I've been thinking about it all again. There's something awful about the aggression some males feel is somehow OK to express. Of course this doesn't apply to all men but somehow you don't seem to find (so many) young women who regard a punch up as a good end to a night out. As women, we are crucially aware of the risks of being attacked and raped if out alone at night but there are risks for men too. I'm speaking personally here: my DS was attacked by a gang when walking home late one night. What a mess they made of him. Fortunately he's more or less OK now (apart from a distorted nose after its being broken by the bastardsyoung scamps. His friend was less lucky this weekend in a similar situation. He has now lost an eye. Its appalling.
How can people make themselves do such awful things to another person? I just simply couldn't kick someone in the head etc.
Is there something about men having different levels of empathy? I can't even watch Casualty as I'm always thinking "that's someone's husband/daughter/family etc.
I do remember Sandi Toksvig once saying that wars should be fought by Nanas. We'd all have to come on a bus, we'd all have to go for a wee then share photos of DGSs with the opposing Nanas, have a nice cup of tea/glass of wine and just sort it all out.
Sorry rambling!
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