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Flying tomorrow......help!

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Katek Fri 25-Sept-15 19:26:55

I am not a good flier at the best of times-in fact I didn't fly for 40 years. I had largely overcome my fears, but for some reason I'm up to ninety about our flight tomorrow to start our holiday. I can only assume I've used a lot of my emotional/psychological reserves fighting the chest problems I've had. (By the way, got new inhalers from consultant and HUGE improvement!)
Don't feel at the moment as if there's something nice on the horizon, more like a countdown to disaster. I know I'm overthinking yet again but I can't get it to stop.

jogginggirl Sat 26-Sept-15 22:28:32

Well done katek - now enjoy smile

RAZZLEDAZZLE Sun 27-Sept-15 08:56:50

I just try to imagine I am sitting in a coach, and when thereis bit of turbulence, we are going over a bumpy road. It's the taking off and landing I don't like. Well done for doing it enjoy your holiday, we are off to Gran Caneria tomorrow. X

magsmay Sun 27-Sept-15 12:02:43

Hello Katek, years ago I came across some advice re. fears from Dr. Claire Weeks who was a very good health writer with her excellent advice. What she said was "face it, accept it and float over it" I have found this so helpful and always sit quiet and say it to myself.

Hope it helps.

magsmay Sun 27-Sept-15 12:04:54

Dear Katek, would you mind sharing your good news re. new inhalers? Is this

susie511 Sun 27-Sept-15 19:01:19

There's an excellent book called "Flying with Confidence" (recommended by Gransnet a couple of years ago) written by a BA pilot and a psychologist. It really helped me before we flew to see our daughter in Australia, which I was very nervous about. The piece I particularly remember, describing turbulence, is roughly as follows: "Imagine the plane is a cork, bobbing about on the surface of a river. Sometimes the water is rough and the cork bobbles up and down quite dramatically, then it smooths out again. But all absolutely safe." Now I always keep that picture in my mind when flying and it really does help!

loopylou Sun 27-Sept-15 19:22:39

It's not that I mind flying, it's that turbulence makes me very sick, despite travel tablets, wrist bands, sitting over the wings etc, etc. I have horribly sensitive sense of balance (I can't stand upright with my eyes closed, let alone balance on one leg envy)
However, listening to something/anything with ear phones does seem to help as does not sitting by a window.

Not going to put me off though!

annsixty Sun 27-Sept-15 20:25:54

The cork analogy is similar to the explanation given to me by cabin crew when I was very nervous, The young steward said very matter of factly " we are just flying over the top of clouds". As he continued to see to passenger needs and serve drinks etc I concluded that if he wasn't concerned neither should I be.

NanKate Sun 27-Sept-15 20:52:54

I haven't flown for some years and also like Loopylou get travel sickness! even in a car.

As we speak my DS is flying to Hong Kong on a Literary Tour and I keep checking on Flight Tracker which country he us flying over and at what height and what speed. To be honest I find it quite reassuring to do that. The first thing I will do tomorrow is switch on the computer and check the flight out.

Our next door neighbour is a BA Pilot and he is so laid back that if ever I do fly again I want him to be in the cockpit. smile

Anyway have a lovely hols Katek

NanKate Sun 27-Sept-15 20:53:47

I don't know where the exclamation Mark came from. hmm