I wasn't saying that Ex was weak, although he did once say he thought he was. I was saying that people who stay with people like him aren't weak, neither are they if they go.
I did however always think that his mother was weak, she was a real ditherer and apparently always had been, according to her sisters. She never seemed to have an opinion of her own, always letting others choose for her. Then fighting hard to show disappointment because it wouldn't have been her choice!
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