factly Oh she's gone. I ran out to see if I could catch up with her. Then woke up in this state. What a bummer!sad Any of you had a similar dream after so long?