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Common usage of words that drive me nuts.......

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Raniji Mon 12-Oct-15 21:30:12

Whatever happened to the perfectly good and active verb, "Lie"? As in "I'm going to go lie down for awhile....." The poor, neglected verb has been replaced by the use of "lay" - for just about everything! I even hear it on BBC and NPR - help!

Balini Thu 15-Oct-15 20:11:11

"It were us money" instead of "It was our money"

grannybuy Thu 15-Oct-15 19:40:54

I recently participated in an online course in proofreading. I had a telephone 'tutorial' with the teacher, during which he told me that I 'overcorrected' the lack of punctuation in the given texts. He obviously didn't attend the same schools as I did. Some people do not understand how punctuation, or lack of it, can completely change the meaning, and/ or, the understanding of text.

grannybuy Thu 15-Oct-15 19:25:17

I think in this case the verb, ( drive/ drives ) relates to usage, ( the subject ) therefore drives is the appropriate tense.

Hattiehelga Thu 15-Oct-15 18:30:41

I should "of" - NO NO NO !!! Where did this come from as the wrong use of "have" ?

It is 3 a.m. in the morning: it is 10 p.m. in the evening. EITHER use a.m. or P.M. by themselves or don;t use them and just say morning or evening.
GRRRR !!!

Ana Thu 15-Oct-15 17:55:49

I have just used 'different to' on another thread without thinking! As soon as I'd posted I was glad it wasn't on this thread...grin

Conni7 Thu 15-Oct-15 17:53:40

Quite! I won't say "absolutely" in case I annoy Sue162's DH. Apparently "different to" is taught at school now, but if you're different you are moving away "from" something surely.

Meersbrook123 Thu 15-Oct-15 17:43:39

My pet hate is 'different to'. How on earth can anything be different TO? Might as well say 'similar from' but we wouldn't, would we?

Sue162 Thu 15-Oct-15 17:33:57

My DH, who has thoroughly enjoyed reading this forum, insists that I point out the constant use of the word "absolutely" instead of the simple "yes". I apologise if this has been brought up before on another forum, but it has now become so widespread that it is driving him up the wall. Unfortunately for me, he repeats the word every time he hears it, thus putting me through double the irritation. angry

Conni7 Thu 15-Oct-15 17:15:30

Wonderful!! Thank you Elegran. I'll enjoy reading all those when I have an afternoon to spare.

Conni7 Thu 15-Oct-15 17:12:12

How about "It looks like it's going to rain"? What happened to "as if" - I never hear it nowadays? "Y'know" every few words - sportsmen are the worst at this. "Sticks in my craw", "up for grabs" - horrible expressions.
I don't care much for "drives me nuts" either, but then I'm a pedant.

entropy Thu 15-Oct-15 16:54:59

Within the confines of political correctness imposed by our local trendy cretins. Teachers are unable to correct bad English because to do so might give the poor little dears feelings of inadequacy.

Elegran Thu 15-Oct-15 16:27:59

Have a look on Pedants' Corner - www.gransnet.com/forums/pedants_corner , AdeleJay. There are lots of threads on pet hates. Yu will probably find one on punctuation there (particularly the Grocers' apostrophe)

AdeleJay Thu 15-Oct-15 16:24:11

I enjoyed reading this so much. Perhaps someone should start a thread re punctuation, especially on signage? smile

grabba Thu 15-Oct-15 15:28:08

Saying an item is on the floor instead of on the ground when outside.

Jackthelad Thu 15-Oct-15 15:26:45

My bête noire are the phases so often heard "me personally" and
hosspitaal

Bijou Thu 15-Oct-15 14:26:27

The use of a decade instead of ten years. Also "In point of time" used on the BBC. "We was" instead of we were."

SueDoku Thu 15-Oct-15 14:11:14

Bet your two teenagers watched 'Neighbours' at the time eccentric? The 'Aussie uplift' at the end of sentences drives me nuts too... but not as much as people who say 'nuculer' instead of 'nuclear'. When President Obama was elected, a snippet from a speech that he gave came on the radio as I was driving to work, and I actually cheered to hear the word pronounced correctly after 8 years of drawled mispronunciation smile

eccentric Thu 15-Oct-15 13:09:39

What really gets me is when a sentence spoken ends on the up. Difficult to explain. It became fashionable to do this a few years ago. My two teenagers at that time were always picked up on it. I'm relieved to say they do not do it now,aged 23 ,21 and 41. There was a guy on radio 4, during an interview, every sentence.I had to turn it off.

seacliff Thu 15-Oct-15 11:52:47

I agree with "can I get a coffee/beer" etc being annoying.

It seems that nearly all younger people now say this, instead of "can I have a coffee please". It has happened over maybe the last 8 years or so. I just wondered where it came from - possibly an American TV show?

I suppose if that's all we have to worry about, things can't be too bad!

TriciaF Thu 15-Oct-15 11:28:23

I heard of someone who was in a town in Holland and was looking for the railway station.
She asked a passerby, "Do you know where the railway station is?" He replied "Yes" and walked on . smile

Cosafina Thu 15-Oct-15 11:17:26

Ah grans, you are all adorable! I thought I was alone in my pedantry.... sigh! smile

sue01 Thu 15-Oct-15 11:04:11

What drives me absolutely bonkers... and with cold weather on the way, it's going to start cropping up again...

"wrap up warm"

aaaarrrrgh.... even the BBC do it !!

Whatever happened to adverbs ????

KatyK Thu 15-Oct-15 11:00:45

When in a café and people ask the assistant 'Can I get a coffee?'

Thebeeb Thu 15-Oct-15 10:36:52

Not sure why but 'some time soon' and 'any time soon' drive me nuts.

Napoleon Thu 15-Oct-15 10:23:27

Uz. Used frequently by presenters on radio,tv, it drives me mad.