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So what was your plan?

(33 Posts)
annsixty Wed 26-Aug-15 08:52:15

My life has taken so many unexpected turnings I couldn't possibly have planned them. Certainly not turned out as I hoped but that applies to so many.

Greyduster Wed 26-Aug-15 08:36:12

I thought I had my life planned out, and marriage didn't figure in it - and then I met DH. Plans haven't figured much since then!

vampirequeen Wed 26-Aug-15 08:27:49

Life and plans don't mix. Even small plans can go astray. We're supposed to be going away in the caravan tomorrow but DH has hurt his back and if it doesn't improve we'll have to cancel.

Grannyknot Wed 26-Aug-15 08:20:25

There's also a saying "If you want to make God/Fate/the Universe* laugh, mention your plans!"

Delete as appropriate or substitute your own word.

My plan was to muddle through grin

EhUp Wed 26-Aug-15 08:17:57

I a half way through life and just roll with it too.

Indinana Wed 26-Aug-15 07:57:19

That was John Lennon, Jane10. I never thought I'd spend most of my life in Devon - not quite the other side of the world like absent, but a goodish distance from the SE where I was born and grew up.
Not sure I had plans, just lots of ideas which changed on a regular basis! I think, as JL said, life did just happen....

Jane10 Wed 26-Aug-15 07:49:28

Who was it that said 'life is what happens while we sit around making plans!' I certainly couldn't have predicted how things turned out for me.

absent Wed 26-Aug-15 07:45:58

I was never a great planner –more roll with the tide and float with the punches. However, looking back at my younger self, I never had the slightest idea that I would spend the last years of my life in a country as far away from where I was born, grew up and spent most of my adult life as it is possible to be. I intended or, at least, hoped to have several children but only produced the one, a wonderful one but nevertheless a solitary child. I wandered into publishing as a career after leaving university and ended up writing non-fiction books on all sorts of subjects from ballet to feng shui and from yoga to fine art, but mostly, good heavens, cookbooks. I vaguely expected to become a grandmother one day, but it was a huge surprise when I did – and then again and again and…

Do I regret any of it? Well, not much. Do I have a clue how it happened? Well not much.

How about your plans?