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A slightly different Proud Mummy Moment!

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Anne58 Fri 01-May-15 01:21:24

Good evening all,

As some may know, yesterday would have been my DS2's birthday, he died aged 19 in December 2008.

Yesterday I had a little toddle to the church yard to where my beloved step father is buried, and where DS2's ashes are buried in the same plot.

But what completely "blew me away" were the posts on my sons FB page, so many of his friends and extended family had posted such lovely messages, I was (to quote the vernacular) gobsmacked.

Seven or so years later, there were messages, I wasn't surprised to see them for the first couple of years, but to see his peer group (age wise) still remembering and posting was incredibly touching! I especially liked the odd one along the lines of "Oi!, keep the party noises down mate, some of us are trying to get some sleep here!"

Anyway, to justify the OP, I am so proud that my darling boy is so fondly remembered with such affection and for so long. (I know it's not that long in the great scheme of things, but hopefully you will know what I mean, youngsters move on so quickly, and rightly so)

If you have, then thank you for reading this!

Anne58 Sat 02-May-15 10:59:58

Thank you all.

The original "wall" thing that was started on Facebook when he died was taken down (not sure why, and would love to have it reinstated, there were so many lovely comments) and the current one was put up to replace it. It is heart warming to see the posts that have been made.

MiniMouse Fri 01-May-15 23:36:12

phoenix He was obviously a special person who left special memories for his friends. How heartwarming to read his friends' messages flowers

Deedaa Fri 01-May-15 23:36:07

That's lovely phoenix I think it's wonderful that his friends still remember, he must have been a very special person. flowers

janeainsworth Fri 01-May-15 23:15:40

What a lovely tribute to your son, Phoenix flowers

glassortwo Fri 01-May-15 22:54:10

phoenix {{{hug}}} flowers

moomin Fri 01-May-15 22:30:47

phoenix flowers

mrshat Fri 01-May-15 21:47:38

What a lovely tribute to your son Phoenix Definite reason to be a very proud mum flowers

rosequartz Fri 01-May-15 16:42:52

It must have been lovely to see so many messages from his friends, remembering your beloved son.
It shows one of the positive aspects of FB where such wonderful tributes can be seen by all his friends and family.
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Nelliemoser Fri 01-May-15 15:54:43

Pheonix That is a lovely tribute from his friends all these years on. (((hugs))) to you.

merlotgran Fri 01-May-15 15:37:52

phoenix, A proud mummy is something you will always be.

Three cheers for your son's lovely friends.

janerowena Fri 01-May-15 14:58:02

flowers flowers flowers

Special people never die in our memories.

Coolgran65 Fri 01-May-15 14:27:05

What a lovely OP.

POGS Fri 01-May-15 11:13:26

Phoenix

Obviously I feel the same way as all other posters and sending you hugs too.

I couldn't help but notice the time you posted your OP and I hope you managed to eventually get some restful sleep , albeit with bitter sweet memories and personal thoughts. flowers

Mishap Fri 01-May-15 10:31:47

How very heartening, both because of the evidence of the affection in which your son was held, and also to see young people (who will have moved on in their lives from teenagers to young men - and maybe fathers) still taking the trouble to make their feelings known. Your son must have been very special indeed. Be proud. flowers

Crow Fri 01-May-15 10:08:40

flowers thank you for posting that Phoenix.

Lona Fri 01-May-15 09:12:30

How lovely that you can visit his page when you're feeling low, and get comfort from the affectionate remarks of your son's friends.
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Juliette Fri 01-May-15 09:07:24

flowers sent to you with love phoenix

Sleeping quietly safe and warm,
Warmed by the love he left behind x

Teetime Fri 01-May-15 09:04:08

phoenix I'm so glad this thoughtful act of his friends brought you comfort. flowers

ginny Fri 01-May-15 08:59:57

How lovely to know that he must have had such a positive effect on people who knew him. No wonder you are proud.

ninathenana Fri 01-May-15 08:38:56

Sounds like you are justifiably proud of you dear son. flowers phoenix

Greenfinch Fri 01-May-15 08:37:11

Thanks for your post PhoenixA lad to be proud of obviously but a bitter sweet time for you.

vegasmags Fri 01-May-15 08:20:39

Oh phoenix, great big hugs to you. So glad that your boy's friends have been able to bring you some comfort. flowers

Iam64 Fri 01-May-15 07:56:05

Thanks for your life affirming post phoenix. We hear a lot of moaning about young people, but your experience mirrors that of close friends whose boys died tragically young. The friendship group continue to commemorate their losses and we're 10 years on x flowers

shysal Fri 01-May-15 07:40:31

flowers sunshine

baubles Fri 01-May-15 07:33:15

That's a lovely tribute to your son Phoenix. I hope you were able to draw a little comfort from knowing that he was so loved by his friends. flowers