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Mishap Tue 03-Mar-15 20:36:46

The news from the Oxford study is so depressing.

It reminded me of when I was 16 and worked one summer in a children's home. The things that went on really shocked me. On the first night I heard a child sobbing and got up to see what I could do. A little boy of about 7 was being hit for not being able to wee. The bedwetters were all got up at midnight to wee, and if they could not do it they were hit. It was horrifying. And the next day I had to make the beds and went looking for a new pillowcase because a little girl's was filthy with green pus (she had an ear infection) - I was told off for being profligate - they would turn the pillowcase over, then inside out, then over again and make it last the week - it stank dreadfully. And I never saw her being treated for her ear.

They would send me to the beach on my own with about 10 children of different ages and I had full responsibility for their safety - it was a nightmare - I had little toddlers and teenagers, some of whom were really disturbed.

When I went to what was then the welfare department and expressed my concerns, I was completely dismissed as being too young to know what I was talking about. It played on my mind for years and I still feel upset about it.

It is sad that little seems to have changed. The sexual exploitation of these young girls is tragic.

loopylou Tue 03-Mar-15 20:41:12

Sickening and unforgivable, words fail me and I'm so, so angry when authorities have ignored and dismissed those who reported serious concerns allowing abuse to proliferate.

Mishap Tue 03-Mar-15 20:55:39

Indeed - it is the ignoring of what is going on that is so horrifying.

POGS Tue 03-Mar-15 21:16:11

The press conference given today by Maggie Bailey, the Chair of Oxfordshire Safegaurding Board made me spit to be honest.

How can you say on one hand between 2005 - 2010 there were ' repeated missed opportunities' for action to be have been taken' but find there was ' no willful professional fault' ? It must be me!

She did report there had been significant changes for the good since 2010 and we can only hope that countrywide councils, police, social services, NHS and government have woken up to the fact there is no hiding place for this gross neglect and dereliction of duty. It's such a massive problem and there has to be a total shift in how such cases are handled, hopefully that has started.

Rotherham, Oxford, Rochdale , where next? angry

I guess now this thread has started there will be the usual point made about politicians , clergy , white, you name it peadophile groups and that is a perfectly relevant point to make but in this instance it has to be said this a report into the same cultural issues as Rotherham and Rochdale yet even now the media fight shy of making connections , quite ridiculous.

Mishap Tue 03-Mar-15 22:01:18

There was also a radio progamme about how insurance companies influenced the actions to LAs who had reports of abuse in their establishments. It was chilling. LAs were fearful that any claims made against them might not be met by the insurance company, so used that as a reason to ignore them.

soontobe Wed 04-Mar-15 13:28:11

Ah. That may explain a huge lot of all of this.