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today I have been a slob

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Greyduster Tue 16-Jun-15 11:51:54

We generally have a slob day when GS has been for the weekend and has gone home. Near total inertia has to be the order of the day. We are generally active people, but I think a day just treading water is bliss now and then.

whitewave Tue 16-Jun-15 09:15:32

Today I am going to be more active - so shower in a minute then whizz through the house to tidy up then sort out something for supper tonight - put on 1lb overnight as a result of fish and chips last night then out into the garden and tie in dead head and generally do.

Teetime Tue 16-Jun-15 09:11:05

I'm all in favour of a rest day - trouble is DH doesn't do them at all! I feel that I always have to be doing something like he is whizzing about all the time. I've been having a lot of pain lately and was looking forward to nothing today except a meeting of the Charity I'm a trustee of this afternoon but at breakfast he said ' you need a walk we'll go into town'. sad he's right of course

hildajenniJ Tue 16-Jun-15 08:51:58

A day of doing nothing, and idling my time away is bliss. It is surprising how quickly the time passes when you have nowt to do! Was it Bing Crosbie and ? Who sang about being " busy doing nothing"?

thatbags Tue 16-Jun-15 08:35:07

I prefer a more positive slant: they are days of rest or days for standing and staring and thinking and reading and having ideas... That isn't slobbing.

downtoearth Tue 16-Jun-15 08:21:59

I am all in favour of slob days, especially when the batteries need recharging.

glammanana Tue 16-Jun-15 08:18:38

I love slobby days usually I will get showered and put on fresh PJs pile up some magazines needing to be read and feet up sometimes I don't even bother to answer the phone and just ignore everyone and everything it does you the world of good.

vampirequeen Tue 16-Jun-15 08:07:23

Everyone should have the occasional slobby day. It recharges your batteries. It's not natural to be on the move 24/7.

PRINTMISS Tue 16-Jun-15 07:37:25

Yes, at any time, I can just wander from room to room and look at all that needs to be done, then just sit and forget about it. Absolutely refreshing.

harrigran Tue 16-Jun-15 00:17:28

Yes definitely.

AshTree Mon 15-Jun-15 22:31:02

Are there any other sorts of days? confused

merlotgran Mon 15-Jun-15 22:21:17

I don't slob around much in the summer as I can't wait to get outside although I often feed the chickens in my pyjamas.

The winter is a different matter though. Then I'm like Mishap and need deadlines and a bit of pressure to give me a kick up the whatsit.

Lona Mon 15-Jun-15 22:09:52

I can slob for England and why not? I've worked hard all my life and this is what retirement is for, as I keep reminding my children wink

Mishap Mon 15-Jun-15 21:47:04

I'm all for slobby days! - except when, as now, I have deadlines to meet and the slobbing about is pure displacement activity! Anyone else need to be under pressure i order to knuckle down and get things done?

Deedaa Mon 15-Jun-15 20:54:57

Had a very slobby Sunday yesterday. DH tell's me I deserve it after a week looking after him and GS2. Not convinced that his thinking is correct - but who am I to argue smile

rubylady Mon 15-Jun-15 20:52:08

I had some jobs to do this morning but decided to not bother and go for a walk with my doggie to a cafe nearby I have been intending to go to for a while. As I haven't been out and about since landing here properly, 8 months ago now, I felt really good that I had made the effort to go out and talk to some new people. A step in the right direction?

And my doggie loved it, a sausage and attention. smile

vegasmags Mon 15-Jun-15 20:34:35

Yes, I do too. I can't see the point of being retired if you can't just please yourself and let it all go hang when you feel like it. I seem to have at least 2 days a week like that and I thoroughly enjoy them

Jomarie Mon 15-Jun-15 20:30:02

Yep I certainly do have these days too whitewave and am so pleased that I can - one of the perks of being retired and not having to chase your own tail all the time. Funnily enough I usually find that I sleep very well after a "slobby" day as well - not sure why that is though as certainly haven't physically over stretched myself or mentally for that matter - perhaps it's just because I'm relaxed. confused

granjura Mon 15-Jun-15 20:09:03

Hey why not - love days like that, but only once in a while. Fab ;)

Been really busy today- teaching all morning, decorating all afternoon...

but next week I'll probably have a 'total cabbage' day.

loopylou Mon 15-Jun-15 19:22:14

Absolutely whitewave and why not?
Not very often and I usually feel guilty afterwards but I call it a 'brain rest day', very necessary at times!

whitewave Mon 15-Jun-15 19:16:23

Do other Grans have days when they can't be a--d to do anything? I have had one of those today and have spent most of the time reading - chatting on here, not sure what else but the day has gone very quickly. Even had fish and chips for supper .