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It's that time of years again, groan!

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Indinana Thu 13-Aug-15 09:52:39

If it was up to me I wouldn't turn the TV on at all today. Or next Thursday. I am pleased, of course, for the sweet young things delightedly opening their envelopes to see a string of A* results. But I do not care enough to watch wall to wall coverage on all news channels. Every year.

downtoearth Wed 19-Aug-15 21:14:59

Thank you Indinana....I will be proud of her whatever the outcomesmile

Ana Wed 19-Aug-15 21:18:55

Nellie, of course you will! smile

merlotgran Wed 19-Aug-15 22:21:50

Same here, Anniebach and downtoearth. DGD1 gets her GCSE results tomorrow.

Fingers crossed for all of them.

durhamjen Wed 19-Aug-15 22:35:51

Good luck to all of them.

Anniebach Wed 19-Aug-15 23:02:21

Downtoearth, I am to sit clutching mobile , if results are good she will ring then go for coffee with friends before coming to me,,if not so good I am to go to the school immediately , we do have our uses

Thank you Indiana

Anniebach Wed 19-Aug-15 23:05:33

Merlotgran , yes fingers crossed for them, bless them such a nail biting time and such a long wait from May to AUGUST

Think you Jen

Indinana Wed 19-Aug-15 23:09:06

Good luck to you too merlot. I do realise it is an exciting time for all the families concerned. I have several years to go before my any of my GC will be nervously eagerly picking up their results!

downtoearth Thu 20-Aug-15 11:23:31

well this morning has been one of geat dithering and anxiety more so because E's plan was up,breakfast,shower bus to school,it appears that the collection times have been changed and she wasn't aware,this has thrown her into a great panic and we have resumed the rabbit caught in headlights mode,she is not ready to deal with this and asked her friend to collect and post to her ....not sure I can cope with another few days of this drama ..poor kid sad.......good luck to your DGD's Anniebach and Merlot

merlotgran Thu 20-Aug-15 12:09:05

Poor you, downtoearth. So much better to get it over with but they don't see it that way do they?

Thankfully, DGD did well so has gone out for a celebratory lunch with her mates. She's worried about her chemistry grade because she needed an A and got a B so it seems no matter how well you do there is still anxiety lurking somewhere unless you are exceptionally brilliant and get straight As

Good luck.....again smile

And anniebach

Anniebach Thu 20-Aug-15 12:38:36

Downtoearth, the poor girl and poor you, an even longer wait, how cruel.

A good result for us , a re sit for maths but this was expected , interview for the sixth form and A Level subject choices also settled , between A Level and GCSE results in the same month I am quite exhausted

Thank you all for good wishes

downtoearth Thu 20-Aug-15 13:06:09

Am feeling quite despondent on her behalf,she is dreading the results.
She knows she has made mistakes in being rebellious through a fear of not coping with the pressure..and she didn't cope at all.
we have now learnt today that an apprenticeship that has been dangled like a carrot for the last 8 months in partnership with the school and a community project has been rejected,we have heard this through a third party at the community project.
She accepts that her behaviour in refusing to do an exam was a deciding factor in the decision.
she has faced rejection at a young age with repeated applications for jobs with too few places being available for many applicants.
Hence the fear of her exam results.
sixth form college at her school is not really an option for her now.
we now have to try and find a college course available before September,that can at least give her a foundation level place so that she can at least be in a place of education ....to say this last year of school has been extremely stressful is an understatement,and now I need to stay strong and positive to support her through this,and feel like I am scraping the barrel of my reserves. Think I may retire to my bed an have the vapors today or at least a VERY large wine

congratulations to your DGDs annie and merlot it is a very stressful time for all of the family isn't it.sunshine

Anniebach Thu 20-Aug-15 13:21:03

Downtoearth, that she is loved so deeply by you will strengthen her, together you will find a way for her to continue her studies and she will shine , take care of yourself too x