There are many phrases and words that are not in widespread use even in different parts of the county I live in. So I am rather surprised that a lot of people think that everything will be understood by everyone on here.
I dont even think there is merely a north/south divide on this. And perhaps a thought could be bourne in mind for those that do not have english as a first language.
Now I have got that off my chest! I really dont care if all sorts of strange words and phrases, local or otherwise are discussed.
indeed Pompa well said. I dip in and out of GN to learn,enjoy,empathise,rage,discuss......all sorts of things. I am not a grandmother or remotely near to being one, I am working full time. I do not, and have not ever felt that this site is elitist in any way, it is informative, funny, and sad sometimes, just like life really.
You still don't get it soontobe do you? Pompa ( bless him) was I suspect being slightly ironic, but it might be a fun thing to do. I really don't believe there is a fear of perceived elitism!
Nobody has accused you of opposing lifelong learning, you just seem to rule it out for yourself and moan at those who enjoy stimulating discussion and express themselves using language or concepts you appear to find over your head.
It may be that the majority of threads do not revolve exclusively around grandchild -related topics, but they do feature issues which we feel interest and apply to us as a community. Many (whew!) are lighthearted, some are ( ) very funny , and some posts downright silly. Horses for courses as they say..
Anyway, I see you are still here despite your threats to abandon this thread.
My point was, and still is[though I dont think I will repeat it again], is that some threads are rather incomprehensible in my opinion. Not all of them by a long way. I think I have made my point to most, so I will try and leave it at that.
There is a place for all types and levels of subject here. No way should we dumb down threads to satisfy a minority, threads would be boring for the majority.
There are about 100 topics discussed in any one day on gransnet. I would have said that most of them are serious. [Only about 1 in 7 are grandchild related]. I dont think that the thread that pompa has started is elitist at all. In the slightest. And I also have no problem wiht people learning throughout their lives. If you were to say look at the thread about colleges closing, you can see that.
There are hundreds of topics discussed on GN at any one time. Only a few of them are on the kind of thing where there are facts and concepts to be seriously put forward and debated. Only a few regular posters take part in these. Does it make Gransnet elitist that they use their knowledge and experience in their discussion? How about the posters who post elsewhere on other things? Is it elitist to chat about gardening or knitting?
That word list link is very interesting, but if we were to do it and post our "scores" would that be elitist? There been other, similar quizzes which a lot of people have done and posted about without being thought to be boasting about their personalities etc and being elitist, but I suspect that the OP would think so.
soutra you are so right. Thank you for reminding us of the real problems people face in life - I read that post too and was so uplifted and saddened all at the same time. Difficult words? Get a grip! Try living Joyce's life.
I have just come from reading Joycie's uplifting and truly humbling thread about her MND and how positively she and her lovely husband are facing life, and frankly I am feeling a bit sickened that we have reached 6 pages of posts (I know, mine included) about the moans of someone who wants threads on GN to be dumbed down because somebody CBA to understand accurate English words of more than one syllable, current idioms and normal grammar. Is this really the depths we have sunk to? For someone who says they are not going to post on threads such as these, OP seems to still be going strong, adding to my theory that it ain't over until the fat lady sings, Can someone please let me know when she has done so?
pompa. I don't know what's going on here. soon writes perfectly good, accurate English with a variety of words appropriate to the sentiment so I'm at a loss to understand why she's having a problem. Unless it's that traditional English thing of having a go at any enjoyment of education. Funny, that. I wonder why we come so low in international comparisons of educational achievement?
Well, no Eloethan. I just wish that easier words wre used. I just dont think that I am going to my grave thinking I wish I knew 2000 more words than I know.
It seems that I am not normal in this. I thought and assumed that I was!
We don't need all the words in the English language, there are a lot of duplicates, but there would be much less depth and texture to it without them. There are nuances of meaning between the "almost synonyms"