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OK, the Idiot has stopped being funny now!

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Nelliemoser Thu 14-May-15 17:16:45

Oh kitty (((hugs))) your poor daughter. I don't know what to say.

Well I know what I would say but given that your idiot has no shame, it's going to be hard to get at him, as he clearly would not worry about showing himself up as the A* H* he is and might make even more trouble.

Could you daughter's friends and ?siblings make sensible and measured condemnation of his nastiness?

POGS Thu 14-May-15 17:06:16

Kitty

What a s--t!

He just can't grow up, as you are well aware the same as our 'idiot'. Ours has told our GD she is going to America for a holiday next year for daddies wedding but he hasn't got any money, obtained leave from school without daughters knowledge [mad] and let's her down so many times when it comes to having her for the week end it's causing her issues.

Pair of prats for sure but hell yours is a nasty piece of work doing that, wouldn't be so nasty if the children were older and could see for themselves what he is doing, cowardly man.

Eloethan Thu 14-May-15 16:16:20

I am disgusted at someone writing such a cruel and crude remark on Facebook. He really has shown himself to be a despicable person and I would hope that even some of his friends and acquaintances might be equally disgusted.

annsixty Thu 14-May-15 15:23:24

SO so sorry kitty for you and your DD. How can someone humiliate the mother of their children and by inference their own son? Cruel beyond words. My own soon to be ex SiL is a model of tolerance and reason compared to the ones I read about on here.

Grannyknot Thu 14-May-15 15:01:33

How appalling. To me that is a real "facebook fail". Can't it be reported in some way? What a horrible person.

Brendawymms Thu 14-May-15 14:57:39

Take the Pratt to the cleaners, it could not happen to a 'nicer' man. Your DD will be well rid of him. Once he finds that the grass in the next field is not greener but full of flees, ticks and other nasties your DD will be free of him.

Gagagran Thu 14-May-15 14:56:51

kitty I hope your DD passes this on to her solicitor. What a pathetic excuse for a man he sounds.

Anne58 Thu 14-May-15 14:52:21

kitty the facebook post is absolutely disgraceful! I do hope that you are able to use it in some way to show exactly what a horrid, pathetic example of a supposed man he is! I am VERY angry on behalf of you and your DD.

How on earth would your DGS react if he ever saw that when he was older, and found he had practically been referred to as the result of what the idiot said on FB!

kittylester Thu 14-May-15 14:41:15

We've found it is BEST to see what he is up to as he has put the most appalling things on before and they have a fair few mutual friends.

He hasn't got any money Soutra, he earns a lot, spends a lot on really showy stuff (he did buy DD an ipad last christmas - after they had been apart 6 months) and then goes into a decline when he can't pay his tax bill. They didn't own a house because he had just finished a 'voluntary arrangement'.

Soutra Thu 14-May-15 14:35:17

I am also reminded of a piece of good advice "Don't get mad, get even "
Make sure DD's solicitor takes him for every penny, do NOT be kind or reasonable, and yes, probably block him on FB , what you and DD don't see can't hurt her.

Lona Thu 14-May-15 14:31:55

That's horrible! But fairly typical idiot behaviour.

Have you all thought about blocking him from your fb pages, then none of you would see his nasty posts?

Mishap Thu 14-May-15 14:21:00

Worth ignoring - keep DD of Facebook!

kittylester Thu 14-May-15 14:18:50

Apparently, the divorce papers arrived with the Idiot today. I can tell as he has taken to FB to post a less than flattering photo of DD with the comment 'The morning after B (their son) was conceived, in Margate of all places. What a costly s**g that turned out to be!'

I am so cross that I don't quite know what to do! DD is so upset she is watching CBBC under a quilt with the children when she has two cakes that need doing by Saturday am. angry

And, now I'm going to visit mum, so she'd better behave if she knows what's good for her!