As I have said before[though I realise you are not particularly talking about me], I would love to see posters posting a thread or post saying, I am glad to be Pakistani or Sri Lankan because
Why shouldnt they? Good for them. I might join them if I was Pakistani or whatever.
What on earth has xenophobia got to do with this.
Just because a person or many people are glad to be something, doesnt mean that they hate something else in any way, shape or form.
Why should it? There is no connection.
If I buy 1 veg this week, doesnt mean that I hate all the other veg in the shop.